June 2013 Moms

UO Thread

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                                                                   Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
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  • Thanks @wasnotwas, I was really hoping the UO would show up on Tuesday!
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  • @bleachy14 It wasn't really directed at you, I just get hot about the topic in general and was in the quoting mood :)
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  • Will has a peanut allergy. He is still going trick or treating and I will sort through his candy before he gets any (not like he'll be eating much, but still). This is my game plan for years going forward as well. If someone has something w/o nuts, cool, if not than more for me!

    I like the teal pumpkin idea but am too cheap to put one out this year even though I will have some non-peanut candy available. I also hit up the dollar store and bought a couple kazoos (your welcome, allergy parents).

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  • I find buying Halloween candy challenging. I want to buy stuff I like incase there are leftovers, but not stuff I hate in case there are left overs. FWP's.
    I was on a money saving website and they said to buy generic suckers so you only buy what you are going to give out and don't eat any yourself :)
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                                                                       Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
  • GraceInCA said:
    When we are hiring, I google people and if I find things I think are objectionable, I pass on their resume.  For example, if you have tons of anti-vax stuff on your Facebook, I immediately deduct 50 IQ points and assume that you are not capable of processing information, so you can't work here. Same if you are doing a keg stand. You're applying for a job, at least clean up the social media a bit, you know? I know some people think that's an invasion of privacy, which is why it's my UO.
    At first I thought this was awesome, there's nothing on my social media presence that I'm ashamed of. Then I thought about possibly not getting a job because someone doesn't like that I would hypothetically circ a son. Now seems less awesome.

    I don't consider it an invasion of privacy, I consider anything on the internet public to everyone, but the criteria is a grey zone.

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  • @bleachy14 if you have a child with special dietary (or otherwise) needs you can map out a route that would/will be safe for them. I don't think it's unreasonable to drop off something and say "the password is un-fun" when I stop by, if you want your child to have the same trick or treating experience as every other kid.

    I would assume that if that meant knocking on strangers houses ahead of time that would make you feel even better, because Halloween night won't be the first time you are knocking on this person's door. Did that make sense, I'm reading it back and it's not making a ton of sense...basically, the issue of the strangers will be an issue either way.

    I think you hit on what is the root of my issues: gratefulness. A child and parent should be happy that they get anything from me, whether it be butterscotch candy or a special bag of alternative treats. The expectation and entitlement that the teal pumpkin project (I think) promotes is what chaps my ass

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  • @stargazer763‌ I completely agree with you. Especially when it comes to clothes. I can't stand that there are 10 racks with girl clothes and like 2 for boys. Grayson can play with dolls and kitchen stuff or whatever. But I'm not going to put him in "girl" clothes. My son won't be wearing a pink shirt with Barbie on it or something like that. The shoe section is always the worst.
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  • @stargazer763‌ I completely agree with you. Especially when it comes to clothes. I can't stand that there are 10 racks with girl clothes and like 2 for boys. Grayson can play with dolls and kitchen stuff or whatever. But I'm not going to put him in "girl" clothes. My son won't be wearing a pink shirt with Barbie on it or something like that. The shoe section is always the worst.

    I agree with you both! There are way more girl things (clothes mainly) and it is so annoying! And if you go to a kids boutique that has more boy things, it's crazy expensive.
  • @subliminalrabbit‌ M got a musical tea set for her birthday and it's a huge hit! I think ours is Fisher Price, and very purple/pink, but if you can find one for E I'd totally recommend it. We have tea parties on the regular around here.
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  • I don't get the zombie craze either. Not my thing at all.

    I didn't know what the teal pumpkin thing was, so I googled it. Personally, I think it's a great idea to have other options available other than candy. It's not like it would cost a whole lot. I have seen multi-packs of stickers for a dollar before, and that could be broken up to a sheet per kid. Or cheap Halloween pencils or something. I don't see it as parents expecting you to cater to their children. I look at it from the point of view of a child--the poor kid is already restricted in what he or she can eat, maybe even made fun of for it, and now they have to miss out on a childhood rite of passage because of their allergy too? This gives them a chance to just be like other kids for once. Now I wouldn't spend money on an actual teal pumpkin to display. I would just put up a sign or ask if anyone has food allergies.
  • Ive said this before but parents that both go trick or treating with their kid/kids and leave their door unattended for other kids are selfish. My kid likes to knock and get a person, so c'mon you can take turns helicopter parenting your child and instagraming them at every door and man your damn door. It's a one parent job.

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  • calikat80 said:
    Ive said this before but parents that both go trick or treating with their kid/kids and leave their door unattended for other kids are selfish. My kid likes to knock and get a person, so c'mon you can take turns helicopter parenting your child and instagraming them at every door and man your damn door. It's a one parent job.
    This didn't even occur to me, but you have a point. However, we are ToTing in a neighborhood 20 minutes away so that E can ToT with her cousins. Neither one of us are willing to sit at home and pass out candy and miss out on a family GTG. I think you are referring to people ToTing in their own neighborhood though.
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  • That makes sense @CL8badB‌ I didn't even think about that.

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  • CL8badB said:

    That makes sense @CL8badB‌ I didn't even think about that.

    I could be totally wrong but that just where my mind went! ;)
    But if the kids are still getting candy does it really matter if a person is handing it to them?

    Meh, I could totally be over thinking this I'm just honestly confused at why one parent should be at home to pass out candy.

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  • I agree @calikat80‌ ! And even as a kid, I liked having a human there to comment on my costume- that I usually worked pretty hard on. The parents in our neighborhood almost all split it up- one 1/2 with one parent, 1/2 with the other. That's what we will do when b is older as well. (This year, my H is just taking him the whole time since he will only hit about 5 houses).
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  • Also part of it is kind of me being an old lady and thinking "kids these days!" Because seriously, do any of you guys remember both of your parents taking you around? I just find it a bit hovery. Obviously if you are going to an event or another neighborhood i get both parents going.

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  • But @calikat80‌ we have a family costume :( actually, what we do is the immediate neighbors together and then split off.

    But, question, there is no sidewalk on our side of the road and we have a crazy long driveway (and crazy loud dogs) so we set up at the end of our driveway and hand out candy. Does that ruin ToTing? (I don't teally know how that acronym works)
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                                                                       Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
  • Honestly @calikat80‌ that's one thing I hate about our house, it's not ToT friendly. My dad would dress up in full make up every year to answer the door!! But mine is a house you'd skip as a kid because it's a corner lot on a culdesac, so you'd just move on...that's why I need the good stuff too @CL8badB‌
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