So you're just not going to address what you said regarding women going through losses? Awesome.
Ma'am I have had losses myself. Yes its sad and hurting. I even tried to kill myself after because I thought God hated me so dont talk to me about that. I simply said its another forum for that with women who are in the same boat and are going through the same thing.
Oh, you were done here the moment you flat out told those who are experiencing the loss of their unborn child that they aren't welcome here. You win the award for most despicable post on the history of the Bump, and I think it's safe to say that no matter how many times you hit that reply button, you will never be welcome here again.
I never said they where not welcome here what I said is its another forum that can help. Why would you want to see all these happy prego women post when you are hurting. Like I said before I have had a miscarriage I was so hurt I tried to kill myself I even had to stay in the psyh ward at the hospital a few days. I lost my mind behind it, but after all of that God blessed me with my DD 2yrs later. So dont talk to me about lost. I Know 1st hand. I am just saying stop trying to micro manage what people post and how they post this is a public board.
Oh, you were done here the moment you flat out told those who are experiencing the loss of their unborn child that they aren't welcome here. You win the award for most despicable post on the history of the Bump, and I think it's safe to say that no matter how many times you hit that reply button, you will never be welcome here again.
I never said they where not welcome here what I said is its another forum that can help. Why would you want to see all these happy prego women post when you are hurting. Like I said before I have had a miscarriage I was so hurt I tried to kill myself I even had to stay in the psyh ward at the hospital a few days. I lost my mind behind it, but after all of that God blessed me with my DD 2yrs later. So dont talk to me about lost. I Know 1st hand. I am just saying stop trying to micro manage what people post and how they post this is a public board.
And what you're doing is different how? This board is not Nov '11, no matter how much you want it to be. Each board will develop it's own personality.
I am very sorry for your loss (es?). It's terrible & no one should go through that.
Because I am a June Mom and will post as much as I want when I want. This is a public board. I wish you stop replying cause you are really not making sense. I am simply defending all the other June moms that posted before I saw this about posting where they want. I am not alone here and will not be moved. I have reported every reply to my comments so far please give me more to report.
Maam I am not back nothing. How many times can I say that its other forums for that. I am not saying they cant post here by any means. I am saying if you are hurting (just like all of us are not out the woods yet) why not talk to someone who has lost just like you not be reminded of what you missed out on. So stop twisting my words and get a life.
Because I am a June Mom and will post as much as I want when I want. This is a public board. I wish you stop replying cause you are really not making sense. I am simply defending all the other June moms that posted before I saw this about posting where they want. I am not alone here and will not be moved. I have reported every reply to my comments so far please give me more to report.
FYI: Abusing the report button is against TOU. Reporting things excessively & without reason is considered abuse. Also, we can see when you report things...
"tcolston10 said: The crazy thing is you wonder why people are leaving this group because its not fun. This is a OMG!!! Look at me I am pregnant board. There are others boards for people who are having major problems or losses. This is JUNE 2015 moms. Please people stop trying to make this board everything for everyone.... OMG!!! just relax and stay in your place did you guys create the bump so back off"
@sensitivesally Now tell me where it said that people with lost arent welcome??????
Yes there are other boards. You think the women that have said goodbye so far are still here? I have read comments from women telling them to go to the loss boards. So chill you taking my words extremely the wrong way. This is the June 2015 Moms board so if they want to post 30 threads they should be able to. Thats all I am saying you are truly wacko. To each its own.
Yes there are other boards. You think the women that have said goodbye so far are still here? I have read comments from women telling them to go to the loss boards. So chill you taking my words extremely the wrong way. This is the June 2015 Moms board so if they want to post 30 threads they should be able to. Thats all I am saying you are truly wacko. To each its own.
@ trampslikeus I am not trying to make friends. I am simply defending this lady post. She is truly upset about not being able to post how she wants just like the other lady who said her 1st post here she got ripped a new one. People need to understand this is a open forum and people should be able to post how they want.
I love all of these posts! Shows the gusto that all of you ladies have. Different personalities, fertility journeys, educational levels, lifestyles, and sentence structure decisions But what we all have in common is a desire to find comradery in our current state of being mommies-to-be/mommies-twice-thrice-etc-over! What I have learned after being on The Bump for just a few days and getting ripped into in the comments following my first post, is that you need a tough skin to survive here. But, it comes with the risks of posting on a very-public forum. Cheers to all and just remember, we are in this together, so let's do our best to play nice, no?
And I was abt to think that if I offended someone in real, like if I started commenting on someone else post . If u don't like it, just ignore it .. And if u have this urge to comment then atleast be reasonable and not offensive to others
@ trampslikeus I am not trying to make friends. I am simply defending this lady post. She is truly upset about not being able to post how she wants just like the other lady who said her 1st post here she got ripped a new one. People need to understand this is a open forum and people should be able to post how they want.
Oh, make no mistake. You've made no friends here. You owe a huge apology to all the June15 loss moms, those in limbo, and everyone else here who is doing everything they can to have a happy and healthy pregnancy. Defending the pee girl should be the least of your concerns, that is, if you were actually interested in being a meaningful contributor to this board. Obviously you're not.
On with the GIF party!!
Ma'am tell that to the women I been having a discussion with on my own post. Every thread I have posted I have made friends. Oh you all wouldn't know because I haven't seen you on either. So you can only speak for yourself. And for the many women with losses I have in boxed a few with my store and where to get help after loss. So go to bed because you are not making any sense. You dont know me or what I have been posting so please just drop it.
Ha ha ha... you sound so stupid. Just go away cause you are crazy.
I get it I see you try to start all the threads you are just upset that people want to post somewhere besides your monday rants or whatever its called.
@tcolston10 I want you to step back and think about something. You know all those women you feel so close with on your November 2011 board? I want you to imagine something horrible happening to you. Something really really bad. And you come to those people, who you feel close with, and say "guys look, something really bad happened to me, and I'm really upset."
Now I want you to imagine that none of them even acknowledge you, because they have no idea you're going through something bad. Because 15 other women are too busy talking about their new manicures, boring coworkers, or what color shoes to wear. So you're feeling like your world is ending, completely alone, and people you thought were your friends aren't even giving you a pat on the back.
THAT'S what you're defending.
Sure everyone is free to post what they want, but during the first trimester, when many people who have been here for weeks are suddenly leaving, faced with devastating news, please give them the courtesy of allowing them to get some support from people they have grown close with. Why would you encourage people to make AW posts that purposely drive support away from people who need it?
@tcolston10 I want you to step back and think about something. You know all those women you feel so close with on your November 2011 board? I want you to imagine something horrible happening to you. Something really really bad. And you come to those people, who you feel close with, and say "guys look, something really bad happened to me, and I'm really upset."
Now I want you to imagine that none of them even acknowledge you, because they have no idea you're going through something bad. Because 15 other women are too busy talking about their new manicures, boring coworkers, or what color shoes to wear. So you're feeling like your world is ending, completely alone, and people you thought were your friends aren't even giving you a pat on the back.
THAT'S what you're defending.
Sure everyone is free to post what they want, but during the first trimester, when many people who have been here for weeks are suddenly leaving, faced with devastating news, please give them the courtesy of allowing them to get some support from people they have grown close with. Why would you encourage people to make AW posts that purposely drive support away from people who need it?
Please read everything I have said. I have been there and I have tried to kill myself because of my loss so I know first hand how it feels. what I am saying is once it happens you are hurting so bad that you really don't want to be around anyone that is happy and pregnant. I was not saying they couldn't be apart of this forum I was just saying that its other forums on the bump that can really help. I have even seen people comment on people who have loss so far telling them about the others boards. when I stated June 2015 Moms that's what the app says on my phone. I tried to screen shot it so everyone can see. That comment was taken totally out of context. My point was that people should be able to post what they want and not get jumped on because they didn't post it in someone else thread.
She just posted something about peeing. This is what makes me not want to start a thread in fears I will get back lash, like I did when I posted my due date wrong and someone told me I shouldn't be posting and tried sending me to another group. Why can't everyone just get a long. Not everyone knows the correct ways to post. I actually saw this thread and was disappointed at the way people reacting. I thought it was funny because omg I have pee all the time!!! It's driving me crazy!!! This is a place to talk and have fun!
@ trampslikeus I am not trying to make friends. I am simply defending this lady post. She is truly upset about not being able to post how she wants just like the other lady who said her 1st post here she got ripped a new one. People need to understand this is a open forum and people should be able to post how they want.
Oh, make no mistake. You've made no friends here. You owe a huge apology to all the June15 loss moms, those in limbo, and everyone else here who is doing everything they can to have a happy and healthy pregnancy. Defending the pee girl should be the least of your concerns, that is, if you were actually interested in being a meaningful contributor to this board. Obviously you're not.
On with the GIF party!!
Ma'am tell that to the women I been having a discussion with on my own post. Every thread I have posted I have made friends. Oh you all wouldn't know because I haven't seen you on either. So you can only speak for yourself. And for the many women with losses I have in boxed a few with my store and where to get help after loss. So go to bed because you are not making any sense. You dont know me or what I have been posting so please just drop it.
Thanks
Also, just curious if all this super supportive inboxing you've done to people who lost their babies was before or after you told them they are not June 15 moms and don't belong on this board?
Like I just said before if you have the phone app on the top it says June 2015 moms that's what I was stating. Maam I never said they where not a June mom just like I said before when I loss my baby I got so low that I tired to kill myself so I have been there, going in to get a ultrasound and nothing is there getting blood taken every few days to making sure my hcg levels are dropping going through tests to see why my body keeps doing this and miscarrying. even taking rounds of clomid so I can have my DD after bleeding clots and brown blood for weeks after I found out I was pregnant with her. so understand I have been there and its not a day that goes by that I am not nervous now because I know loss, I have let loss take me so deep I didn't think I could ever breath again. When I miscarried Oct, 2009 moms board didn't help the loss board did. There I found out I was not alone and to try different options and stuff to ask my doctor about. That is what I am saying.
I really don't want to jump into this hornet's nest, but I have a jermain question: people with loss can create a new post; each introduction gets a new post; as far as I can tell a scare or a hospital visit gets a new post (all with good reason). What else gets a new post? I am not trying to be snarky - chalk it up to my legal training - but I feel like there has been some determination about when a person can start a new thread and when a topic should be lumped into a communal thread. While I've never experienced this sort of formal rule scheme on a forum I understand the purpose: so that those truly in need can be heard. I am just truly curious where the scheme is coming from and if there is a delineation between what gets an individual thread and what doesn't. Again, not trying to stir the pot, honestly trying to understand so that I can better participate in the community.
She just posted something about peeing. This is what makes me not want to start a thread in fears I will get back lash, like I did when I posted my due date wrong and someone told me I shouldn't be posting and tried sending me to another group. Why can't everyone just get a long. Not everyone knows the correct ways to post.
I actually saw this thread and was disappointed at the way people reacting. I thought it was funny because omg I have pee all the time!!! It's driving me crazy!!! This is a place to talk and have fun!
Thanks,
That's all I been trying to tell them. You summed it up nicely.
I don't understand what the big deal is? If you don't like the post then don't respond to it. It's really not a big deal. We don't need a board / post police. I think some people need to relax. And for someone telling others to not post certain things due to clogging the boards you sure are wasting a lot of time responding to comments here. Don't like it don't read it. Everyone have fun and relax. I'm on another pregnancy board on another website and no one acts this way. This is ridiculous...can't we all just have fun and get along?
tcolston10 said: Please
read everything I have said. I have been there and I have tried to kill
myself because of my loss so I know first hand how it feels. what I am
saying is once it happens you are hurting so bad that you really don't
want to be around anyone that is happy and pregnant. I was not saying
they couldn't be apart of this forum I was just saying that its other
forums on the bump that can really help. I have even seen people comment
on people who have loss so far telling them about the others boards.
when I stated June 2015 Moms that's what the app says on my phone. I
tried to screen shot it so everyone can see. That comment was taken
totally out of context. My point was that people should be able to post
what they want and not get jumped on because they didn't post it in
someone else thread.
I'm not sure if you're purposely missing my point or really have a reading comprehension problem. I never said anything about your awful comment to loss moms. I asked why you would discourage people who were having a hard time from getting support where they wanted it, from people they felt close to. Perhaps if you had proper support during your loss, if you had felt like people out there cared, it wouldn't have been so hard for you. Instead you are purposely trying to deny people that possibility.
I really don't want to jump into this hornet's
nest, but I have a jermain question: people with loss can create a new
post; each introduction gets a new post; as far as I can tell a scare or
a hospital visit gets a new post (all with good reason). What else
gets a new post? I am not trying to be snarky - chalk it up to my legal
training - but I feel like there has been some determination about when
a person can start a new thread and when a topic should be lumped into a
communal thread. While I've never experienced this sort of formal rule
scheme on a forum I understand the purpose: so that those truly in need
can be heard. I am just truly curious where the scheme is coming from
and if there is a delineation between what gets an individual thread and
what doesn't. Again, not trying to stir the pot, honestly trying to
understand so that I can better participate in the community.
Most things are fine to have a new thread. The exceptions that this
board has requested are symptoms. Want to vent about a common pregnancy
symptom like fatigue, nausea, or peeing all the time? There's a
specific thread you can do that. You can see everyone else who has
similar symptoms, vent about those symptoms, ask about a specific
symptom. Because if each of us posted every symptom we had in a
separate thread, this board would just be pages and pages of "OMG I'm so
tired! LOL!"
Some posts get repetitive, but really, I think
we're all okay with those "First appointment saw the heartbeat" type
posts, because it's understandable that you're excited and want to
share. Likewise there will be so many "it's a boy" or "it's a girl"
posts in the coming months. And in May/June there will be "_____ has
arrived!" posts every day. Just as we want to be able to give support
to women who are having a hard time, we want to share in the joy of
exciting news. Which is why introductions are also fine. But telling
people you feel nauseous doesn't really need support, and isn't a moment
of joy people want to share in.
@billyhorrible Look I was explaining where I am coming from. If you don't understand what I am saying to you than please don't reply with stupid statements about reading because it shows you didn't understand what I was saying. I am not telling anyone to not post here after a loss and I wish you would understand that I am simply saying its a lot of other boards that can help as well. If you read what I said than you would have seen that I personal in boxed a few people with loss and gave them words of encouragement because I have been there. I wish people stop trying to talk so much and really take in what I said.
The thing is pregnancy is a fun, crazy, and scary time everyone needs a place to vent and this board is suppose to be it. Do you realize you have been going back and forward with me sense 9pm it's now 1am and either of us has changed our points so let's agree to disagree and drop it cause we have mad what was meant to be a funny post 4pages long with nonsense.
@sensitivesally I will post ANYTHING I like on this June 2015 moms club, related to my pregnancy.. and If u have a problem with it, then don't comment !! If you are a grown up , then act like grown ups !! Get a life woman
What is the deal with this babycenter influx? My eyes burn from trying to decipher this text speak.
Thank you @sensitivesally for always standing up for us mommas who aren't sure how long well get to stay on June 2015. I guess if I leave next week I'll know who would prefer I just go away so they can treat The Bump like Twitter
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Sally not only are you fighting a losing battle you are being obnoxious. If someone wants to post about peeing it's her board as well as yours. I can understand being annoyed at the dozens of "no symptom" posts but now we can't even joke? The board is not clogged. You are not allowed to tell people which posts are read worthy. STFU already.
@guluna and @tcolston10, if you want a June 2015 Moms board where you can make a new post for any new symptom you feel without getting complaints, try Baby Center.
You will both be much happier there.
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In the amount of time it took for me to read these comments, my nausea started to go away so I found this to be helpful. It's a new day ladies and hope you're all feeling better.
@tcolston10- I would just like to pop in and tell you to fuck off, please. I was a June '15 loss and I find what you posted extremely offensive. You may not have come out and said it, but in not so many words you insinuated that you don't give a flying fuck about us loss moms. How many times did you have to say that you "tried to kill [yourself]"? You are not making any friends fast and seem to be a huge AW. Grow the fuck up!
ETA: I love you with all my heart @sensitivesally. You are my idol
Re: Peeeee peeeee!!
The crazy thing is you wonder why people are leaving this group because its not fun. This is a OMG!!! Look at me I am pregnant board. There are others boards for people who are having major problems or losses. This is JUNE 2015 moms. Please people stop trying to make this board everything for everyone.... OMG!!! just relax and stay in your place did you guys create the bump so back off"
@sensitivesally Now tell me where it said that people with lost arent welcome??????
Is this how you act when you're trying to make a new group of friends in real life? Because holy shit, you're not doing yourself any favors.
(first name on my post-it ... hehe)
Loki says time to turn this hot mess in to a gif party.
Thanks
I get it I see you try to start all the threads you are just upset that people want to post somewhere besides your monday rants or whatever its called.
Now I want you to imagine that none of them even acknowledge you, because they have no idea you're going through something bad. Because 15 other women are too busy talking about their new manicures, boring coworkers, or what color shoes to wear. So you're feeling like your world is ending, completely alone, and people you thought were your friends aren't even giving you a pat on the back.
THAT'S what you're defending.
Sure everyone is free to post what they want, but during the first trimester, when many people who have been here for weeks are suddenly leaving, faced with devastating news, please give them the courtesy of allowing them to get some support from people they have grown close with. Why would you encourage people to make AW posts that purposely drive support away from people who need it?
I actually saw this thread and was disappointed at the way people reacting. I thought it was funny because omg I have pee all the time!!! It's driving me crazy!!! This is a place to talk and have fun!
Thanks,
That's all I been trying to tell them. You summed it up nicely.
I don't understand what the big deal is? If you don't like the post then don't respond to it. It's really not a big deal. We don't need a board / post police. I think some people need to relax. And for someone telling others to not post certain things due to clogging the boards you sure are wasting a lot of time responding to comments here. Don't like it don't read it. Everyone have fun and relax. I'm on another pregnancy board on another website and no one acts this way. This is ridiculous...can't we all just have fun and get along?
I'm not sure if you're purposely missing my point or really have a reading comprehension problem. I never said anything about your awful comment to loss moms. I asked why you would discourage people who were having a hard time from getting support where they wanted it, from people they felt close to. Perhaps if you had proper support during your loss, if you had felt like people out there cared, it wouldn't have been so hard for you. Instead you are purposely trying to deny people that possibility.
Most things are fine to have a new thread. The exceptions that this board has requested are symptoms. Want to vent about a common pregnancy symptom like fatigue, nausea, or peeing all the time? There's a specific thread you can do that. You can see everyone else who has similar symptoms, vent about those symptoms, ask about a specific symptom. Because if each of us posted every symptom we had in a separate thread, this board would just be pages and pages of "OMG I'm so tired! LOL!"
Some posts get repetitive, but really, I think we're all okay with those "First appointment saw the heartbeat" type posts, because it's understandable that you're excited and want to share. Likewise there will be so many "it's a boy" or "it's a girl" posts in the coming months. And in May/June there will be "_____ has arrived!" posts every day. Just as we want to be able to give support to women who are having a hard time, we want to share in the joy of exciting news. Which is why introductions are also fine. But telling people you feel nauseous doesn't really need support, and isn't a moment of joy people want to share in.
Thank you @sensitivesally for always standing up for us mommas who aren't sure how long well get to stay on June 2015. I guess if I leave next week I'll know who would prefer I just go away so they can treat The Bump like Twitter
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Ultrasound 11/4 - TWO HEARTBEATS!!!
Love is multiplied: DS #1: 1.5.99 ~ DS #2: 9.23.11 ~ DD 8.29.13
m/c 11/12/12 - sleep tight baby bean.
Bitty Baby #4, please stick around - we already love you so very much!
Ultrasound 11/4 - TWO HEARTBEATS!!!
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@guluna and @tcolston10, if you want a June 2015 Moms board where you can make a new post for any new symptom you feel without getting complaints, try Baby Center.
You will both be much happier there.
Me (31) Him (31)

Married: 5/2013
CP: 9/18/14 (4w:4d)
BFP: 10/16/14 EDD: 6/21/15
Bye Felicia!
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@tcolston10- I would just like to pop in and tell you to fuck off, please. I was a June '15 loss and I find what you posted extremely offensive. You may not have come out and said it, but in not so many words you insinuated that you don't give a flying fuck about us loss moms. How many times did you have to say that you "tried to kill [yourself]"? You are not making any friends fast and seem to be a huge AW. Grow the fuck up!
ETA: I love you with all my heart @sensitivesally. You are my idol
@nariadreaming, did I violate TOU? I checked, but didn't see anything about linking to other sites. I can edit, if so.
Me (31) Him (31)

Married: 5/2013
CP: 9/18/14 (4w:4d)
BFP: 10/16/14 EDD: 6/21/15