AW- RE appointment update that wasn't an RE appointment at all (so frustrated and ragey)

Crunkal

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. WTF was your OB thinking!?! I would have raged out.
Sending so many hugs.

imnotfancy

I'm so so sorry about your experience! 

Here, this is for your OB's office...

And this is what I recommend you do this evening...

rubysi

Hugs lady. When I read this I felt like this....

Then I had a moment of...

And then I decided this makes more sense.

Nikolie93

Well, this morning I just woke up sad and discouraged. I think I would rather be pissed and ragey! I do have a smile on my face for the first time since last night so I thank all you ladies! 

I honestly thought I was overreacting but now I am wondering if I will ever feel good about going back to that OB again. And I get rage when I think about the Dr yesterday looking at me and saying "I see no reason why this won't happen for you" and "I see no reason why you can't start TTC again right now". wtf, you don't even know what's going on with my body!?!? 

@kittymeowbark I will take ALL of that..thank you

@furrypaws and @o2girl I lol'ed at Pebs whatever the fuck that other thing is! 

@cavewmn I guess the RE does expect me to call every day. @Petrastonegirl I am thinking about doing that as soon as I get back from vacation! 

@KateLM The high risk office I was at yesterday didn't do the same tests as the RE or I would have asked them to get a jump start on them.

@rubysi that last picture...lol 

rmpar29

What a fuckup on your OB's part!  Wow...I would be ragey too.  I'm so sorry that this happened and that you have to wait longer now.  So many (((((HUGS)))) coming your way hon!

blackbird818

What.the.actual.fuck. I'm so sorry hun!! Giant kick in the dick to your OB's office!!! (((hugs))) I'm ragey for you after reading this!

Nikolie93

I think I am just going to stay drunk the entire holiday..that will help, right? 

TheAerialist

Nikolie93 said:

I think I am just going to stay drunk the entire holiday..that will help, right? 

YES!  I think this is the required course of action.  Dr's orders! (fine print: sarah1104 is not actually a doctor).

imnotfancy

Nikolie93 said:

I think I am just going to stay drunk the entire holiday..that will help, right? 

I like you.
And I like your coping mechanisms.
I'm the stranger right next to you on the bar stool.

Nikolie93

Cheers @imnotfancy! 

@jj32, thank you I will start calling every day and bugging the shit out of them like Petra suggested  

@KateLM from what I understand there are only a couple of offices in my area. I have heard from someone else that is seeing the Dr I have an appointment with and she likes her so she has that going for her! 

I leave for vacation tomorrow and won't be back until after the first of the year so for now I am going to keep the appointment on the 21st and when I get back I will call around. I just want to try and enjoy the holiday without getting frustrated calling everyday just to hear there are no cancellations. 

bfonz619

I can imagine how irritating and disheartening this must have been and am so sorry for your experience.  I hope going forward you don't run into anymore issues and are able to start getting some answers.

ctk181

I'm sorry. How frustrating! ((Hugs))

nikiswimr

Ok, that totally sucks. Many ((hugs)) and lots of wine for you! That had to be a mistake on your OBs part. Makes so sense for them to preemptively send you to an MFM. And sorry for the wait, sometimes there is nothing worse.

Nikolie93

@nikiswimr‌ one reason I'm so pissed is because my OB is saying they didn't make a mistake.. That's normal for them. It makes zero sense to me but I thought maybe I was missing something and it was normal.

nikiswimr

Nikolie93 said:

@nikiswimr‌ one reason I'm so pissed is because my OB is saying they didn't make a mistake.. That's normal for them. It makes zero sense to me but I thought maybe I was missing something and it was normal.

Definitely not normal.  What a cluster.  I would've been so pissed!