I would have hulk smashed that bitch. Seriously, I can't believe you held it together, THT.
Haha, I don't know if I would call it holding it together. It was more of a combination of never sticking up for myself + being 'stuck' as the responsible ride for overly drunk people + being so miserable and exhausted that I just sat there and took it. It's pretty embarrassing that I didn't say anything or leave now that I'm thinking about the whole day.
Getting DH to calm down about it in his drunken state was worse than dealing with it TBH. Drunk people are not fun unless I'm drunk, too. And the big kicker was that the last bar we went to allows smoking. Talk about feeling like a fucking loser - being in there while pregnant. Shame on me.
Just to clarify, I was saying that the way THT was treated was unacceptable.
It seems what I typed was unclear, I've been in the mean girls shoes (and honestly felt pretty desperate by month 5 TTC, and it still took another 20+ months for us) and can understand the feelings NOT the actions.
I didn't take it the wrong way. Like I said, I have had fewer struggles than most by miles and still have some strong reactions and feelings. I can't even imagine
@loislayn I'm really sorry about Reid. The last picture I saw of him was as Junior Dad on Halloween and I almost died. He's such a cute little guy and I'm sad you are all going through this.
This may not mean much, but to all of you that are having problems: I'm sorry and I hope things turn around soon. I'm sorry I don't respond much, but I frequently don't know what to say, and I don't want to copy everyone else. I promise I'm thinking of you, and sending good thoughts. I just don't always say it.
I would have hulk smashed that bitch. Seriously, I can't believe you held it together, THT.
Haha, I don't know if I would call it holding it together. It was more of a combination of never sticking up for myself + being 'stuck' as the responsible ride for overly drunk people + being so miserable and exhausted that I just sat there and took it. It's pretty embarrassing that I didn't say anything or leave now that I'm thinking about the whole day.
Getting DH to calm down about it in his drunken state was worse than dealing with it TBH. Drunk people are not fun unless I'm drunk, too. And the big kicker was that the last bar we went to allows smoking. Talk about feeling like a fucking loser - being in there while pregnant. Shame on me.
No. No. No. I would have given them the name to a cab company or made sure their Uber was set up and left. I also would have probably told her she could stay home before we even left if she was that rude to me, but I am bitchy like that.
I can understand being upset around pregnant people. You all know I am struggling. That does not give anyone the right to be mean though. If she was going to have such a bad reaction around a belly, she should have stayed home.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube #11 or IVF with scarring still inside? 1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
Did something happen to bring on this change? Is he trying to sell the things for money or just really wants to simplify life? Sorry if I'm being nosy, just curious what brought this about?
Is he reading a minimalist blog while at work? It always sounds fun to me to do the minimalist thing but then I look around and I'm like, oh - I like stuff. The tv and curtains and things sure sound like a minimialist paring down.
He has started reading a few minimalist blogs, so I'm sure that's where it's all stemming from.
@tyrannosaurusjess oooh please oh please tell me you will end up on the show Tiny House Nation!
Did something happen to bring on this change? Is he trying to sell the things for money or just really wants to simplify life? Sorry if I'm being nosy, just curious what brought this about?
Is he reading a minimalist blog while at work? It always sounds fun to me to do the minimalist thing but then I look around and I'm like, oh - I like stuff. The tv and curtains and things sure sound like a minimialist paring down.
He has started reading a few minimalist blogs, so I'm sure that's where it's all stemming from.
@tyrannosaurusjess oooh please oh please tell me you will end up on the show Tiny House Nation!
Omg, that's probably H's dream. He always says he thinks we should just sell our house, buy a sprinter van, 'deck it out' and live out of it.
Live in a van with two small kids? Sign me up. Said no one ever.
Re: Monday, Monday, Monday
Getting DH to calm down about it in his drunken state was worse than dealing with it TBH. Drunk people are not fun unless I'm drunk, too. And the big kicker was that the last bar we went to allows smoking. Talk about feeling like a fucking loser - being in there while pregnant.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
@tyrannosaurusjess oooh please oh please tell me you will end up on the show Tiny House Nation!
@tyrannosaurusjess oooh please oh please tell me you will end up on the show Tiny House Nation!
Omg, that's probably H's dream. He always says he thinks we should just sell our house, buy a sprinter van, 'deck it out' and live out of it.Live in a van with two small kids? Sign me up. Said no one ever.