Hey Gals.
So for almost 19 months I nursed my LO to sleep. When I weaned 2 weeks ago, we started rocking LO to sleep for naps and bedtime. But this can seriously go on for like an hour and a half. I don't have time to be sitting in the nursery for an hour and a half every night. Is there a way for me to just "train" her to go to sleep on her own in her bed, like, we do our bath, books, a few snuggles routine and then put her in bed and walk out of the room? She has her 2 blankets and a couple of stuffed animals, but nothing that she's overly attached to, like a lovey. I've tried having her cuddle with one of the stuffed animals while I rock her to try and make this lovey connection, but she's not into it at all. Please tell me there is hope.
Re: How do you put your LO to bed?
The fact that I didn't nurse him to sleep for long makes our transition much easier than yours. I'm sure that would have changed things for us.
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We are having success with a blend of methods. We do pj's, brush her teeth and then walk for 5 minutes. Then we tell her good night and lay her down. We then will pat her butt/back and shush for about 7-10 minutes. If she's not going down we will kiss her and leave for 5 minutes and then repeat the patting/shushing/crying as needed.
It took us about 3 good weeks before she "got it" so don't give up too quickly. She is still up multiple times at night and we're going to start this for MOTN waking but she had the flu so we cuddled at night a few more times. We'll start tacking MOTN waking this week.
Good luck! Have some wine ready because hearing your Lo cry is hard..
I know I totally screwed up by nursing her to sleep for so long, but it was so easy and I was lazy about it
I'm not against CIO, I feel sort of bad doing it to her at this age, because she's going to be so confused, but the kid does need to learn how to put herself to bed. I'm going to look up this sleep lady shuffle thing I keep hearing about that I think one of you mentioned. When you guys go in and do your checking, do you settle them down, or just pop your head in and show them you are there, or what?
Thanks again.
You're right, bargaining with a toddler IS ridiculous and I do it all the time! I really should stop that.
Thanks all for the routines, I'm definitely going to follow suit and hopefully it works out.
That said, he has been a great sleeper since then (knock on wood). We brush teeth, put on lotion, jammies, an sleep sack. Then, we read a few books, pray, and then cuddle while we sing a few lullabies. Lastly, we put him down awake, he says "nigh,nigh" and rolls over.
Usually he goes to bed right away but sometimes he'll play for up to 30 minutes.
The first night went well! She slept all night (about 12 hours), and woke up happy.
We're planning to keep her in her crib for as long as we can. We don't need the crib for any future babies, we're done at 2 kids. We didn't transition DD out of her crib and into a full size bed until she was 3. It was a lot longer than a lot of parents go, but she was happy in there, and not trying to climb out. This LO is an absolute monkey and so I'm really worried about what she'll do or get into if she does start climbing out of her crib.
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**DD1 - 7/9/98**
**DS - 11/9/00**
**DD2 - 4/30/13**