12/6 medical update puts the lotion on its skin

valstulas

My left foot gets super itchy every winter. I thought it was athlete's foot for the last few years but I think it's really just dry skin.

MOAR lotion.

I don't have a hangnail so this is the best I can do.

Clyde013

Not the usual hang nail but My ears and throat hurt.

valstulas

skleigh said:

Coconut oil!

I put that shit on everything.

No, really. I even put it on a tampon and insert it rectally.

Your anus must smell great, @skleigh‌

LauraB1016

Allison just bit my toe.....
Good morning to you too

fabk

Ditto @clyde013 I thought I was on the mend but apparently not.

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@biggunsbo have a nice weekend tell him that if he's well enough to hunt... then no naps!

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The damn cat, man! He keeps calling and asking if he can come home. He's just like Scott Disick.

arlingirl

I have had the plague since Sunday. It's turned into hacking cough hell. At least I got my eye drops so I don't look like a demon anymore.

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biggunsbo said:

haddocky said:

@biggunsbo have a nice weekend tell him that if he's well enough to hunt... then no naps!

Ha!! Does that work in your house?

Hmmmmm...

Well, he's usually never home to nap, so I don't know? I'd assume he'd think napping was ok, though. Ugh.

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@biggunsbo he usually hunts around where he works. So, it's usually hunt, work, hunt, come home, eat dinner, fall asleep almost immediately.

arlingirl

casey78 said:

Do we have the same plague, @arlingirl?

Day 7: voice is coming back a bit, throat hurts, ears hurt, weird dry cough. <:-P </p>

Sounds like it. Just add in congestion junk! I even got a steroid shot and it's not clearing up fast enough!

stephyfaith

My body is screwing with me. I started spotting Thursday night and yesterday I put my cup in and when I took it out before bed it was empty... But then I had bright red spotting so I put it back in and this morning again empty. WTF body?? I POAS and still BFN.

opheliainwaders

Double ear infections over here (DD) and generalized plague for the grownups. Awesome.

Feel better, everyone!

valstulas

Encchanted said:

@valstulas, Mail call, pretty lady.

Replayed @Encchanted‌

Hey, apparently sending >2 PM's in 30 seconds enacts the spam block

EagleWife

Welp, on top of HFM, LO developed a cold, and now ear infections. I'm ready for good news soon.

karen0477

@adeb9562‌ sorry to hear she chipped her teeth, dd1 did the same thing at the same age, tripped over her own feet, but landed her mouth on my parents fireplace....chipped both front teeth, they just checked they weren't sharp and then left them because they would fall out anyways....hope she's ok.....

PrimRoseMama

:-bd with the Silence of The Lambs reference. My fun flask O' Jameson's Whiskey sure helps me deal with the pain in my ass. AKA my MIL.

PrimRoseMama

@adeb9562‌ : I'm sorry. Accidents happen, & it could have easily happened at home with you. Your H should cool his jets. Like, little kids are clutzy.

equinus

@adeb9562‌ awwww poor little lady! Babies fall even when everyone is watching, Ian tripped over my H's foot last weekend and had to get his forehead glued. When DD was this age she fell and whacked her incisor so hard it died, and now she has a grey tooth. It happens and your H needs to CTFD.

equinus

Toe update, I had the Doctor inject my toe joint with cortisone yesterday and holy hell did that hurt, but it was over quick, by yesterday evening though my toe was throbbing and I could hardly walk. It's slightly better today, I'm just praying it calms down once the cortisone kicks in. I am not sure I can work if it doesn't improve, it hurts way more now then before I injected it.

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valstulas

Byjove03 said:

@adeb9562‌ your violently angry statement makes me really anxious for you.

This.

How violent is "violently angry," exactly?

I mean, are we talking about yelling and flipping out, or punching things? Pushing or shoving? Hitting? Using weapons? Threats?

valstulas

adeb9562 said:

Oh trust me I've told MH he needs to go to the therapist too because he has rage issues. He, of course, denies that he has any problems what so ever.

My in-laws know he's got problems. My MIL just wishes me luck. They are used to his rage issues and don't do anything now to try to stop it.

We'll be going well enough for a while but then "something"happens and it sets him off again.

My parents are just sick over the whole teeth issue. They feel horrible that it happen at their house but there wasn't anything that could've been done to prevent it. She tripped. It was an accident. MH just doesn't believe any of us.

I feel bad too. Poor DD's smile was finally even (finally got tooth#8 just last week) and now she's missing a couple chunks off the two front teeth - imagine an upside down V on the two front teeth... just not quite so severe).

Anyways, hopefully tomorrow he'll not explode. But I highly doubt it. He's very unreasonable and has expectations that are unreasonable when it comes to DD.

This is a very round-about way of avoiding a very direct question, which only makes me more nervous.

I'm not resting on any laurels because I'm getting out of a nutso situation myself, but please remember that the roles you both accept in your relationship are what you daughter will aspire to, whether consciously or subconsciously. It would be a shame if she accepted that all women should be treated this way in her adult relationships.

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stephyfaith

I agree with everyone else adeb, you need to get out of there. It sounds like you are endangering not only yourself but your daughter as well. Kids do "dumb" things and the last thing you would want is for him to lose it on her. If everything you say about this situation is true, you have family support to back you up. I feel like it's foolish of you to do absolutely nothing. It's been awful, it's not getting better, so get out. I mean that in the nicest way possible.

Clyde013

@adeb9562‌ I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. The fact that you are posting it here shows that you want help. I'm not quite sure if/how we can help, but you need to seek professional help.

You're worried about losing your lo to someone with rage issues? If you seek appropriate help he shouldn't be able to get custody. Also aren't you worried about his rage becoming toward your lo?

I hope you can get the help you need >:D<

valstulas

Dude.

I have FOUR kids and ZERO family support. If I can do it, so can you.

ETA: I get the fear. Once you let go of the "what if's" and commit yourself to making it one day at a time, you'll be amazed at the doors that open up.

Clyde013

>:D< @valstulas‌
You have j13 family support

valstulas

^what I meant to say, with lots more patience and compassion.

What can I say? @casey78‌ is the shiz.

chiboo9

valstulas said:

^what I meant to say, with lots more patience and compassion.

What can I say? @casey78‌ is the shiz.

And she has nice bewebs

valstulas

chiboo9 said:

valstulas said:

^what I meant to say, with lots more patience and compassion.

What can I say? @casey78‌ is the shiz.

And she has nice bewebs

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As Finn is nursing less, I'm getting a better sense of what my bewbs will look like permanently.

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ETA: %bumpemoji

EagleWife

%beavertails. Bewb lifts for all!!!

chiboo9

I'm just now reading this thread Aden chick, get there to a layer that's jacked up!

chiboo9

valstulas said:

chiboo9 said:

valstulas said:

^what I meant to say, with lots more patience and compassion.

What can I say? @casey78‌ is the shiz.

And she has nice bewebs

( ( ( ( (

As Finn is nursing less, I'm getting a better sense of what my bewbs will look like permanently.

( ( ( ( (

ETA: %bumpemoji

Motorboat!

valstulas

chiboo9 said:

valstulas said:

chiboo9 said:

valstulas said:

^what I meant to say, with lots more patience and compassion.

What can I say? @casey78‌ is the shiz.

And she has nice bewebs

( ( ( ( (

As Finn is nursing less, I'm getting a better sense of what my bewbs will look like permanently.

( ( ( ( (

ETA: %bumpemoji

Motorboat!

I love those!

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To give or to receive?