*~*~* May Flowers Check-In*~*~* 11/4/14

TashaCN

@Km360, Thanks for the check-in. My EDD was 5/14/15. I noticed it was not on the list above. Moving the check-in to Monday works just fine for me too!

I'm late checking in today. I just got home from visiting my sister in California. Still waiting for my body to decide how it wants to heal. Spotting, bleeding, nothing. It can't decide!! I have my first follow up appointment on Friday. Hopefully the doc can help me understand what is going on. My only other concern is I've had no labs drawn since my first prenatal appt where we found out we had probably miscarried; and reading everyone else's stories makes me feel like I'm missing out on something. 

QOTW. I like to hold off on decorating until the 1st of December. Otherwise it all loses the magic by Christmas for me!. 

I'm going to go read everyone else's updates now. Many warm and positive thoughts to you all. Hope your weeks are grand. 

TashaCN

@ElsieMae - Just wanted to say I'm a true Minnesotan, born and raised. So if you and your husband have any questions about the state/area (I'm currently in the metro) feel free to PM me. 

Km380

@ChanelA‌ ugh I'm sorry I read your update wrong. Glad you got a neg!

Km380

TashaCN said:

@Km360, Thanks for the check-in. My EDD was 5/14/15. I noticed it was not on the list above. Moving the check-in to Monday works just fine for me too!

I'm late checking in today. I just got home from visiting my sister in California. Still waiting for my body to decide how it wants to heal. Spotting, bleeding, nothing. It can't decide!! I have my first follow up appointment on Friday. Hopefully the doc can help me understand what is going on. My only other concern is I've had no labs drawn since my first prenatal appt where we found out we had probably miscarried; and reading everyone else's stories makes me feel like I'm missing out on something. 

QOTW. I like to hold off on decorating until the 1st of December. Otherwise it all loses the magic by Christmas for me!. 

I'm going to go read everyone else's updates now. Many warm and positive thoughts to you all. Hope your weeks are grand. 

I will add the date, sorry about that. How was your trip to Ca? Our bodies post loss can be completely wacky and it sucks. Will you get bloodwork at your follow up? I would definitely ask if they will track you to zero and what you should expect in the next few weeks physically. (((Hugs)))

alm288

@‌king26 - yay for a positive opk!

@nikiswimr‌ - good luck with the house hunting

@Giants721‌ - sooo exiting! FX for you this cycle!

@ChanelA‌ - I'm sorry they aren't tracking your betas. I agree with @km360 maybe it's time for a new OB.

@TashaCN‌ - hope you had a good trip and that your appt on Friday goes well.

alm288

Pregnancy mentioned (NOT MINE).

I was so looking forward to unwinding with two of my friends on Friday. One of them is my best friend and they are my drinking buddies.

My best friend just warned me that our friend is pregnant (cue gut punch!!). She said, if I want to cancel, do it quick.

It's so horrible, but I cancelled. I feel like I can't deal with that this week. She literally just got off the pill and they are not in the best place to be having kids (my opinion). She complains about him, their financial issues, needing a bigger place to live, etc.

It boils down to me being jealous in the end. Do you guys cancel on friends and avoid them when you find out they are pregnant? I feel bad, but I don't want to deal with the situation.

Sorry for venting! Thanks for reading though.

Km380

alm288 said:

Pregnancy mentioned (NOT MINE).

I was so looking forward to unwinding with two of my friends on Friday. One of them is my best friend and they are my drinking buddies.

My best friend just warned me that our friend is pregnant (cue gut punch!!). She said, if I want to cancel, do it quick.

It's so horrible, but I cancelled. I feel like I can't deal with that this week. She literally just got off the pill and they are not in the best place to be having kids (my opinion). She complains about him, their financial issues, needing a bigger place to live, etc.

It boils down to me being jealous in the end. Do you guys cancel on friends and avoid them when you find out they are pregnant? I feel bad, but I don't want to deal with the situation.

Sorry for venting! Thanks for reading though.

(((Hugs))) I probably would have done the same. Sometimes it depends on the day or the person or situation what I can handle. If that's her situation I'd feel the way you do. I'm sorry your girls night got ruined. Can you plan something with just your bf?

welly01

 @alm288, I would have done the same thing.  Sometimes I just can't deal with that.

alm288

Thanks @Km380‌, @cavewmn & @scout336‌ !!
I might just meet up with my friend. Just have a guilty conscious. >:D<

Km380

@alm288 definitely don't feel guilty sweetie. One of those easier said than done things but remind yourself you shouldn't

Menrandes

**hugs**  I probably would have done the same thing! 

nikiswimr

@alm288‌ I've definitely been doing the same thing. Some days I feel like I can handle OPP, some days not at all.