@somerandomchick okay good for you. I'm pretty sure you've made your point, your opinion. But I didn't say most missionaries, I'm not stupid, I said my FIL. But what you're saying is that these people have all of this horrible; and it truly is horrible; stuff going on and their way of "patching" things is having kids...great point.
But from what you say I'm inhuman for my opinions bc I haven't lived like those people yet you're judging me and my opinions when you don't know how I've lived.
So how about I just say you win, congrats and you can quit lecturing me about how you're right and I'm wrong.
I think some (if not most) of that was actually directed at me.
And relax with the butthurt. You offered up your opinions, and I evaluate those based on what information you've given. I think what you said is terrible.
And you're missing the point. The peoples you are judging don't have access to the same education as you do, but you're leveling judgement on them as if they did.
ETA: for someone who's riding the coattails of her FIL's missionary work, your outlook isn't very "Christian."
Sorry to whoever said what, kinda hard to keep the lecturing straight with whom is giving it.
Trust me your not giving me anything near butthurt.
I was just trying to make whoever wants to lecture me on how my opinions are wrong to find someone else, obviously we think different, commonly what adults do, so why keep telling me I'm wrong? Do you just enjoy trying to make someone who thinks differently, think like you that much?
FYI I'm not riding anyone's coattails, I used that as an example. So don't tell me how I'm not a Christian.
@somerandomchick first I am sorry for tagging the wrong person. And to you, no I don't want people to have babies when I specifically want...kinda like how just bc my opinion is different than yours you don't have to try and lecture me.
I did IGNORE her... but she still haunts the board with her crazy. I can still see she has posted, and most of the time I don't look further because I am always disappointed/offended. She needs to take it down a notch or for the better good of the group get to stepping like QSB.
Whaaaaaa? I miss everything.
Someone fill a girl in?
I am so with you on that. What. The. Hell. Did I miss?!
This might have already been answered while I was away, but here goes. QSB posted a thread that seemed to show a lot of holes in her story. They were all small enough to have possible reasonable explanations. Some of us asked her about said holes. Instead of explaining, she got mad and then deleted her account.
Married to E on June 5, 2010
Gave birth to baby boy, I, on March 25, 2012
Gave birth to baby girl, A, on May 20, 2013
Baby #3 due April 29, 2015
Recovering from mitochondrial dysfunction and Addison's/possibly very severe adrenal burn out using food, medicine, and a large amount of garden therapy.
If you've never been to Mister Donut and eaten a pon-de-ring OR angel cream donut, you should. Like now. Soso tasty. And yeah yuck, no thanks to Channing Tatum. I dunno what it is--the boyish face? The eyelashes longer than mine? Never really been one for pretty boys, myself. He is DH's man-crush, though, so maybe I'm just jealous.
My UO for today is: I don't want a baby bump! Not yet! I'm not ready to not be able to suck it in. My bump displaces my regular belly-blump so it's this round lump with a jelly roll on top. Not cool ...
I have zero interest in maternity clothes or baby crap - I'll make due with my clothes and any hand me downs i may get. for the baby stuff... we'll get a car seat and whatever people give us.
Thanks @MitoRachel!
Was this our suspected catfish?
Must be. I'm a little sad I missed it... I went back in my FB messages from months ago and I told one of my J13 bumpie friends I found her stories a little off, after her 'rain on your parade' thread
FTR no one called "catfish," as in fake person. People (me included) just felt there was something off/exaggerated/not entirely truthful going on.
FTR no one called "catfish," as in fake person. People (me included) just felt there was something off/exaggerated/not entirely truthful going on.
@bowman958 Thanks for clarifying. Don't really want to relive that thread again but did remember some thinking we had a poster where everything didn't add up.
My contribution (and this won't be an UO) is that you can certainly try to go through the next six-ish months without buying any maternity clothes, but you are going to be uncomfortable as crap and probably look like crap too. You don't have to spend a fortune. Goodwill has a maternity section. But there's really no point in trying to stuff yourself into your regular clothes at nine months pregnant. Especially not as a money-saver because -news flash- they're not going back to normal after you stretch them over that watermelon.
There are a few Tim Hortons on the east and west coast on some of the military bases. Norfolk Va. Has one and i fell in love. So they will probably be everywhere in the next few years. Also their donuts make Krispy Kream taste like grease rings. TH donuts are amazing.
Doughnut debate... Sorry Krispy Kreme is my fave. Especially when the hot sign is on. a free one is even better. But I really love their raspberry filled ones. Dunkin always taste stale to me... And I hate the taste of coffee so I have no input on that.
There are a few Tim Hortons on the east and west coast on some of the military bases. Norfolk Va. Has one and i fell in love. So they will probably be everywhere in the next few years. Also their donuts make Krispy Kream taste like grease rings. TH donuts are amazing.
Ewww Krispy Kreme is so gross - I think all the ones that opened in the Toronto area went under. Tim's is sooo much better.
There are a few Tim Hortons on the east and west coast on some of the military bases. Norfolk Va. Has one and i fell in love. So they will probably be everywhere in the next few years. Also their donuts make Krispy Kream taste like grease rings. TH donuts are amazing.
Ewww Krispy Kreme is so gross - I think all the ones that opened in the Toronto area went under. Tim's is sooo much better.
Mmmmm now I want a box of powdered timbits!
Krispy Kreme is so bad!!!! I like cake doughnuts. I want an assorted dozen from a mom & pop shop, with at least four versions of old fashioned.
Re: UO
Trust me your not giving me anything near butthurt.
I was just trying to make whoever wants to lecture me on how my opinions are wrong to find someone else, obviously we think different, commonly what adults do, so why keep telling me I'm wrong? Do you just enjoy trying to make someone who thinks differently, think like you that much?
FYI I'm not riding anyone's coattails, I used that as an example. So don't tell me how I'm not a Christian.
@somerandomchick first I am sorry for tagging the wrong person. And to you, no I don't want people to have babies when I specifically want...kinda like how just bc my opinion is different than yours you don't have to try and lecture me.
GO AWAY
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If you've never been to Mister Donut and eaten a pon-de-ring OR angel cream donut, you should. Like now. Soso tasty. And yeah yuck, no thanks to Channing Tatum. I dunno what it is--the boyish face? The eyelashes longer than mine? Never really been one for pretty boys, myself. He is DH's man-crush, though, so maybe I'm just jealous.
My UO for today is: I don't want a baby bump! Not yet! I'm not ready to not be able to suck it in. My bump displaces my regular belly-blump so it's this round lump with a jelly roll on top. Not cool ...
Was this our suspected catfish?
Edit: b/c quote box & tagging fail.
My contribution (and this won't be an UO) is that you can certainly try to go through the next six-ish months without buying any maternity clothes, but you are going to be uncomfortable as crap and probably look like crap too. You don't have to spend a fortune. Goodwill has a maternity section. But there's really no point in trying to stuff yourself into your regular clothes at nine months pregnant. Especially not as a money-saver because -news flash- they're not going back to normal after you stretch them over that watermelon.
Mmmmm now I want a box of powdered timbits!
November Siggy Challenge: Selfie Fails
Hidden for the sake of your eyes!