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After an exhausting 5 days we were told that DHs mass is not benign. He will need surgery for a biopsy and possible removal. Since it is in the chest close to throat and lungs it's not that simple. I'm hoping for good news and that surgery can take care of it all. We wait now to see the surgeon in 2 weeks. Mom not sure what this means for our TTC journey as I am not sure if any treatment would cause us to not be able to TTC. I'm hoping for the best. Thank you ladies for all of your support since Friday.

me = 32  DH = 33

TFAS  

BFP2 august 2014 ended in m/c .... Gone but not forgotten....forever in my heart!

Slight MFI low count, morph, mobility

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  • megrae12megrae12 member
    I've been thinking about you and your H. I hope surgery goes well and they are able to get everything out.
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much. 
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    I am so sorry you and your H are dealing with this. Sending thoughts & prayers your way that the doctors will take good care of him and that he will have a complete recovery.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • EIsieMaeEIsieMae member
    I'm so sorry that you guys are going through this. Sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts to you and your DH.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    I'm sorry it wasn't better news.  I hope the oncologist is able to give you a good plan and the surgery can take care of everything. (hugs)
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    PP gave good advice. I am just sending T&P.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • O2girlO2girl member
    CFearsy said:

    I'm so so sorry. I really like Petra's advice to learn about how this might affect his sperm health and take steps to store some if you choose to. ((HUGS))

    This exactly.

    I'm sorry you are going through this. T&Ps for you and YH. ((((((Hugs)))))))
    Me: 38
    DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

    DH: 34
    MFI due to Testicular Cancer

    Married March 2012 <3
    IVF w/ICSI #1
    10 little polar bears
    FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
    FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
    Beta 1= 276
    Beta 2= 662
    4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
    5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
    5/3/14 ~ D&C
    FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
    October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
    Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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  • HeyMrsPotterHeyMrsPotter member
    I'm so sorry the news wasn't what you hoped for. Sending positive thoughts your way and his.
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  • scoutmaxwellscoutmaxwell member
    So sorry to hear you guys are going thought this.  (hugs) 
    MC 10/14 @ 14 WKS 
    MC 1/12 @ 8 WKS
    DS BORN 9/15/09 
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry that the results came back this way. (Hugs) T&P.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • MrsPhD83MrsPhD83 member
    I'm so sorry to hear this. I agree that Petra gave great advice. You'll definitely want to have some options available to you. ((hugs)) sending positive vibes and thinking of you and YH
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    Me: 31, DH: 30, Married July 2013
    TTC since March 2014
    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

    Current plan: TTC while waiting for RPL results to come back
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  • TowerClimbersWifeTowerClimbersWife member
    Thoughts and Prayers that everything can be taken care of in surgery. That is so difficult!
    Where there is love, there is life.
    -Mahatma Gandhi-

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    BFP #1- Nov 10, 2014 EDD July 19, 2015 MC Nov 20, 2014 (5wk 4d)
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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm so sorry this is the result you got, you and YH will be in my thoughts. As always Petra has given very good advice. I hope the surgery goes well

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    I'm so sorry to read this news. I will be thinking of and praying for you and DH. I hope the surgery goes well and he gets a good prognosis. So many hugs.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Oh lady I am so sorry. Many ((hugs)).
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm so sorry you and YH are going through this. *hug*

    I know you're going through a lot right now but Petra had some really good advice and that sounds like a really good idea so you have options if necessary.

    My thoughts are with you guys.
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • eliidaeliida member
    I am so sorry that you and your husband are going through this. Thinking of you both and wishing you comfort.
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  • LizBlueLizBlue member
    I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. Take special care of yourself and each other. We are here for you - to listen, to care, to hug. Hang in there. One step at a time. Deep breaths. Xo
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    37 years old, MH is 42
    TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 
    August 2012 through June 2013:  6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
    7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
    8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
    3/15/14 IVF #1:  Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN. 
    Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
    6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN   
    8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy

    Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.  




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  • lycihlycih member
    I'm so very sorry to hear this news.  I think Petra gave great advice.  I will keep you and YH and my thoughts


    ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy

    BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d
    BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 
    BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14
    BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14




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  • welly01welly01 member
    I'm so sorry. I hope the surgery goes smoothly and that it won't have a permanent impact on TTC.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry you and your DH are going through this. I hope the surgery goes smoothly. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • forevermyfenixforevermyfenix member
    Oh I'm so sorry. I'd been thinking of you and hoping for better news. Fx things can get taken care of in surgery and T&P to you and your family. 
    BFP #1 12/19/13 We lost our Fenix 7/31/14 at 36 weeks due to torn umbilical cord
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am so sorry the news was not what you had hoped. I am keeping you in my thoughts.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • Rocks526Rocks526 member
    I'm so sorry you got this new. You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers.  (((Hugs)))
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so sorry!  I hope that the surgery can get this taken care of and that there aren't any long-term effects.  I agree that it might be worth freezing some swimmers now just in case.  Many, many ((((HUGS)))) and I will be keeping you and YH in my T&Ps. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    I'm so sorry ((hugs)) FX the surgery is the solution.
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  • lovemybellaglovemybellag member
    Thank you ladies. I agree that maybe freezing or IUI before any treatment (if needed) but am unsure how to approach this topic with DH. I can see he is worried and right now we are hoping that whatever it is surgery can take care of it alone. I think he is thinking more about his life than conceiving right now which is totally understandable. Just need to pray and remain hopeful.

    me = 32  DH = 33

    TFAS  

    BFP2 august 2014 ended in m/c .... Gone but not forgotten....forever in my heart!

    Slight MFI low count, morph, mobility

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry that the news was not better. I will be keeping you and YH in my thoughts and prayers.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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