TTC After a Loss

Intro~need a little support!

Hi Ladies,

I've been reading a lot of posts wanting to sympathize for a while now, but I figured I'd intro first. BFP in September, MMC in November, D&C 11/13. Were TTC for the first time again, and I'm in the awful 2WW period. The MMC was my first pregnancy ever, and I'm terrified about TTC again. Normal?? I work for an RE, so I knew the potential for miscarriage was there, but when it actually happens...so heartbreaking.

Re: Intro~need a little support!

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  • Thank you, and I'm sorry, I read the "rules," but I ended up even more confused :( just got my period, so it looks like I'll be here long enough to figure it out, unfortunately.
  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    edited January 2015
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to this board.

    ETA: If you're confused about board etiquette, please feel free to ask. Everybody makes mistakes, and if you say something that hurts someone on the board, apologize, learn from it, and we'll all move on. A general rule of thumb is to read and re-read before you post. 
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    I'll be at a new place providing support. 


  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. We have a very similar timeline with BFP, MMC, and d&c. Looks like you're about a week ahead of me... I'm also terrified, but I think that's par for the course from here on out... Hope you find support here and your stay is short. ((Hugs))
  • I'm sorry for your loss and it's normal to be scared to TTC again. Welcome to the board!
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss and it is scary TTC again. Give yourself time if you need to.

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
    "I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart) I am never without it." - e.e. cummings

  • I am very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

    As for board rules, the biggest one is give support (even if all you can offer is a virtual (hug) or an "I'm thinking about you.") to get support. I hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to our board.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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  • Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss. The fear is there for everyone, it's just knowing when the time is right i.e. the fear is outweighed by the want. Take time to heal. ((hugs))
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • Totally normal. welcome and good luck
  • I'm sorry for your loss. It is so heartbreaking :( I hope this board finds you comfort! It has for me.
    Me: 23 DH: 24
    Together: 9 Years
    Married: 9/28/13
    BFP #1: 7/11/14 | EDD: 3/21/15 | MMC: 8/28/14
    BFP #2: 3/20/15 | EDD: 12/1/15
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  • Welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss.   TTC after a loss can be difficult... I had a really hard time at first but it's gotten easier.
  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    edited January 2015
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel— got my first BFP at the end of August and then learned about my MMC and had a D&C at the end of September. We started trying TTC last month (and struck out), so I know all about the anxiety and it's totally normal. And, yes, the 2WW is sucky. 

    Anyway, welcome to the board. I hope you will find comfort and support here. The women on this board are truly wonderful. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


  • So sorry for your loss. The low % for something bad to happen doesn't seem so low when it happens to you. Welcome. I hope you are able to find comfort here.
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board
  • I'm sorry for your loss but welcome to the board.
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • I'm sorry you have to find yourself here, but WELCOME :)

    Me: 28 MH: 28  Married10/27/2012

    TTC Baby #1

    BFP: 9/2014 EDD: 6/9/2015 MC: 10/13/2014



  • I'm very sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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