Wow - how did I miss this gem all day?? Forget the post-it, after this post I'm gonna need an excel spreadsheet. I won't name names, but let's just say I'm on the side of grammar.
Haha I know right? I just got done reading it. I've got my first post-it and it's getting full already.
The crazy thing is you wonder why people are leaving this group because its not fun. This is a OMG!!! Look at me I am pregnant board. There are others boards for people who are having major problems or losses. This is JUNE 2015 moms. Please people stop trying to make this board everything for everyone.... OMG!!! just relax and stay in your place did you guys create the bump so back off
I was planning on staying out of this one, but to say that someone who is going through a loss should be banished to a board "more appropriate for them" is really insensitive and heartless. They are every bit of a June 2015 mom as anyone else here, and will never ever forget their due date with their precious angels. Snark at will but leave the people who are truly hurting out of it.
Sigh, back in my day we used to be able to chase people over to babycenter and then all live in peace (or, at least fight with entire sentences and proper spelling). The Bump isn't what it used to be.
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
:sigh: now that I've read this entire thread, this is why we need a mod.
Thanks @NariaDreaming and @sensitivesally for stepping in to defend all of the people who will read this thread and be hurt by the comments in it...
I don't think anyone here is trying to own the internet, just give us some guidelines on how best to interact here. June 2015 is developing its own personality and ways of doing things, that's the whole point.
Take a jaunt around TB. Until this post, this BMB was very tame and supportive. It's a little sad, really.
Really it shouldn't be like that, I don't know why the site even allows people to get on here to spark up an argument. Just because they want to be the board police. If the sites not worried about why are you. It's like she looking for a fight. And that makes others not want to post anything, because of the rude comment. Also, you can get help if you tried, because it's clogged up with mean girl comments. Seriously come off it!!
Wow! What a shit thing to say! Thank goodness you're soooooooo much better than the rest of us. As much of as asshole as I am, I have never thought to utter such a thing. Disgusting.
Ohh I remember you sarahlounumbers, you were white knighting another thread where we asked you to fuck off if you don't like the tone of the board. Looks like you're still here though and you still don't like it. Poor little you.
I can't believe this is still going all because someone needed to do a wee! Lucky it wasn't a poo or the shit really would of hit the fan! Hahhahahahahaha carry on!
We don't go there, because most of us have known the upmost struggle and loss to get where we are today. Im all for a good debate, but the low blows that have been thrown around this post REALLY show me who we should feel sorry for. And its not the women who may have an opinion on keeping a board clean (ya know, because weve been around this block a few times) ... its more the women who would bring struggles like fertility and loss into petty arguments.
Im sorry Nene says things so well.
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Think before you talk! You don't know any of us so keep your dumbass ignorant comments to yourself. You want to come up in here and white knight and sound cute for a dumbass that used the word "peepee" in a title, really?! I'm sorry but I don't want these stupid posts everywhere either hearing about how someone has to piss, I mean really none of us fucking care! White knights just go home!
Where are all of you pot stirring sanctimonious white knighting drama queens when someone has posted about a loss? Nowhere. Ghost. Absent. That says a whole lot more about you than anything you've posted in this urine themed train wreck.
Since this thread is still going on today, I would like to take the opportunity to point to the Bullying thread going on right now with our neighbors over in May15, for two reasons. Number one, @nariadreaming wrote the most eloquent and right-on post about using term "bully" here on TB; and number two, to shut down the ridiculous notion that this board is any different from other BMBs on the Bump in how people post here, because it's not. The Bump is not for everyone, and there are plenty of other pregnancy-related sites out there to choose from.
Much love to all the June15ers here who offer their love support, humor, and knowledge every single day on this board but who were still subjected to the shit-fuck remarks made on this thread. You deserve better.
Oh yeah, seriously guys, go lurk on May2015 if you think this is mean. I was over there (and still am) until my due date got moved, and this crap came up almost daily for weeks. At first I thought y'all were a bunch of unicorns sprinkling rainbows on life after the beautiful snark there.
The moral of all stories: lurk, learn how things work, use search and google, use funny gifs, we'll all be happy except when we're disagreeing. Then we'll get over that and be happy again.
Re: Peeeee peeeee!!
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Ultrasound 11/4 - TWO HEARTBEATS!!!
Oh just that some people and I are not on the same page :-) no biggie
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Ultrasound 11/4 - TWO HEARTBEATS!!!
This app is awful for people like this sensitivesally girl who I see on nearly every post trolling it
We don't go there, because most of us have known the upmost struggle and loss to get where we are today. Im all for a good debate, but the low blows that have been thrown around this post REALLY show me who we should feel sorry for. And its not the women who may have an opinion on keeping a board clean (ya know, because weve been around this block a few times) ... its more the women who would bring struggles like fertility and loss into petty arguments.
Im sorry Nene says things so well.
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Ultrasound 11/4 - TWO HEARTBEATS!!!
Think before you talk! You don't know any of us so keep your dumbass ignorant comments to yourself. You want to come up in here and white knight and sound cute for a dumbass that used the word "peepee" in a title, really?! I'm sorry but I don't want these stupid posts everywhere either hearing about how someone has to piss, I mean really none of us fucking care! White knights just go home!
Like seriously? Words cannot express my disgust with you.
{Imagine the Failed Sour Patch cake here}
The thread (hopefully, that was obvious)
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EDD: 06/04/15
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@sensitivesally
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The moral of all stories: lurk, learn how things work, use search and google, use funny gifs, we'll all be happy except when we're disagreeing. Then we'll get over that and be happy again.
J15 January Siggy Challenge: Pinterest Fails
Married: 12/08/12
BFP: 09/21/14
EDD: 06/04/15
~*~ book nerd forever | Tar Heel '07 ~*~