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ycasanova22

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hetispagetti

Does it really matter...you baby will come when they are ready!! Whether that's early or late!!

mariahd43

One of many options easily found by a quick Google search:

https://www.baby2see.com/conception_calculator.html 

janda426

What does it matter? It was over 6 months ago and if you weren't keeping track that ship kinda sailed. Just go by what your dr says

mangomimosa

Sounds like you ovulated around June 8-11. Sperm can live in your body for up to 5 days. Your accident could have happened as early as June 3 or as late as June 11. Personally I'd trust the earliest ultrasound which gives you a slightly smaller window - June 6-11. You will never know your exact date of conception. 

Google is magic. You're welcome.

ycasanova22

The only reason it matters now because my bf has been acting pretty mean and hasn't been here as much and now I'm doing a paternity test tomorrow. Because I was seeinging someone else in may. And my bf and I have been seeinging each other since june. He has been talking to his friends and he has now been acting as if the withdrawal method cannot get someone pregnant. So he paid all this money and now I go in tomorrow so they can draw blood and it makes me sadthat our relationship came to this espeespecially since I've known him for 4 years

Bostonchelle

Do you think you could be off on dating by 2 months- back to May? You aren't off by 2 months, your doctor wouldn't be off by that much. If you had sex with both of them in July that's a different story and your only way to know will be the paternity test.

ngolimento

I can't with this post, guys. Carry on, I shall be occupying my "I give up" couch.

ycasanova22

Well the reason I brought up may was because from the ultrasound 6 weeks and 5 days it came up as may 29th but I was still light bleeding from my period. And that's the day I had sex with the other guy which is true a paternity test will resolve everything. I just heard that they can possibly cause preterm labor and my bf wants to know

lawsonellis

I'm not making light of women who are in a questionable paternity situation, I swear, however, the way this thread panned out... I can only respond with this:

mariahd43

ycasanova22 said:

 I just heard that they can possibly cause preterm labor and my bf wants to know

I thought you said it was a blood test? Since when is having blood drawn a cause for preterm labor? 

ngolimento

Darbie914 said:

ycasanova22 said:

The only reason it matters now because my bf has been acting pretty mean and hasn't been here as much and now I'm doing a paternity test tomorrow. Because I was seeinging someone else in may. And my bf and I have been seeinging each other since june. He has been talking to his friends and he has now been acting as if the withdrawal method cannot get someone pregnant. So he paid all this money and now I go in tomorrow so they can draw blood and it makes me sadthat our relationship came to this espeespecially since I've known him for 4 years

This is exactly why I was suspicious of your post.  Because you'd been screwing around with someone else and wanted to know whose baby it was.  

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No, he's just mean! He doesn't have a legitimate concern about shoveling out money for this kid!

mangomimosa

ycasanova22 said:

The only reason it matters now because my bf has been acting pretty mean and hasn't been here as much and now I'm doing a paternity test tomorrow. Because I was seeinging someone else in may. And my bf and I have been seeinging each other since june. He has been talking to his friends and he has now been acting as if the withdrawal method cannot get someone pregnant. So he paid all this money and now I go in tomorrow so they can draw blood and it makes me sadthat our relationship came to this espeespecially since I've known him for 4 years

You almost certainly didn't conceive in May. I figured there was a paternity question.

The withdrawal "method" is NOT a reliable method of birth control. There is still a 4% chance of pregnancy if he pulled out PERFECTLY, EVERY TIME. And there is a 27% chance of pregnancy if he made *any* mistakes, even just a tiny bit, without realizing it. That's why it's called "pull and pray." The only people who should use withdrawal for birth control are those who would be ok with an unplanned pregnancy. 

I do not understand how you're sad or surprised that your relationship has "come to this" -- you might have known him for a few years, but you just started sleeping exclusively with him in June and got pregnant right away. That's not a very solid foundation for a relationship & I don't think it's unreasonable of him to question paternity. You literally could have gotten pregnant with this baby a handful of days after last sleeping with your previous partner. If the dates you posted are correct and you slept only with your current boyfriend between June 3-11, he is the father. But like I said - it's not unreasonable for him to question that fact. It would be hard to trust your word 100%.

This sucks, huh? Consider birth control in the future.

ycasanova22

Thank you and that is what i figured. I'm not to worried about it but the thought of what if is still in the back of my head. And whoever made the comment about the money. It isn't the issur . the issue here is me losing one of my best friends. I have a good career and I am not living off the government. Like I said I apologize if y'all got upset over this question

klax4

Although I feel like this may be a waste of time...
OP: My due date is March 1st. The first day of my last period was May 25. I *think* I ovulated around June 9-11. I say think because, although I charted, I can't be sure. If you had sex with another guy in early June, the baby could be his.
As for the pull out method...I'm just shaking my head. "It's ok baby, I'll pull out!"

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ruemorgan

....if youre getting the paternity test tomorrow, then why does it matter if you figure it out today. It will be figured out tomorrow. Idk if it was this thread or one of the others you created, but like a PP said, "it's been 6 months, if you werent keeping track then that ship has sailed! "

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ngolimento

MauiBliss said:

This thread....oh, this thread...

Care to join me on the 'I give up' couch? It's plush! *pats cushion next to her*.

ruemorgan

....if youre getting the paternity test tomorrow, then why does it matter if you figure it out today. It will be figured out tomorrow. Idk if it was this thread or one of the others you created, but like a PP said, if you were keep track then that ship has sailed!

Maybe she's going to make him an "oops it's not yours" cake?

I want "oops its not yours" cake. Damn the cravings! Cruel, cruel toastercat.

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ngolimento

ToasterCat said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

MauiBliss said:

This thread....oh, this thread...

Care to join me on the 'I give up' couch? It's plush! *pats cushion next to her*.

I like couches too >_>

Promise not to pirate all the fine ladies who join me? You have a reputation, you know.

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mandi195

cake and couch? Don't mind if I do...

ngolimento

ToasterCat said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

ToasterCat said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

MauiBliss said:

This thread....oh, this thread...

Care to join me on the 'I give up' couch? It's plush! *pats cushion next to her*.

I like couches too >_>

Promise not to pirate all the fine ladies who join me? You have a reputation, you know.

You know I can't resist Grumpy Cat! Damn you, get your glitter ass over here.

MalVough

He doesn't think you can get pregnant from the withdraw method? *facepalm*

ycasanova22

I really am not that worried about it, like I said. I'm not worried about him not being the father. I'm worried of the outcome about talking to our attorneys and dealing with parenting planning. He leaves to a different school and I stay here and finish. My schooling. I am done with school at the end of this semester and like I said to y'all money isn't the issue for either of us we both come from thriving families hence why we get along and have been friends for so long. So maybe I will bake him a cake tonight and no read all of these comments y'all left.  Because we eally Dont see it possible especially because the period ended the 30th. This is just a reassurance and the reason I posted this is to see if anyone just had some sort of problem. Because the question what if does run behind my head. That is all. But thank you ladies for the wonderful smart answers you gave. Clearly some of you have not persured an education and probably some of you are living off the governement and having people like my bf and I and our families pay for your lazy asses while you eat cake and sit around and get fat

MalVough

ycasanova22 said:

I really am not that worried about it, like I said. I'm not worried about him not being the father. I'm worried of the outcome about talking to our attorneys and dealing with parenting planning. He leaves to a different school and I stay here and finish. My schooling. I am done with school at the end of this semester and like I said to y'all money isn't the issue for either of us we both come from thriving families hence why we get along and have been friends for so long. So maybe I will bake him a cake tonight and no read all of these comments y'all left.  Because we eally Dont see it possible especially because the period ended the 30th. This is just a reassurance and the reason I posted this is to see if anyone just had some sort of problem. Because the question what if does run behind my head. That is all. But thank you ladies for the wonderful smart answers you gave. Clearly some of you have not persured an education and probably some of you are living off the governement and having people like my bf and I and our families pay for your lazy asses while you eat cake and sit around and get fat

Pro Tip: You might want to check your own spelling and grammar before assuming we're all uneducated and on welfare.

ngolimento

You are so right OP, I have in fact never 'persured' an education. Sounds kind of kinky.

lawsonellis

ycasanova22 said:

I really am not that worried about it, like I said. I'm not worried about him not being the father. I'm worried of the outcome about talking to our attorneys and dealing with parenting planning. He leaves to a different school and I stay here and finish. My schooling. I am done with school at the end of this semester and like I said to y'all money isn't the issue for either of us we both come from thriving families hence why we get along and have been friends for so long. So maybe I will bake him a cake tonight and no read all of these comments y'all left.  Because we eally Dont see it possible especially because the period ended the 30th. This is just a reassurance and the reason I posted this is to see if anyone just had some sort of problem. Because the question what if does run behind my head. That is all. But thank you ladies for the wonderful smart answers you gave. Clearly some of you have not persured an education and probably some of you are living off the governement and having people like my bf and I and our families pay for your lazy asses while you eat cake and sit around and get fat

Hahahahahahahahahah *gasp* hahahahahaha.

I find it humorous when people project their own self loathing on to total strangers.

Also, before you try trolling people with your superior education... Go back and get your degree in 5th grade spelling and grammar first.

Thanks and gig em.

sathena

I do hope she comes back to tell us if he IS or IS NOT the father. I love me some Maury.

FrecklesInside

Lol.

That was fun. I like when klassy people who can't spell tell me they're more educated than me. Lolz.

You're cute OP. Try birth control next time.

janda426

Wait so you're not even done school yet and are trying to claim we're all mooching off "people like you" lmao wut.

lynndavid6912

janda426 said:

Wait so you're not even done school yet and are trying to claim we're all mooching off "people like you" lmao wut.

Yep... This. @janda426‌ beat me to it. Also, I'm here for the cake!!!

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goofygoff

People like this are breeding.

I weep for the future.

  

hetispagetti

Do people not realise what they can catch from having unprotected sex.....ahhh

ruemorgan

Wtf guise, are you TRYING to make me bake a cake tonight. The cravings are so real today.

colleen4019

I don't even know what to say to any of this...pass the cake?

ycasanova22

I finish school at the end of this month. I'm sorry for not being able to spell correctly I have big fingers and they turn out to be mistyped. Your right I made the mistake of trying to vent to strangers in hopes maybe someone would be helpful and probably relate to the same situation. Yes I am a moocher I guess I was always given things by my parents. Yes I will probably not get a job with my degree but who cares. I finished school. I know that even the middle class pay taxes. People for our company are middle class or below. I also know that single mothers live below poverty :-p and some women just take advantage of what our country offers and they abuse it. I didn't post this thing to have people like you make comments like this. Y'all started it and its rude. I would think that you mothers or future mothers would have nicer things to say. I'm sorry okay if I did offended anyone.