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Me 29/ DH 28
DH- MFI (low count, 2-3% morph)
IUI #1 January - Clomid, Ovidrel: BFN
IUI #2 February - Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel: BFP 1st beta-25, 2nd beta-56, 3rd beta-45, miscarriage
IUI #3 April - CD3 U/S 4-10. Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel CD11 - Cancelled.. TI w/5 follicles-BFN
IUI #3.1 May - CD3 U/S 5-6, Follistim start 5-11 thru 5-17, u/s 5-18 3 mature w/ a close 4th, IUI 5-20 - BFP!
Beta #1 12dpo - 164 & progesterone - 89!, Beta #2 16 dpo - 1189, 5w3d - u/s shows TWINS!
6/19- u/s showed heartbeats! Baby A 111 & Baby B 118, both measuring 6w1d
7/3- Baby A hb 170, Baby B hb 166 - both measuring perfect.
7/18 - Baby A 165, Baby B 171 - both measuring right on track & moving all around!

Re: Double insurance coverage?
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Me 29/ DH 28
DH- MFI (low count, 2-3% morph)
IUI #1 January - Clomid, Ovidrel: BFN
IUI #2 February - Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel: BFP 1st beta-25, 2nd beta-56, 3rd beta-45, miscarriage
IUI #3 April - CD3 U/S 4-10. Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel CD11 - Cancelled.. TI w/5 follicles-BFN
IUI #3.1 May - CD3 U/S 5-6, Follistim start 5-11 thru 5-17, u/s 5-18 3 mature w/ a close 4th, IUI 5-20 - BFP!
Beta #1 12dpo - 164 & progesterone - 89!, Beta #2 16 dpo - 1189, 5w3d - u/s shows TWINS!
6/19- u/s showed heartbeats! Baby A 111 & Baby B 118, both measuring 6w1d
7/3- Baby A hb 170, Baby B hb 166 - both measuring perfect.
7/18 - Baby A 165, Baby B 171 - both measuring right on track & moving all around!
With DH's insurance, we just have to add the baby within a month of his or her birth. I opted to not get coverage through my employer because in my case, it would automatically become my primary insurance and the coverage was far more expensive and not nearly as good.
Bringing them both home...UPDATE...The girls are home!!! 1/7/15 after 20 days in the NICU!
It's quite a pain because we pay monthly for both insurances. And for both there is deductibles and co-pays etc. I am dropping my secondary insurance through my work immediately come Jan 1 which is the soonest I am able to.
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Me 29/ DH 28
DH- MFI (low count, 2-3% morph)
IUI #1 January - Clomid, Ovidrel: BFN
IUI #2 February - Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel: BFP 1st beta-25, 2nd beta-56, 3rd beta-45, miscarriage
IUI #3 April - CD3 U/S 4-10. Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel CD11 - Cancelled.. TI w/5 follicles-BFN
IUI #3.1 May - CD3 U/S 5-6, Follistim start 5-11 thru 5-17, u/s 5-18 3 mature w/ a close 4th, IUI 5-20 - BFP!
Beta #1 12dpo - 164 & progesterone - 89!, Beta #2 16 dpo - 1189, 5w3d - u/s shows TWINS!
6/19- u/s showed heartbeats! Baby A 111 & Baby B 118, both measuring 6w1d
7/3- Baby A hb 170, Baby B hb 166 - both measuring perfect.
7/18 - Baby A 165, Baby B 171 - both measuring right on track & moving all around!
This is not related to your question, but I would call your insurance and ask a gazillion questions. What will be the copay of my hospital stay? What percentage of vaginal birth do you cover? C-section birth? What if its an emergency? Do you cover an epidural or other drugs? Etc, etc. you can find out pretty close to how much you will be paying out of pocket before ever going to the hospital. We did not do this with DD's birth and I'm still paying for the epi they didn't cover at all. This time, I called and talked to them for about half an hour and I know roughly how much I'll be paying.
1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
Maternity benefits to check when calling in include inpatient hospital stay - most plans will only cover room and board in a semi private room. Be prepared to pay the difference if you request a private room, 48 hours for normal vaginal delivery and 96 hours for CS. Also check your professional fees (this includes all treating physicians while inpatient including your OB). Optional ones to ask about are you lab benefits, circumcision, and if there is automatic coverage for the newborn or how long you have to contact your HR to add the newborn to the plan.
Sorry for the long reply.
I think you need to be already enrolled for your employer's insurance in order to be allowed to make qualifying event changes to your coverage. Doesn't hurt to call and ask though.
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I too can be double covered but chose not to.
DH and I both work for big corporations with really good insurance coverage, we used to have zero deductibles or copays. With the new health care taxes and such, both our companies now offer health plans with a high deductibles ($1500 and coinsurance 1000 for my plan). If I'm double covered, my deductible would go up to $3000 for 2 people. DH is healthy and isn't burning deductibles. I'd end up paying so much more to meet deductibles and coinsurance.
When the baby comes, he's going under my plan since I'd have already burned some of my deductible, closer to getting 100% insurance coverage. If he goes under both our plans, my insurance would not be primary because of the birthday rule.
I really do wonder if I'm looking at this wrong.
As far as the qualifying event thing to take your coverage at work, they will only be able to enroll you effective the date of the birth of the baby.