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About to freak out!

ambmamaambmama member
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Guys - another one of my friends who JUST had a baby in June just announced her pregnancy. So many of my friends are pregnant with #2 right now and I just can't take it. I ugly cried just now, it's so not fair. That's all, I needed to whine. Carry on.

BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • morganlmwmorganlmw member
    June??? Did she even follow the 6 week rule?!?! Sorry hun. Wine is definitely called for
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  • emsmama15emsmama15 member
    I'm sorry @ambmama‌! I know how you feel. It sucks. Whine away...
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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  • WLJ2WLJ2 member
    Wine? I'm sorry!
    I share my office with two women. One of this is the only person I've told we are trying. She told me yesterday that they are going to start trying this month. I will really be happy for her but I already know I'll have a hard time surprising those feelings.
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  • Reagan1010Reagan1010 member
    I felt so jealous the day after Thanksgiving! A friend of mine growing up announced her 4th pregnancy when I had just started TTC. The day after Thanksgiving I had to see the announcement of her 'surprise' 5th...The really sad thing is her 4th child is almost 1...

    If I wouldn't have been with family I might have thrown my phone! She seems ecstatic, so I'm happy for her. ..just sad for me!!
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  • NB817NB817 member

    Ugh, I'm so sorry! Sending you a big HUG! I know how you feel!

    An ex-friend of mine announced yesterday and a mutual friend sent me the FB pic because she blocked me. The worst part is that this girl had an abortion a year ago because she "wasn't ready for a baby". Her and her H both have awesome jobs, are in their 30s, own a house, but weren't ready??? WTF. And now she's pregnant for a 2nd time??? In the pic she looks like she's 4 months along so she basically got pregnant again 7 months later and now she's ready. It's a good thing she blocked me because I would have probably wrote "Congrats on the baby you didn't kill".

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

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  • incirincir member
    That sucks!  I actually high-fived my husband in the car after dinner with another set of our friends because she was drinking at dinner.  I am convinced she is going to be the next one of our friends to announce they are pregnant with #2.  I'm so paranoid its pathetic.  I feel you!

    BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13
    BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14
    BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*
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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Thanks ladies! I appreciate you always letting me vent! :)

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • roselynnermroselynnerm member
    Argh, I hate that paranoid feeling that at any minute, someone is going to bust out the announcement. It makes my heart race.. In my experience, seeing the big bellies isn't as painful as being around ladies with little bumps that may or may not be pudge and wondering... 
    BFP 2/14/14, m/c 4/14/14 at 12 wks
    BFP 12/24/11… happy and healthy baby boy!
    BFP 11/23/11, m/c 11/25/11 at 4 wks
    BFP 7/10/09, m/c 7/23/09 at 6 wks

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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    That stinks, I know the feeling. Most of my friends that were pregnant around the same time I had DD, are either currently pregnant or have recently had babies. It's definitely frustrating.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • MillimeterMillimeter member
    I'm sorry.

    A lot of DH's classmates from law school had babies when the twins were born. Almost all have had or are pregnant with their next.
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