Sad to say goodbye! — The Bump
June 2015 Moms

Sad to say goodbye!

I am so sad and scared right now.
Wish everyone here the best!
Can anyone help my pain and nerves... so scared for d &c!
Is it painful? do they put me out?

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. The miscarriage or pregnancy loss board is a good resource for others' experiences. I didn't have a D&C with my miscarriage, so no advice to share there.
    ((( hugs )))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss! Thoughts your way!
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  • So sorry, OP! Also no advice for you but please know you're in my T&P.
  • I'm so sorry you are going through this right now.
  • I'm so sorry. I did not have a D&C with my loss, so I don't have any advice on that part. Please be kind to yourself.
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  • I'm so, so sorry. You're in my T&P.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have any experience with the D&C but I can only imagine how scary that is. Be kind to yourself, I will be thinking about you.
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  • I was fully out for my D&C. As others have suggested, head to the Loss board, you will find great support there.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a very sad & confusing time. I had a D&E with both of my losses, which is very close to a D&C. I was put under for it, so you just wake up & it's over. After the procedure, I was a little crampy (but not in physical pain) & I had some bleeding for a few days (but not heavy). I hope it goes smoothly for you. Take care of yourself. Hugs!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  • First, I am so sorry for your loss. I had a D&C after a missed miscarriage my first pregnancy, was out for the procedure, had very little discomfort afterwards, and conceived my now 2 year old son 4 months after the procedure. I wish you the best in your recovery!
  • So sorry for your loss honey! I have no advice to give but it looks like some ladies above have. All I can say is I wish you the best with recovery and healing. Love and hugs to you in this hard time. Hopefully you have someone at home to give you the care and love you need as well ❤️
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  • I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. My thoughts are with you.


  • I am very sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm so so sorry for your loss. Please know that I'm thinking of you. Take care if yourself.

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  • I'm so sorry.  Take care of yourself--thinking of you.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • So sorry for your loss.  No D&C with either of my losses.  

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  • My heart goes out to you. So, so sorry to hear about your loss.
  • Sorry for your loss.

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  • So sorry to hear of your sad news. Best wishes on your recovery.
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  • As a nurse who worked peri-op for D&Cs, you should know that they vary as to what type of anesthesia they use. Sometimes it is local (they give you a combination of oral pain meds and meds that make you kind of drowsy. You take those and they give them time to kick in before you go into the operating room), or conscious sedation (they give you IV versions of these meds), or a general-like anesthesia (where you get an IV and you are unconscious for the surgery so you don't remember anything). For any of these options, expect some mild to moderate cramping in days following and be prepared to bleed for 2-4 weeks. The actual procedure is like 15-20 minutes long, unless complications arise (which aren't typical). Make sure you follow directions as far as not eating, drinking, or smoking within a certain time frame before the surgery (to prevent complications) and do your best to rest and stay off your feet for at least 24-48 hours (or however long your body tells you to) since being active can increase cramping and bleeding. Also, don't forget to take the meds that give you afterwards (pain meds as needed and antibiotics as directed). You'll be fine, just breathe, relax, and remember to let yourself rest and heal. Also, I'd highly encourage you to join a support group in-person or online for moms who have suffered losses. T&Ps for you!

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  • I'm so, so sorry. I can't imagine. Be kind to yourself. <3
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. :( please take care of yourself. My T&P are with you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.




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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I had a D&C in July (at 12 weeks) and they just gave me local medication (Xanax and 800mg Ibuprofen).  I wish I had been knocked out as the most uncomfortable part of the procedure was hearing everything going on. I can tell you that I was very scared about the pain I was going to feel days leading up to the procedure, but the pain wasn't as bad as I had feared.  When they dilate your cervix, you feel cramping, but it feels like a bad period.  I do hope that your doctor gives you the option to be knocked out as I would have definitely preferred that for my procedure.  My husband forced me out of the house two days after my procedure and we went on a pretty strenuous hike - it was a VERY bad idea.  I had horrible bleeding and cramping 3 days after that.  Make sure you get lots of rest, take it easy, and be kind to yourself.  Thoughts and prayers to you!  




  • Sorry OP. I had my D&C yesterday and (2nd this year) and I'm feeling great. They knock you out. It's a 30 minutes procedure. GL!
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  • For both of mine I was given general anesthesia, so I was out cold & remember/felt nothing. If you have the option, I think that's the way to go. I'm so sorry again.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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  • I'm so sorry, that's so sad. I can't imagine. Wishing you the best.
  • I'm so, so sorry for your loss. The combination of emotional pain and physical fear is overwhelming in situations like this. I hope you find peace. 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss, breaks my heart to read post like this. Lots of T&P.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for a successful surgery and get recovery
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  • Sending you a virtual hug and hand hold. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Take care of yourself. Keeping you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you the most positive vibes.
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