NTTCAL Who do you judge?

PinkCamino

Let's put on our judgy pants ladies. I can't guarantee you wont get flamed so tread with caution, or don't. it's up to you!

PinkCamino

Not necessarily "judge" but more sideeye I guess.

I judge people who come to TTCAL and say they lurk and read everything but never take the time to post. Why not read half those threads and show a little love?

welly01

furrypaws said:

Be it right or wrong...I probably judge most people.

Can I use this one too?

PinkCamino

Don't deny it. We all do it.

PinkCamino

I'm judging all of you for your lack of specifics.
:-L

PinkCamino

leloyd said:

I hate to say it, but I judge a lot of people for so many things.  Today I have been lurking on some other boards after a couple posts in the blanket fort piqued my interest, so I will say I judge people who make poor life choices and then overshare. 

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TheAerialist

oh, we all judge so many people

I judge people who insist that they must have a giant house that they can't actually afford (or honestly, even if they can afford it, why do they need it!?)

I judge people who wear questionable clothing that doesn't fit their bodies

I judge people for eating crap even though I secretly love mcdonalds.  I am the worlds biggest hypocrite on that one!

PinkCamino

Sterling13 said:

I honestly give so few fucks about what anyone else does as long as it doesn't affect me.

This is so so true.

welly01

I've got one.  People who have dramatic, personal conversations at work.  A coworker is having quite the dramatic conversation with someone he's upset with about money.  We have a stairwell right near our desks that provides a little more privacy.  He chose the kitchen...that amplifies his voice...and is centrally located.

Take that shit outside, bro.

Km380

Ooh! Let me get my white wig out bc I judge pretty much everyone...


People with no manners

People that have been doing their job for years and still ask obvious simple questions

People that complain they can't meet someone decent...but are looking on Tinder. Come on!!

People that say they love their jobs 100% of the time. You're clearly lying. Oh and I judge people that lie.

People that can't feed their family but expect to have the latest "insert whatever" here. Usually tech. Priorities!!

People who think the world revolves around their selfish asses

Also people who say they don't judge people - you're lying too [-(

I think that's enough for one day?


Eta to remove insensitive remarks

LittleMrsW

scout336 said:

I've got one.  People who have dramatic, personal conversations at work.  A coworker is having quite the dramatic conversation with someone he's upset with about money.  We have a stairwell right near our desks that provides a little more privacy.  He chose the kitchen...that amplifies his voice...and is centrally located.

Take that shit outside, bro.

I have have a few of those people at work too. Not everyone in the break room wants to hear about your family drama.

PinkCamino

Km380 said:

Ooh! Let me get my white wig out bc I judge pretty much everyone... Fat unhealthy people eating fast food People with no manners People that have been doing their job for years and still ask obvious simple questions People that cannot do basic math People that clearly married the wrong person and are too lazy to do anything about that People that complain they can't meet someone decent...but are looking on Tinder. Come on!! People that say they love their jobs 100% of the time. You're clearly lying. Oh and I judge people that lie. People that can't feed their family but expect to have the latest "insert whatever" here. Usually tech. Priorities!! People who think the world revolves around their selfish asses Also people who say they don't judge people - you're lying too [-( I think that's enough for one day?

1. The word Fat is really insulting.

2. People who can't do math may suffer from dyscalcula

PinkCamino

Sterling13 said:

jj32 said:

Sterling13 said:

Oh wait, I have two: No punctuation/run on sentences on a message board and not being able to see sexytime on people's charts.

@sterling13 And where is your chart for us to view sexy time?  

Touché! Since I'm TTA it's boring. I'll put it up when we are TTC again.

I want to stalk your fucking chart, boring or not. I need to know what's going on in your bedroom.

Km380

@pinkcamino I do recognize there are certainly medical conditions that impact ones weight. However I also know some people who are unhealthy out of laziness and not caring. I am not sure if I can explain that better. But that is who I was thinking of. I definitely did not mean to insult anyone, I apologize.
Math - hm I had not considered that, very valid point. But, some people just can't function without technology anymore.

tlc35

jj32 said:

I am judging hardcore lately on people who post something and NEVER come back to read the responses. It was apparently important because you made a post so why can't you come back and read? 

I also judge people that have no manners in public. Cutting check-out lines, bumping you with their cart, squeezing by and not saying excuse me, cutting you off with a parking space, walking in front of you taking their sweet ass time, not giving a courtesy wave if I let you out in traffic...my list could go on. What happen to basic common courtesy? 

OMG, this!! If it is important enough to start a thread, come back and read what people take the time to type.

buggirl72

Km380 said:

Ooh! Let me get my white wig out bc I judge pretty much everyone... Fat unhealthy people eating fast food People with no manners People that have been doing their job for years and still ask obvious simple questions People that cannot do basic math People that clearly married the wrong person and are too lazy to do anything about that People that complain they can't meet someone decent...but are looking on Tinder. Come on!! People that say they love their jobs 100% of the time. You're clearly lying. Oh and I judge people that lie. People that can't feed their family but expect to have the latest "insert whatever" here. Usually tech. Priorities!! People who think the world revolves around their selfish asses Also people who say they don't judge people - you're lying too [-( I think that's enough for one day?

I'm sorry, but I don't get that one. I think it's the "too lazy to do anything about it." If the person clearly married the wrong person (is this your perspective or theirs?) what are they supposed to do about it? Get a divorce? Acquainting not getting a divorce with being lazy is pretty shitty of you.

buggirl72

I judge people on Facebook who have joint accounts with their SO.

Km380

@buggirl72 yes you are correct broad statement that is shitty of me. I actually do know someone who has said they want a divorce but it's too much trouble. They are not against it for any personal reason, they actually admitted that.
Can I Eta and change mine. Clearly I got on a rant thinking of specific people I know. I'm really not trying to be an ass and offend people here

buggirl72

Km380 said:

@buggirl72 yes you are correct broad statement that is shitty of me. I actually do know someone who has said they want a divorce but it's too much trouble. They are not against it for any personal reason, they actually admitted that. Can I Eta and change mine. Clearly I got on a rant thinking of specific people I know. I'm really not trying to be an ass and offend people here

It's always okay to ETA for clarification

Km380

buggirl72 said:

Km380 said:

@buggirl72 yes you are correct broad statement that is shitty of me. I actually do know someone who has said they want a divorce but it's too much trouble. They are not against it for any personal reason, they actually admitted that.
Can I Eta and change mine. Clearly I got on a rant thinking of specific people I know. I'm really not trying to be an ass and offend people here

It's always okay to ETA for clarification


I removed. Hope that's ok also. For being insensitive and also thinking of very specific people without being clear in my explanation.

Nikolie93

I also find myself judging people that start topics and never come back. At first I didn't understand the frustrations of some of the ladies but shit, I spend a lot of time a work responding.. When I should be working. The least they can do is respond!

I also judge people that have joint accounts on FB. And I REALLY judge the people that post all over their SO's wall everyday "I love you!" "you're my soul mate forever and ever" "I don't know what I would do without you in my life my wittle teddy bear!" wtf?

It seems like some are trying to put on an act for the sake of others or trying to convince themselves they are happy. BTW.. I've been in that situation (pre FB days)

Edit (trying again) : FYI, this judging has to do with people on my FB, not everyone in general. I know the situations people are in that are on my FB, I don't know everyone else's.

yellowcat10

McSarah1104 I judge the hell out of people wearing inappropriate cloths.  

I also judge people who are "or claim to be" happy and optimistic all the time.  Must be lying or on something really good they should be sharing.

And, when someone starts a sentence "I am not judging, but..."  I am judging them right then and there.

Rachaeleigh

I was excited to read this thread but my formatting is all messed up, not sure if it's just a mobile thing

My short list from today:

I judge women that wear "hookerish" shoes to work, in a office, professional type of environment
Hookerish meaning metallic colors, crazy platform heights

I judge excessive mispelling and constant incorrect use of punctuation

I judge a constant negative fucking attitude. We all have problems but (especially in my employment situation working with other adults) we don't just get free passes to act on our damn feelings ALL of the time. Grow up and get some perspective

mflowers929

I judge my coworkers who whine about their pay. It's not that my boss doesn't want to pay us more, it's that she can't. What don't you understand about that?

rubysi

I judge people who wear flip flops in the snow.

I judge people who park their shopping cart behind them and block aisle at work.

I judge people who drive poorly. Please use your signal appropriately, drive faster than 5mph, and get off your phone!

I judge people with unruly children (this does stem from jealousy)

I judge my boss, and his lack of interest in my department that brings in 45%of the stores business.

I judge lots of people, places and things...

PinkCamino

I judge people who choose not to investigate their TTC issues further when there is clearly a problem and then cry that they are not moving on. I was scared out of my mind for a good portion of my benching but I got that shit done.

Menrandes

I judge people who don't follow the rules/etiquette of the board and get all butt hurt when they are called out on it. 

I judge the crap out of people that walk incredibly slowly in public places.  Especially when it is more than one person and they are difficult to get around.

I judge people that assume I'm gluten free because of a fad.  Even if it was, who the hell cares?

Rachaeleigh

I forgot my biggest obsession:

I judge people that park incredibly crooked in a spot.
Come on, people! It only takes 10 seconds readjust. When you leave your car crooked, it fucks the rest of us

lycih

I judge the people who just shove their way onto the train before other people get off.  NEWSFLASH: you're not the only one trying to get anywhere, AND if you waited to let the other people off, you might even get a seat/more space to stand

buggirl72

I judge people who do not know how to merge and people who do not know how to let people merge.

The zipper works and letting one driver in is not going to make you late for work.

(My commute is full of asshole drivers).

PinkCamino

lycih said:

I judge the people who just shove their way onto the train before other people get off.  NEWSFLASH: you're not the only one trying to get anywhere, AND if you waited to let the other people off, you might even get a seat/more space to stand

hahahahahaha come to my city and you'll be pissed off all the fucking time. The only way to ride the subway is to push your way through!

Nikolie93

Ohh, I thought of another one. I automatically assume one is a rude, disrespectful, asshat if they don't use their turn signals here in FL.

I'm sure some are very nice people but...
No.

PinkCamino

readinglove said:

Oh man. I have my judge-y pants on more often than not. I blame my low bullshit tolerance. 

-People that dress for the body they wish they had, not the body they have.

-Incompetence at work. If you don't want to teach and help the children grow, why the hell are you in education??

-People who take up the entire aisle in the grocery store with their cart. Pardon me, I'd like the get through!

-Those who feel as though the rules don't apply to them. 

so tell me, what makes a good teacher in your opinion?

EIsieMae

lycih said:

I judge the people who just shove their way onto the train before other people get off.  NEWSFLASH: you're not the only one trying to get anywhere, AND if you waited to let the other people off, you might even get a seat/more space to stand

I do the same thing with elevators! Wait for people to get off, then get on the elevator.

@readinglove‌ The grocery cart thing drives me crazy also. There is no reason to take up a whole aisle.

mkfish31

lycih said:

I judge the people who just shove their way onto the train before other people get off.  NEWSFLASH: you're not the only one trying to get anywhere, AND if you waited to let the other people off, you might even get a seat/more space to stand

That goes for the elevator, too. 

renegadewhit

Menrandes said:

I judge people who don't follow the rules/etiquette of the board and get all butt hurt when they are called out on it. 

I judge the crap out of people that walk incredibly slowly in public places.  Especially when it is more than one person and they are difficult to get around.

I judge people that assume I'm gluten free because of a fad.  Even if it was, who the hell cares?

This!! I judge people who expect me to explain my medical issues so they can understand why I can't eat gluten. I'm allergic. MOVE ON! (rant over)

I judge people with really bad grammar. You may be able to find a good example on the intros today. 

I judge people that take credit for other people's work.

flyoffeve

I judge a lot of people:

-bad drivers including too slow, leaving their turn signal on, and talking or texting while driving

-the way people dress

-those that have a diet coke with their order at McDonald's

-those that complain about something at work after I have already listened and come up with a  solution

-those that think they know it all, which at many times mean they are still talking in a meeting and the rest of us are ready to move on

-slow walkers and people that walk next to each other in a line so that you can't pass in the hall/sidewalk/grocery aisle

-those that talk too loudly on their phones

Many were echoed from pp, hehe. We should go people watching sometime! The list could probably go on.

Km380

CFearsy said:

@km380, What is Tinder?

An app designed for finding a hook up in your general vicinity. It uses GPS and it shows pictures of people on the app near you. It is pretty clear from what I have been told that is geared toward hook ups, not relationships. Which is fine if someone is looking for a hook up, not judging that.

ETA trying to be clear

Km380

CFearsy said:

Km380 said:

CFearsy said:

@km380, What is Tinder?

An app designed for finding a hook up in your general vicinity. It uses GPS and it shows pictures of people on the app near you. It is pretty clear from what I have been told that is geared toward hook ups, not relationships. Which is fine if someone is looking for a hook up, not judging that.

ETA trying to be clear

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Okay, good to know! I sort of assumed it was a dating website and was all ready to defend my position since I met MH on Match.com.
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That's where I met mh too!

Nikolie93

@Sterling13‌ I typically can't judge people's choice of clothing... I have the worst fashion sense ever! Lol

However, I do find myself judging girls who wear shirts where their boobs are hanging out... But only when they seem to get pissed when a guy looks at them.

gscoville

I judge people who smoke. I have a smoke sensitivity and just having to walk through the cloud at the entrance to a mall can set me up for a bad day or two, not to mention standing next to someone for any length of time with the smell emanating out of their clothes and pores. I know it's an addiction and hard to quit, but I judge them anyways, contact with smoke makes me completely miserable so I have absolutely no sympathy.