March 2015 Moms

Tuesday randoms

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  • @Chunkymonkeylvr‌ ugh.. Knee surgeries take forever. I had to sit in on one during a clinical. At least in my case I got to watch the action. I would hate sitting in the waiting room for hours on end.

    I recommend Netflix. I just got through American horror story season 3. Not bad!

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  • I have my 3hr GDD test tomorrow am, but am really craving a bagel for breakfast this morning. And McDonalds for lunch. This may be my last opportunity for either.

    My H is already giving me a hard time about food too. He refuses to do research (because I am better at it) but when I tell him what I have read, he accuses me of holding back information from him. I never have before. He is very insecure - he always has been and it's a trait most of his family has. We got into an argument about eating dairy because I said I have to look at the carbs and can't eat it until after noon(medication issue). He said there is no way that's true and keeps trying to give me yogurt for breakfast. He even bought me a big dessert - because, he said, the dr said I should cut back on bagels and juice but didn't say anything about desserts (maybe because I don't usually eat them????) - and then got mad when I said I would have rather had a bagel and didn't eat the dessert. He is not a stupid guy - but when he gets scared all common sense goes out of the door. He is sucking the life out of me right now...
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  • @katydid2014‌ - my mother dislikes her cousin because of the 's issue. Any time her name comes up my mother says how awful her grammar is and it's so embarrassing. She was probably my mom's favorite cousin until she got married and sent out Christmas cards with an 's.
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  • @almeyer2013‌ I loved your post because I'm right there with you! I feel like I'm literally crying over everything. I watched fly away home with DS the other day and ugly sobbing was definitely apart of it. DS looked at me like he was concerned haha but when I cry in front of SO I tell him, don't judge me I'm pregnant. Half the time I'm not even sad about anything! Gotta love hormones!
  • So dang tired. I'm so sick of waking up at 4 A.M. to get ready for work. I also miss a full night's rest.

    However, the furniture will be delivered today, and for that I get to leave work early! Also on the upswing, I had a guy notice at work today that I'm in fact pregnant and not fat. That's a nice change.

    Good luck to everyone today with tests, surgery, and illness. Take care and try to enjoy the day ladies.

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  • @RQuinlin‌ Hope you feel better soon

    @jennypm‌ you've got a lot on your shoulders, and I can only imagine how difficult it is when your SO isn't there to support you. Just breathe and know that it will all work itself out somehow. Also, have you considered a tutor for your kid for the class she doesn't like? I *hated* math as a child. My parents found me a great tutor who made math fun. Ended up getting a degree in accounting as an adult. Sometimes it just takes the right educator.

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  • H is sick and was snoring all night!  I feel like I must have sanitized every door knob, cabinet handle and light switch all while telling him to continuously wash his hands so I dont get sick. 

    @ RQuinlin- Hope you feel better!

    @Katydid2014- You are not the only one!!! I had the doggy daycare owner ask me if I was taking my vitamins and getting plenty of rest. So annoying!!
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    H is sick and was snoring all night!  I feel like I must have sanitized every door knob, cabinet handle and light switch all while telling him to continuously wash his hands so I dont get sick. 

    @ RQuinlin- Hope you feel better!

    @Katydid2014- You are not the only one!!! I had the doggy daycare owner ask me if I was taking my vitamins and getting plenty of rest. So annoying!!
    My H is sick too and was also snoring all night- louder than usual! Typically he takes me to my dr appts, but since he's sick I told him to stay home for today's appt. Not good for him to be around pregnant ladies.
    Now I just have to make sure he doesn't get ME sick. :(

    Today I find out if I'm released to go back to work! If so, then that means I can do other things too! If not, then more time at the house. :P

    Crossing my fingers for you! Hope H feels better:)
  • @RQuinlin‌ Feel better!

    @Chunkymonkeylvr‌ Thinking of your Mom today during her surgery!

    @Peledreamsofrain‌ I too have entered the no sleeping part of pregnancy. Everyone says that it's nature's way of preparing us for a newborn. Knowing this doesn't help at 3 am.

    I might be feeling tired, but LO is feeling quite chipper this morning, judging by the kicks and punches I've been getting this morning.
  • @TotesMagotes‌ totes on the epi needle. Bring it.

    Good morning, everyone. Just wanted to say hope everyone has a great day and thanks for all the nice bday wishes yesterday.

    @Peledreamsofrain‌ I miss sleep, too. Finally passed out at 1 am last night after binge watching Homeland. Then I had dreams of Homeland and been up since 4. Work is going to blow today!
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  • So before my pregnancy brain kicks in, I just saw a girl named "Alexyz" pronounced Alexis...

    I'm not even a name purist and I'm so confused by that. No. It just shouldn't happen.
    When I read her name tag it didn't even click, I was like Alex.... And when she said Alexis I was like OMG no..
  • @chunkymonkeylvr, hoping your mom's surgery goes by quickly! 

    To everyone who celebrates it, happy Hanukkah! 

    My DD has gotten into this horrible habit of waking up in the middle of the night, turning on the hall light upstairs, and yelling for us to come get her. My DH tried to help by going up to get her back into bed, but she wouldn't do it, she wanted to come in bed with us. So, because my DH values his sleep more than setting good expectations, he brought her down to sleep with us the rest of the night. Then at 4:30 she woke up and decided it was time to turn on the Christmas tree and TV. Which, of course, I was having none of, and caused a huge temper tantrum. I'm exhausted. I told my DH that she can no longer do this, that we have to be firm that her bed is her bed, because once the baby comes, and if she's still coming to our bed every night, no one will get ANY sleep. 




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  • So before my pregnancy brain kicks in, I just saw a girl named "Alexyz" pronounced Alexis...
    I'm not even a name purist and I'm so confused by that. No. It just shouldn't happen.
    I just saw a post on another board where a woman was upset because her parents didn't like the name Axl.. MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE Its NOT A REAl NAME'!!!!
    It is if you're Scandinavian ;) or a pop star or a rock star.  I have a friend who wants to name her kid Axl if it's a boy, Lisel if it's a girl.  When she told me my reaction was "Lisel?  As in diesel?"  Not cool either way.  But I do not approve of "weird" names in general.  I feel like it does a tremendous disservice to the kid.  People don't take naming seriously enough.  You're setting someone's first impression for the rest of their lives and they have absolutely no say in it.  The least you can do is give them a name that's easy to spell, pronounce, and makes sense within our culture.
  • Same as @happymamax2 I am scared of needles and I didn't feel the epi cause my pain was so displaced elsewhere.

    I will say that they did not check me before they gave me the epidural and I was already at a 9. So it didn't really kick in and work and I was already pushing my son out. I got up and walked right after giving birth so I didn't get to enjoy any of the benefits of the epi and guess what??? I still got a $1500 charge for that epidural in the mail.

    This next time, I will have them check me before and go without one if I am that far dilated. That $1500 charge for something that I didn't even get to enjoy the benefits of still makes me mad.


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  • Short rant: In the workplace, there is nothing more maddening than having a task you desperately need to complete depend entirely on a person in another department who doesn't give a shit one way or another. 

    Maybe this is something that only happens in the vast bureaucracy of a university, I dunno.  But I was thisclose to grabbing a torch and pitchfork and storming someone's office yesterday.  Thanks to her unfathomable incompetence my marketing campaign's been delayed by 10 days.

    AND SHE WILL SUFFER NO CONSEQUENCES.  It just makes ME look bad.  ARGH!!!!!

    This is an everyday occurrence for me in the world of medical software. :( not just universities!!! It makes me so angry so fast.
  • So before my pregnancy brain kicks in, I just saw a girl named "Alexyz" pronounced Alexis...

    I see that as "ah-lex-eez". So weird.
  • @Chunkymonkeylvr‌ So glad to hear that things went well!!!
  • @chunkymonkeylvr GL to your mom.

    @skrittens your H needs to do some of his own research if he is going to act so dense. Sorry you're dealing with that BS.

    I've only read the first page and don't even recall everyone to respond to!

    I called Friday for my GD test results and were told they were in but the doctor hadn't signed them and I would get a call Monday. No call yesterday and no call yet today, so I'm hoping I'm in the clear...I might call to double check later.
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  • I cant even remember who i need to tag, but about the name Alexis. My babys name is Jovoni Alexiz. I like the wired names or the different spelled names..lol.. :D i put the Z because to me it looks more boyish.
    And as for the epidural. I almost died because of it when i was having my first son. Then it didnt even work with my daughter. @-)
  • @chunkymonkeylvr Glad your mom's surgery went well.

    @jennypm, I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed but it's with good reason. I'm sorry your DD lied about her homework, but you did the right thing in giving her consequences. If you didn't make a big deal about it, she'd just think it's okay to do it again. You're a great mom. Hang in there.

    I'm supposed to go shopping tonight since I couldn't go last night. The upside is I get to go alone and will have time to look for clothes for me, the downside is it's raining and I anticipate the mall will be crazy.

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  • Long....
    So i have been MIA for the past few days. Not for any reason just one of those times i just didn't feel like getting on here lol. But anyway so let's see i hit the third trimester on Sunday! Yay that's super exciting...sorta lol oh i did my hospital tour and it was a good tour i suppose but there were some issues. They only offer the tour on Sundays at 430 which for us that time makes it literally impossible for SO and i to both go cuz either he is working or i am. So i decided to go with my mom. Now there were 2 other couples there as well and i guess that the nurse doing the tour just assumed that since i was there with my mom that baby daddy was out of the picture or something cuz she would make these little comments about "dad this" or "dad needs to do that" and then just look at me and say "oh i mean or whoever if dad isn't there for whatever reason" i mean what like does no one else bring their mom? Whatever and then the part that irked me the most was OK when like you walk through the security doors into the L&D unit you either take an immediate left or an immediate right. Left is where pretty much everything is, all the rooms and nurses station and tub room and everything and then to the right is to the NICU. Now nobody is ever thrilled about their child being in the NICU but because of the medication that i am on we are very well aware and have accepted the fact that our daughter will be spending some time there. We are totally fine with it. its just something we have known from the beginning that will have to happen for precautionary reasons. Despite being fine with it i know that when the time comes it will probably be pretty hard cuz she will most likely have to be taken almost immediately which will Def cut into our initial bonding and visiting time and what not but were dealing with it and are just trying to remember that it will only be for a short amount of time and then she can come home. So anyway when we walked through those doors the nurse explained that the NICU was to the right and "hopefully none of you have to have babies in there because it's just the most tragic terrible thing" and then pretty much just continued on for a while about how horrible it would be to have to come in and go to the right and that hopefully everyone can just have to go to the left and on and on. Now being someone who knows that their child will be there, i was really really starting to get upset and just wanted her to stop and move on with the tour. I know she didn't mean any harm by it but i just wished she would have practiced better judgement and realized that there are people out there who already know that their child will be in the NICU. She could have just said "NICU is to the right, now let's go look at everything to the left" and that would have been just as effective considering the NICU was not part of the tour. I think that it upset me so much because most babies who need to be in NICU are there for one reason or another that had nothing to do with the parent. my reason does have to do with me and it made me feel like shit after she talked about how horrible it was for babies to be in there. I'm over it and im just trying to move on. We meet with the neonatologist there in a few weeks which should hopefully answer a lot of questions we have and help put our mind at ease that she will in fact be OK (at least that is what my OB said will happen lol) Anyway sorry about the long post i just had to get that out.
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  • @happymamax2‌ I am so sorry for your loss. It's always heartbreaking when it's something that could have been prevented. Sounds like he was trying to take care of himself. That's so sad he couldn't afford his bp meds. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers to get through this.

    On this note, and I don't want to be a Debbie downer with more bad news, but I got word from my mom that my grandfathers health is declining rapidly. He has been in with hospice since October, so we knew it was coming, but it doesn't make it any easier. I just hope he goes without pain or suffering, and I am so thankful he is resting at home.

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