So LuvFood was arrested for domestic assault last Friday. I'm totally fine, so no one worry.
He's out on bail (thanks a lot LuvFood, Sr.), but part of his bail conditions are that he can have no contact with me and he cannot be on the premises at all.
He watched the kids while I worked so I had to make alternate childcare arrangements for them. I hired some sitters and I'm back tonight for the first time since THE ARREST.
I'm both excited and nervous to move forward. Be good, boys! :-SS [-O<
BF broke one of the slats on my side of our bed the week I was gone. Do I want to know what he was doing or is whatever I can come up with in my head more entertaining? My back is not appreciating this regardless.
Unbelievably excited to finally be booking a trip to see my family in NC tomorrow <:-P will be flying out of Chicago and into Raleigh...maybe I will be able to bump into some bumpies along the way
@valstulas. I'm sry u are having to go through all of this but very glad you are a strong enough person to leave. Laing an abusive relationship is not easy. I will be praying for the boys to behave with their new sitter!
Dd has been horribly teething and refuses to nap anywhere but on DH or i. She has never done that. It breaks my heart she is in so much pain and nothing we are doing has helped but I am for sure loving the baby snuggles.
We had my brother over today and somewhere in the middle of our conversation he randomly said to me, "you are a great parent and it just shows". I know that I do my best, but hearing that from someone else made me feel really good.
Eta: these smileys are odd!
It's such a great feeling when someone else notices and appreciates your hard work.
Oh Jesus, Val. So glad you're ok. Huge hugs to you and those boys.
Thank God I'm not the only one who hasn't Christmas shopped yet. I did buy my first gift tonight...its for one of you. Oh and a shit ton of Hot Wheels for the boys. That's it. I always stress myself out and wait until the last minute.
I had a squirrel scare the cap out of me one morning...it fell down the chimney into the basment. It just stared at me like I pushed it. It eventually drowned in the drain...
Hope all of the sick babies and moms are feeling better!
DH has been on a weight lifting kick and wanted me to do it with them. So this morning he woke me up at 4:45a to get a workout in before we get ready to go to my sisters graduation. I was less then thrilled...... After my weight watchers weigh in this morning I am getting a Starbucks and he is driving the hour to the graduation.
I forgot that we rescheduled me watching Ben's DC BFF to this Sunday, so his parents can go out. I had a long list of to dos for Sunday, but now it is down to one thing. Keep two 1.5 yo boys alive. I've never watched anybody along with Ben. I do know that he is a jealous little kid. It should be fine, though. This kid was Ben's favorite biting target, but we haven't had any incidents in over a month and the two seem to play well together, even when Ben would bite him.
@valstulas thinking of you and those handsome val boys. Please take care of yourself and please consider seriously the restraining order. You are such an amazing mama!! Hope those boys have fun with the sitter.
Morning everyone! ~O)
K & M married 10.8.2011
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BFP 7.17.2012, EDD 3.21.2013, Miscarriage at 6 wks 3 days
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BFP #2 11.7.2012, beautiful Tess born 7.11.2013
looky what i'm getting! It came up on my local swap, and I asked DH if it could be for my birthday next month.He said no, because he already has my gift. But he said I could get it anyway. <:-P
My morning has been interesting at 1245 Liam woke up screaming cause he couldn't find his lovie. I cuddled him and my hand was resting on his bone dry diaper as he started to pee it leaked right through...wtf! Changed him and back to bed. Alarm went off at 345am because DH has early flight today. I turned off instead of hitting snooze. Luckily waking up in enough time to rush him to the airport without a shower, hopefully flight is mostly empty. Now home putting Liam back to bed another dry diaper leaked. He is dry and sleeping hopefully the weekend gets better because it is only 6am on Saturday ugggg. >:D< @valstulas
We are not cancelling S's party. Good thing I prepped all day yesterday. Still have to write the treasure hunt clues and make a veggie tray/dip. And successfully bring the ship upstairs while S is napping. Oh and shower and get dressed.
@valstulas hope the boys were good for the sitter >:D<
Sorry for all the sick babies and mama's, we are just finally getting over a funk going around here.
Me and the kids are going to a birthday party for my friends one year old little girl. I put on makeup for the first time since Thanksgiving, and then caught the end of Toy Story 3 that DD was watching and screwed up my makeup by crying. Gets me every time.
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He's out on bail (thanks a lot LuvFood, Sr.), but part of his bail conditions are that he can have no contact with me and he cannot be on the premises at all.
He watched the kids while I worked so I had to make alternate childcare arrangements for them. I hired some sitters and I'm back tonight for the first time since THE ARREST.
I'm both excited and nervous to move forward. Be good, boys! :-SS [-O<
>:D< to you @valstulas
I am so so excited and can hardly sleep. I am so bad at keeping this kind of secret and have to last until 3 pm!
Huge hugs @valstulas!
Dd has been horribly teething and refuses to nap anywhere but on DH or i. She has never done that. It breaks my heart she is in so much pain and nothing we are doing has helped but I am for sure loving the baby snuggles.
If you have me on fb you probably know what I'm talking about.
I am assuming he's a squirrel anyways.
Go to hell, Shane, the mystery rodent!
Thank God I'm not the only one who hasn't Christmas shopped yet. I did buy my first gift tonight...its for one of you.
Hope all of the sick babies and moms are feeling better!
DH has been on a weight lifting kick and wanted me to do it with them. So this morning he woke me up at 4:45a to get a workout in before we get ready to go to my sisters graduation. I was less then thrilled...... After my weight watchers weigh in this morning I am getting a Starbucks and he is driving the hour to the graduation.
@valstulas >:D< I hope valboys behaved.
@Fayga I hope it isn't serious. Keep us updated.
I forgot that we rescheduled me watching Ben's DC BFF to this Sunday, so his parents can go out. I had a long list of to dos for Sunday, but now it is down to one thing. Keep two 1.5 yo boys alive. I've never watched anybody along with Ben. I do know that he is a jealous little kid. It should be fine, though. This kid was Ben's favorite biting target, but we haven't had any incidents in over a month and the two seem to play well together, even when Ben would bite him.
Baby boy 7.10.13
@Fayga hope all is well
2 pages of spam at 6:30 in a Saturday morning.... What is j13 doing?
Morning everyone!
~O)
I can't believe I gave into the mlm. I just want her to be successful...
Val, so glad you're out of that situation. Hope everything goes ok for the sitters!
Alarm went off at 345am because DH has early flight today. I turned off instead of hitting snooze. Luckily waking up in enough time to rush him to the airport without a shower, hopefully flight is mostly empty. Now home putting Liam back to bed another dry diaper leaked. He is dry and sleeping hopefully the weekend gets better because it is only 6am on Saturday ugggg.
>:D< @valstulas
We are not cancelling S's party. Good thing I prepped all day yesterday. Still have to write the treasure hunt clues and make a veggie tray/dip. And successfully bring the ship upstairs while S is napping. Oh and shower and get dressed.
Better get cracking.
DD slept in til 9 am. What is this madness???
Not sure how the rest of today will go as our usual nap schedule is now going to be off.. But hey at least we got to sleep in.
Sorry for all the sick babies and mama's, we are just finally getting over a funk going around here.
Me and the kids are going to a birthday party for my friends one year old little girl. I put on makeup for the first time since Thanksgiving, and then caught the end of Toy Story 3 that DD was watching and screwed up my makeup by crying. Gets me every time.
Work is picking up today and I couldn't be happier! Bring in the money!
Hope everyone is having a nice Saturday!
I've been cleaning and sanitizing all morning. Now, I'm worn out.