I've found everyone to be supportive and helpful. Not quite as much as the fertility group I was in, but so far I'm happy. Just a little unfortunate that a few of you aren't upset to hear Felicia doesn't feel like she's a part of the community and now this board is bully central. Hopefully the group outside this board won't try to shame me and kick me out the way you did to Felicia and may do to me here.
I, for one, am really sorry to hear Felicia doesn't feel like part of the community.
Won't somebody think of Felicia??
Mommy to Teddy (2), born May 14, 2012
Americans living in the Middle of Nowhere, Germany
Wow! You mean there is a search bar where I can just type in my questions???? There ya go newbie. If only you weren't so goddamn lazy. I know it's hard reading all those posts when you could just demand answers out of total strangers! You're having a baby! Start reading shit and stop whining about how no one will tell you what you want to know.
August '15 BMB December Siggy: Christmas Fails ME: 30, DH: 30 Love: 2/11/04 Marriage: 5/29/11 2 Cat Furbabies: Chloe and Zoey (2007) TTC #1: 6/1/14 BFP: 11/25/14 EDD: 8/5/15
Someone call the waambulance. There has been a huge car crash of hormones on this thread!
Once again. Nope. No hormones. I am like this normally as are many of these lovely ladies. And what is the purpose of your post. You don't see me calling the idiot police!
I've found everyone to be supportive and helpful. Not quite as much as the fertility group I was in, but so far I'm happy. Just a little unfortunate that a few of you aren't upset to hear Felicia doesn't feel like she's a part of the community and now this board is bully central. Hopefully the group outside this board won't try to shame me and kick me out the way you did to Felicia and may do to me here.
This was exactly the point of my post. Instead of bullying, the point was to show that not everyone feels welcome. They all claim to be a community, but as as soon as something is said they don't like, they react like this.
Woah. Who is being a bully? Disagree? Sure. Put silly gifs on silly threads? Absolutely.
Please tell me we are not heading toward flagging people because you "dislike".
I just can't with that...
Also, I don't understand what you expected to come out of this post... really?
I like it here and find support from the women on here. There is no glitter and unicorns, it's usually straight facts with some good laughs to get you through the day. If you don't like us then leave. Oh and I love our gifs!
Okay ladies, before this goes any farther I think we need to take a time out and take our vitamins.
Glitter pills for everyone so we can be NICE & sparkly. Side effects: we will piss & shit glitter & please the rest of the world! This will also make us better for our poor husbands, children, and unborn children!
Also, I am wearing pink bc it's Wednesday.. Can I sit with you please?
I love how almost everyone responded with GIFs. I've posted before and told "check out this thread". These ladies aren't my bitches, they're other women giving birth the same time as me. I don't decide what they do, we come here to laugh and hang out man. Cool your jets
Anyone else really looking forward to about a month from now when hopefully these types of posts stop? Please tell me they stop once we are a little further along.
:::: I come from the future:::: Nope. They never stop......
Just like you don't want to waste your time scrolling through threads to find an answer to your questions, i don't want to waste my time answering tons of the same silly questions.
So then don't answer. If you see a thread that your know is a waste of your time by all means use discernment and don't even click. I see a lot of you waste so much time arguing and responding to EVERY little thing that might annoy you. I find things annoying or silly on this board but in an adult and don't need to say everything that comes to into my head. It seems some of you really enjoy being overly blunt and insensitive. You hus are allowed to have your opponent about all us idiots that don't have proper board protocol and we can think the lot of you are mean. You don't want anyone sugar coating anything but when complain you get your undies in a twist. Seems kinda hypocritical.
Just like you don't want to waste your time scrolling through threads to find an answer to your questions, i don't want to waste my time answering tons of the same silly questions.
So then don't answer. If you see a thread that your know is a waste of your time by all means use discernment and don't even click.
I see a lot of you waste so much time arguing and responding to EVERY little thing that might annoy you. I find things annoying or silly on this board but in an adult and don't need to say everything that comes to into my head. It seems some of you really enjoy being overly blunt and insensitive.
You hus are allowed to have your Opinion about all us idiots that don't have proper board protocol and we can think the lot of you are mean. You don't want anyone sugar coating anything but when complain you get your undies in a twist. Seems kinda hypocritical.
If you are going to waste time not being an adult and ignoring us meany heads then at least use the correct words.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Just like you don't want to waste your time scrolling through threads to find an answer to your questions, i don't want to waste my time answering tons of the same silly questions.
So then don't answer. If you see a thread that your know is a waste of your time by all means use discernment and don't even click.
I see a lot of you waste so much time arguing and responding to EVERY little thing that might annoy you. I find things annoying or silly on this board but in an adult and don't need to say everything that comes to into my head. It seems some of you really enjoy being overly blunt and insensitive.
You hus are allowed to have your opponent about all us idiots that don't have proper board protocol and we can think the lot of you are mean. You don't want anyone sugar coating anything but when complain you get your undies in a twist. Seems kinda hypocritical.
FFS. This is the tone of the bump. If you don't like it, then go some where else. Bitching about "all the meanies" will never change the bump. Sorry.
Me: 37 DH: 45 BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14 BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
Just like you don't want to waste your time scrolling through threads to find an answer to your questions, i don't want to waste my time answering tons of the same silly questions.
So then don't answer. If you see a thread that your know is a waste of your time by all means use discernment and don't even click.
I see a lot of you waste so much time arguing and responding to EVERY little thing that might annoy you. I find things annoying or silly on this board but in an adult and don't need to say everything that comes to into my head. It seems some of you really enjoy being overly blunt and insensitive.
You hus are allowed to have your opponent about all us idiots that don't have proper board protocol and we can think the lot of you are mean. You don't want anyone sugar coating anything but when complain you get your undies in a twist. Seems kinda hypocritical.
FFS. This is the tone of the bump. If you don't like it, then go some where else. Bitching about "all the meanies" will never change the bump. Sorry.
It seems a bunch of you ladies have done this before. Which is great for first time moms. We can ask you guys for experienced answers and put our mind at ease when we are scared to death of getting through our first trimester after miscarriages and fertility treatments. Oh just kidding. This gal has a point and she's not the first to notice. I don't post as much in the August forum because you aren't supportive or helpful at all. Just because you've been through pregnancy before that's great. Not everyone can be as experienced and get pregnant on their first try and make it past their first trimester everytime. So no I'm not asking for support. You ladies have proved to me that I won't get that here. Amazingly enough I get more support from my pistol packing second amendment group than a bunch of mommies. You ladies are just a bunch of children who have nothing better to do than troll this page and make fun of the next poor soul who asks something they don't understand. Bye Felicia!
Hey! New person! Sit the fuck down. This is my fifth pregnancy and hopefully my first child. I haven't done this before. That doesn't mean I can't google shit and figure things the fuck out or use the fucking search function. I am not going to molly coddle anyone here. The information is there, they just have to fucking try and find it.
As for the support jab, fuck off. This board has helped me through a lot of shit. But I didn't just show up on day one and demand that people be nice to me because bad shit has happened to me. I have supported others and made real friendships on this board. Sorry that you'll miss out on all that because, as the adult you claim to be, you have insulted and belittled us. GTFO.
@ittybittybaker09 as our model of maturity, niceness and support I would have expected you to say something like "I am so sorry for your losses and I really hope this is your take home baby"
@mj0011 I didn't respond to this post. I am very sorry for her loss and wouldn't wish thag on anyone. I am not sure why you tagged me, but I have not responded negatively to her loss.
@bethyviz i have been here a long time and have seen a lot of things. Maybe if you also have spent time on these boards then you would see that the repetitive questions get to be out of control. They happen on every board. Would you tell the girls on the TTGP board to not respond when they get questions daily about whether someone is pregnant. If you don't like it here you can move along where it is warm and fuzzy and they repeat the same question daily !
I'm new here too and a lurker but couldn't resist this post. Really?! Buck up buttercup! And I dunno what baby center group ur in b/c the Aug group acts just like this one. Answering the same ?s over & over is exhausting! And annoying...that's what Google is for!
Re: Community?
ME: 30, DH: 30
Love: 2/11/04 Marriage: 5/29/11
2 Cat Furbabies: Chloe and Zoey (2007)
TTC #1: 6/1/14
BFP: 11/25/14 EDD: 8/5/15
Dr.Bailey from Grey's Anatomy
Woah. Who is being a bully? Disagree? Sure. Put silly gifs on silly threads? Absolutely.
Please tell me we are not heading toward flagging people because you "dislike".
I just can't with that...
Also, I don't understand what you expected to come out of this post... really?
Shit, @bibliothecary I am so happy to be in your BMB. I was missing this shit over on TTGP.
@ABvintage My vote is 7 GBCBs this week.
OP, I get the impression you're looking for us to shit rainbows?
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
Glitter pills for everyone so we can be NICE & sparkly.
Side effects: we will piss & shit glitter & please the rest of the world!
This will also make us better for our poor husbands, children, and unborn children!
Also, I am wearing pink bc it's Wednesday.. Can I sit with you please?
*Jan Siggy Challenge--Mean Girls*
Married: 4/26/14 - DH "J": 33 - ME: 27 - DS "G": 12/21/09
TTC #2 since October 2014 - BFP 12/2/2014!! - EDD 8/13/2015!
I've posted before and told "check out this thread". These ladies aren't my bitches, they're other women giving birth the same time as me. I don't decide what they do, we come here to laugh and hang out man. Cool your jets
Nope. They never stop......
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
I see a lot of you waste so much time arguing and responding to EVERY little thing that might annoy you. I find things annoying or silly on this board but in an adult and don't need to say everything that comes to into my head. It seems some of you really enjoy being overly blunt and insensitive.
You hus are allowed to have your opponent about all us idiots that don't have proper board protocol and we can think the lot of you are mean. You don't want anyone sugar coating anything but when complain you get your undies in a twist. Seems kinda hypocritical.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
*Jan Siggy Challenge--Mean Girls*
Married: 4/26/14 - DH "J": 33 - ME: 27 - DS "G": 12/21/09
TTC #2 since October 2014 - BFP 12/2/2014!! - EDD 8/13/2015!
@mj0011 I didn't respond to this post. I am very sorry for her loss and wouldn't wish thag on anyone. I am not sure why you tagged me, but I have not responded negatively to her loss.
I hate to be all technical and shit but I think he's actually pissing a rainbow...
Carry on.
****DS born 08/18/2015****Baby squishy due 08/03/2015****
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good