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First Trimester Check-in (10/27)

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  • Here I am!

    EDD/Week/Fruit: June 17, 2015/7 weeks tomorrow/Blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational):
    Same as always, another loss.

    Appointments scheduled:
    Thursday we have an early OB appt due to the past loss. I will have another US that day and am hoping for another good scan as it is our anniversary and I would hate to have it marred by bad news.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates:
    Last loss was at 9 weeks so I am just trying to keep it together and get past that. 

    QotW:
    I haven't really thought about it. I read a lot of Dr. Suess to my other children and of course Love You Forever.

    Hope everyone else is doing well!
    Happy anniversary!!!! How many years? Do you have any plans, aside from the early OB and u/s? Fx for a fantastic appointment! It is really hard approaching and living through your loss milestone, well, at least it was for me. I hope it isn't too bad for you!

    I used to really like Dr. Seuss, but having seen the Cat in the Hat cartoon, I have really started to dislike it. Maybe it is Martin Short's weaselly voice with the rhymes, but every word of Seuss, even if I am reading it, grates on me.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • Here I am!

    EDD/Week/Fruit: June 17, 2015/7 weeks tomorrow/Blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational):
    Same as always, another loss.

    Appointments scheduled:
    Thursday we have an early OB appt due to the past loss. I will have another US that day and am hoping for another good scan as it is our anniversary and I would hate to have it marred by bad news.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates:
    Last loss was at 9 weeks so I am just trying to keep it together and get past that. 

    QotW:
    I haven't really thought about it. I read a lot of Dr. Suess to my other children and of course Love You Forever.

    Hope everyone else is doing well!
    Happy anniversary!!!! How many years? Do you have any plans, aside from the early OB and u/s? Fx for a fantastic appointment! It is really hard approaching and living through your loss milestone, well, at least it was for me. I hope it isn't too bad for you!

    I used to really like Dr. Seuss, but having seen the Cat in the Hat cartoon, I have really started to dislike it. Maybe it is Martin Short's weaselly voice with the rhymes, but every word of Seuss, even if I am reading it, grates on me.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • Thanks for the check-in @footprint! Hope you are feeling better soon! My first apt last week went well. We saw a flicker of a heartbeat, good rate and even got to hear it a little! What a relief it was, tears of joy! Shortly after though the worry until the next US set in.....

    EDD/Week/Fruit       7W1D/Blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational)   PGAL brain sucks :/ 

    Appointments scheduled    11/19/2014

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates: Not for a couple weeks

    QotW: 
    What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby:

    The Giving Tree for sure! and Love you Forever


    "Today I am pregnant and I love my baby"

    Married 12/18/2010   BFP#1 4/1/14   MC 5/6/14   D&C 5/13/14  BFP#2 10/5/14

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  • EDD/Week/Fruit
    May 20/10w6d

    Worries (rational or irrational)
    Lost all my symptoms, so afraid I am in the same boat as last pregnancy - another missed miscarriage.

    Appointments scheduled
    Friday, Oct 31 - bloodwork and urine test were done at intake appt, this will be the first pre-natal appt. I will get results of those tests and will be close to 12 wks so hoping I hear that heart beat.

    QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby?
    My favorite as a child was "Good Night Moon" but and Dr Seuss book will do. When older - "The Last Basselope"
  • @footprint I didn't place a call to my doctor yet.  Honestly, I don't know what (if anything) they could do at this point.  I'm not far enough along for an u/s to show much.  I guess they could do betas, but I don't know if that would reassure me all that much.  So far today, I haven't had any spotting.  I will certainly call if it starts again.
  • RNMoMmy17 said:

    Thanks for the check-in @footprint! Hope you are feeling better soon! My first apt last week went well. We saw a flicker of a heartbeat, good rate and even got to hear it a little! What a relief it was, tears of joy! Shortly after though the worry until the next US set in.....

    EDD/Week/Fruit       7W1D/Blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational)   PGAL brain sucks :/ 

    Appointments scheduled    11/19/2014

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates: Not for a couple weeks

    QotW: 
    What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby:

    The Giving Tree for sure! and Love you Forever


    "Today I am pregnant and I love my baby"

    Yay for seeing your baby's heart beat and for hearing it too! It is so amazing that we have the technology to see/hear our babies. There is no sight/sound like it in the world! Congrats! Sorry that PgAL brain sucks. I really have no advice about that except to try and stay with the sounds and images from your u/s.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • MeridithM said:
    EDD/Week/Fruit May 20/10w6d Worries (rational or irrational) Lost all my symptoms, so afraid I am in the same boat as last pregnancy - another missed miscarriage. Appointments scheduled Friday, Oct 31 - bloodwork and urine test were done at intake appt, this will be the first pre-natal appt. I will get results of those tests and will be close to 12 wks so hoping I hear that heart beat. QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? My favorite as a child was "Good Night Moon" but and Dr Seuss book will do. When older - "The Last Basselope"
    It is normal for symptoms to come and go throughout your pregnancy and especially throughout the first trimester, not that knowing that makes it any easier to deal with :/ Will you be able to get an u/s this Friday?  I hope that your OB can find your baby's heart beat this Friday, but it is on the early side, so please don't freak out if they can't find it! Let us know how your appointment goes!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • Hi @footprint. Thanks for the check in. I'm glad to hear that your allergies are doing better.

    @mpiemont Yay for a great NT & bouncy baby! 
    @heathersf11 Sounds like great NT scan! FX for your bw results.
    @EricaD777 Good luck on Friday! I'm still inspecting every piece of tp for blood too, this part is so nerve-wracking. Hugs for your upcoming loss date. I hope you can find a nice way to spend that day.
    @lalalady54 Congrats on the NT scan! Sorry about the B of a doctor, that sucks. The tech that did my first one was horrific, I almost kicked her in the head.
    @natalie115 That double rainbow sounds beautiful! Sounds like some good signs :)
    @loveinkw13 Congrats on the great scan! Good luck on Thursday!
    @NoeliaV FX so hard for you tomorrow!!
    @bookishmomma Good luck with your last beta. Beta hell is, well it's hell. It's so hard not to obsess over every little thing.
    @BananaBoat05 Congrats on graduating to 2nd tri!
    @paintdadanta I hope your dates are just off. FX for you!
    @HawaiianSunset09 Congrats on great betas. Good luck for your first u/s! Hugs on your upcoming milestone. 
    @KikiCohen I'm sorry about the spotting. I hope that has stopped.
    @DenaMaree Congrats on the great betas!
    @lbdelacruz Sounds like a great u/s! Those are beautiful hb's!
    @creechmommy That's a great first beta! FX for you on Thursday!
    @dendylouwho FX for your scan on Thursday!
    @Bobbie1227 Good luck with your second scan on Thursday! Happy anniversary!
    @RNMoMmy17 Congrats on the great u/s & hearing the hb, it's the most beautiful sound!
    @MeridithM FX for your appointment on Friday!


    AFM, I don't know what my beta was (didn't ask), but they said my numbers looked great. Myscan was great. Baby was measuring right on track at 5w6d, 2mm in length & had a heartbeat of 99 bpm. 

    EDD/Week/Fruit 6/20/14, 6w3d, sweet pea

    Worries (rational or irrational) That the heart won't be beating at our next scan on Friday. 

    Appointments  U/S on Friday. I need to call an OB to try to set up an intake appt with them. I'm scared to do it though. I don't want to have to call back & cancel. Guess I'm just gonna have to nut up & do it.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates My first loss was at 8 weeks, I'll hit that on 11/8. But we've never had a heartbeat this early & we never had one that pregnancy at all, so I kinda feel like I passed that one already even though I haven't technically.

    QotW:  
    What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Oh geeze, I haven't thought much about this. MH & I are big readers, but it's been a long time since I was around kids books. I should start working on a list though; there are some great ones in this thread.


    Big hugs to everyone!

    I was terrified of my first OB appointment. I just didn't want to go. I hadn't had an u/s before hand and I just figured if I didn't go they couldn't give me bad news, which is pretty childish, but made sense in my head. I didn't think they would be able to tell me anything, but after my pap, my NP said, yep, feels like an eight week pregnant uterus, which made me feel good. Fx for a great u/s on Friday.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • Hi @footprint. Thanks for the check in. I'm glad to hear that your allergies are doing better.

    @mpiemont Yay for a great NT & bouncy baby! 
    @heathersf11 Sounds like great NT scan! FX for your bw results.
    @EricaD777 Good luck on Friday! I'm still inspecting every piece of tp for blood too, this part is so nerve-wracking. Hugs for your upcoming loss date. I hope you can find a nice way to spend that day.
    @lalalady54 Congrats on the NT scan! Sorry about the B of a doctor, that sucks. The tech that did my first one was horrific, I almost kicked her in the head.
    @natalie115 That double rainbow sounds beautiful! Sounds like some good signs :)
    @loveinkw13 Congrats on the great scan! Good luck on Thursday!
    @NoeliaV FX so hard for you tomorrow!!
    @bookishmomma Good luck with your last beta. Beta hell is, well it's hell. It's so hard not to obsess over every little thing.
    @BananaBoat05 Congrats on graduating to 2nd tri!
    @paintdadanta I hope your dates are just off. FX for you!
    @HawaiianSunset09 Congrats on great betas. Good luck for your first u/s! Hugs on your upcoming milestone. 
    @KikiCohen I'm sorry about the spotting. I hope that has stopped.
    @DenaMaree Congrats on the great betas!
    @lbdelacruz Sounds like a great u/s! Those are beautiful hb's!
    @creechmommy That's a great first beta! FX for you on Thursday!
    @dendylouwho FX for your scan on Thursday!
    @Bobbie1227 Good luck with your second scan on Thursday! Happy anniversary!
    @RNMoMmy17 Congrats on the great u/s & hearing the hb, it's the most beautiful sound!
    @MeridithM FX for your appointment on Friday!


    AFM, I don't know what my beta was (didn't ask), but they said my numbers looked great. Myscan was great. Baby was measuring right on track at 5w6d, 2mm in length & had a heartbeat of 99 bpm. 

    EDD/Week/Fruit 6/20/14, 6w3d, sweet pea

    Worries (rational or irrational) That the heart won't be beating at our next scan on Friday. 

    Appointments  U/S on Friday. I need to call an OB to try to set up an intake appt with them. I'm scared to do it though. I don't want to have to call back & cancel. Guess I'm just gonna have to nut up & do it.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates My first loss was at 8 weeks, I'll hit that on 11/8. But we've never had a heartbeat this early & we never had one that pregnancy at all, so I kinda feel like I passed that one already even though I haven't technically.

    QotW:  
    What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Oh geeze, I haven't thought much about this. MH & I are big readers, but it's been a long time since I was around kids books. I should start working on a list though; there are some great ones in this thread.


    Big hugs to everyone!

    I was terrified of my first OB appointment. I just didn't want to go. I hadn't had an u/s before hand and I just figured if I didn't go they couldn't give me bad news, which is pretty childish, but made sense in my head. I didn't think they would be able to tell me anything, but after my pap, my NP said, yep, feels like an eight week pregnant uterus, which made me feel good. Fx for a great u/s on Friday.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • @beckynsean11
    Thank you :) It went quite well!
    I'll be thinking of you on Friday with FX for good news!
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  • Hi @footprint :-h

    EDD/Week/Fruit : 6-17-15 : Week 7 Today!! I'm a blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational) : Was nauseated like hell all last week. Syptoms are fading away, so that has me worried.

    Appointments scheduled: My second appointmen is tomorrow! I was seen earlier last week due to spotting, so I get to go again tomorrow. Spotting has stopped, so looking forward to seeing a stronger heartbeat.



    QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? I love Cordoury and Curious George.

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    EDD/Week/Fruit: 5w5days - An apple seed!

    Worries (rational or irrational)
    : My boobs no longer hurt, exhaustion comes and goes, and I don't have morning sickness yet. So naturally, I'm not optimistic. At all. We have our first U/S Friday and I'm fearful, we'll have a repeat of last time. *PgAL Brain* :(

    Appointments scheduled: Friday!

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates: Nov 12 was our EDD. Checking for HB on Friday.

    QotW:  What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby?: We're opera singers so we 'll likely play lots of classical music. Haven't thought about books yet!
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  • Sorry I missed the check-in last week! I'm late this week but wanted to post :)

    EDD/Week/Fruit  May 15/11w5d/lime

    Worries (rational or irrational)  I started spotting a couple days ago. I got checked yesterday though and thankfully all is well with baby. OB thinks I may be spotting because the placenta is near my cervix. Cervix is still closed though so i'm just trying to take it easy.

    Appointments scheduled  OB appt on Monday and sequential screening on Wednesday.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates  Almost to the end of 1st tri!

    QotW:
      What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Goodnight Moon, Guess How Much I Love You, Oh the Places You'll Go!
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  • KikiCohen said:
    @footprint I didn't place a call to my doctor yet.  Honestly, I don't know what (if anything) they could do at this point.  I'm not far enough along for an u/s to show much.  I guess they could do betas, but I don't know if that would reassure me all that much.  So far today, I haven't had any spotting.  I will certainly call if it starts again.
    Yeah, I guess you are right about the doctor not being able to do much. I'm glad that you haven't had any spotting today.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • beemaya83 said:

    Hi @footprint :-h

    EDD/Week/Fruit : 6-17-15 : Week 7 Today!! I'm a blueberry

    Worries (rational or irrational) : Was nauseated like hell all last week. Syptoms are fading away, so that has me worried.

    Appointments scheduled: My second appointmen is tomorrow! I was seen earlier last week due to spotting, so I get to go again tomorrow. Spotting has stopped, so looking forward to seeing a stronger heartbeat.



    QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? I love Cordoury and Curious George.

    I'm sorry that you have had spotting and I am happy that it has stopped! Symptoms come and go throughout your pregnancy, but it is most noticeable and upsetting in the first trimester. I hope that your appointment tomorrow is great!

    I've been watching some Curious George with my 2 yo and I can't figure out why people always leave George alone. The Man in the Yellow Hat is the most irresponsible pet owner, ever!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • Hello! I would love to join this board. 

    EDD/Week/Fruit: 5w5days - An apple seed!

    Worries (rational or irrational)
    : My boobs no longer hurt, exhaustion comes and goes, and I don't have morning sickness yet. So naturally, I'm not optimistic. At all. We have our first U/S Friday and I'm fearful, we'll have a repeat of last time. *PgAL Brain* :(

    Appointments scheduled: Friday!

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates: Nov 12 was our EDD. Checking for HB on Friday.

    QotW:  What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby?: We're opera singers so we 'll likely play lots of classical music. Haven't thought about books yet!
    Welcome to first trimester check-in! I have everything crossed that you have a beautiful heart beat on Friday! I liken going in to u/s like walking to the electric chair. It's so, so scary! Symptoms really do come and go during your pregnancy, but most noticeably in the first trimester. Even though it is totally normal, doesn't make it any less scary, though! Let us know how your u/s goes!

    Opera singers?!? That's pretty cool!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • kj808 said:
    Sorry I missed the check-in last week! I'm late this week but wanted to post :)

    EDD/Week/Fruit  May 15/11w5d/lime

    Worries (rational or irrational)  I started spotting a couple days ago. I got checked yesterday though and thankfully all is well with baby. OB thinks I may be spotting because the placenta is near my cervix. Cervix is still closed though so i'm just trying to take it easy.

    Appointments scheduled  OB appt on Monday and sequential screening on Wednesday.

    Upcoming milestones/Loss dates  Almost to the end of 1st tri!

    QotW:  What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Goodnight Moon, Guess How Much I Love You, Oh the Places You'll Go!
    No worries about missing check-in. I am sorry that you had spotting. I'm glad that  your doc was able to check you out so quickly and that there is nothing wrong. Did you have the NT scan done since you are having your sequential screening soon? I can't believe you are almost at the end of first trimester! Congrats!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • @beckynsean11‌, I know how you feel! I can't sleep the night before every appointment - scared it won't be good. All shaky as I head to the office...

    Sounds like your appt went well! FX all of them do!
  • MeridithM said:
    EDD/Week/Fruit May 20/10w6d Worries (rational or irrational) Lost all my symptoms, so afraid I am in the same boat as last pregnancy - another missed miscarriage. Appointments scheduled Friday, Oct 31 - bloodwork and urine test were done at intake appt, this will be the first pre-natal appt. I will get results of those tests and will be close to 12 wks so hoping I hear that heart beat. QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? My favorite as a child was "Good Night Moon" but and Dr Seuss book will do. When older - "The Last Basselope"

    Unfortunately when no heart beat could be found I was given an US and immediately could see there was no heartbeat. I will have a D&C Monday. I know my stay was short here, but hope to return in the near future. Thank you for the support and I wish you all healthy pregnancies.
  • @MeridithM I am so very sorry for your loss. Big ((hugs)). Please be gentle with yourself.

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • I'm late to the party, but thank you so much for the check in @footprint‌ US was on Tuesday. There was ONE dancing baby!

    EDD/Week/Fruit 5-28-15 week 10

    Worries (rational or irrational) Don't have another appointment for awhile, so just praying this cutie keeps growing. I haven't used my Doppler yet, because I was worried about not finding it and freaking out, but I may try it in a couple days.

    Appointments scheduled OB appointment week of Thanksgiving.


    QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Guess how much I love you will definitely be on the early rotation.
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  • I'm late to the party, but thank you so much for the check in @footprint‌ US was on Tuesday. There was ONE dancing baby! EDD/Week/Fruit 5-28-15 week 10 Worries (rational or irrational) Don't have another appointment for awhile, so just praying this cutie keeps growing. I haven't used my Doppler yet, because I was worried about not finding it and freaking out, but I may try it in a couple days. Appointments scheduled OB appointment week of Thanksgiving. QotW: What are some of the books that you will insist on reading to your baby? Guess how much I love you will definitely be on the early rotation.
    Congrats on a great u/s! I'm sure it is nice to know exactly how many are in there! I never ended up getting the Doppler for the reason you mentioned! i hope that you are able to find baby's hb quickly and easily! It seems like most of the women on here are really happy that they have the Doppler. 

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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