May 2015 Moms

Amazing U/S :) :)

Just got back from thee most amazing ultrasound ever. I was scheduled for a follow-up U/S to monitor some blood found around placenta. I am currently 13.4 weeks along and baby was moving like there was no tomorrow!!! I felt so bad for the U/S tech cause she couldn't get a still picture of the baby profile because it just kept moving from side to side or kicking and scrunching up!! This makes my heart so happy!!! Please share any of your happy news about your baby and what your most excited about!
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  • Super exciting :) Are you due in April or May? I am just trying to do the math, and wondering if my pregnancy brain is failing me… (I usually don't believe in pregnancy brain)...
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  • kj808kj808 member
    edited October 2014
    Doesn't 13w4d mean you're due in April? I think the May 1st ladies are 12w4d.

    Congrats on a good appt though.
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  • kj808 said:
    Doesn't 13w4d mean you're due in April? I think the May 1st ladies are 12w4d.

    Congrats on a good appt though.
    That's exactly what I was thinking, maybe your good news should be shared with April 15 OP :)
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    BFP #2-- 5-6-14, MMC 6-13-14, D&C 6-13-14
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  • Technically yes.... But I am like due at the very end of April and they are unsure whether I will deliver c section again or vaginal. At first they had me set up may 1st for the due date and that's when I had started this app, then they moved my due date up five days. I didn't know how to change it so I just kept it in May
  • If they moved you up 5 days to have an April baby, then you should definitely post there instead.
    Either way, glad it went well!
  • Poppy715 said:

    khan08 said:

    Thank you for posting your good news and congrats to you! I just read a few 'farewell' posts which made me so sad for those posters and also worried for my upcoming appt in 2 weeks. Hearing your good news is reassuring to us all!

    Thank you I feel the same way... Everything was so sad and gloomy. totally understanding what weeks everybody was in and the risk of miscarriages. I just had amazing news and I thought it would cheer everybody up and give them hope!!!
    Your good news does not cheer me up. A dear friend I've known for at least a year has had another m/c and probably the last chance at having a LO. Your news does not overshadow the tremendous loss the board has faced with the loss of two regs and other posters. Please have some compassion. The reality of the board is that there are losses. Us supporting them does not mean the board is being "gloomy". We are sad. Several of our own have left us. I'm really crossing my fingers that you would post condolences on their threads as well as thinking about your own good news.
    @Poppy715‌ not likely she's the "Everybody needs to be happy" WK from the other day.

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  • Poppy715 said:

    khan08 said:

    Thank you for posting your good news and congrats to you! I just read a few 'farewell' posts which made me so sad for those posters and also worried for my upcoming appt in 2 weeks. Hearing your good news is reassuring to us all!

    Thank you I feel the same way... Everything was so sad and gloomy. totally understanding what weeks everybody was in and the risk of miscarriages. I just had amazing news and I thought it would cheer everybody up and give them hope!!!
    Your good news does not cheer me up. A dear friend I've known for at least a year has had another m/c and probably the last chance at having a LO. Your news does not overshadow the tremendous loss the board has faced with the loss of two regs and other posters. Please have some compassion. The reality of the board is that there are losses. Us supporting them does not mean the board is being "gloomy". We are sad. Several of our own have left us. I'm really crossing my fingers that you would post condolences on their threads as well as thinking about your own good news.
    Well said, and yes I do send condolences when I see them. It is sad to loose a child and the ratio of having a successful pregnancy to a miscarriage is not good! But... Like I said I had good news and I wanted to see if anybody else had amazing news like I did!!
  • Poppy715 said:

    Thank you for posting your good news and congrats to you! I just read a few 'farewell' posts which made me so sad for those posters and also worried for my upcoming appt in 2 weeks. Hearing your good news is reassuring to us all!

    Fwiw, her good news does not reassure me about my pg. it's got nothing to do with me. I'm not going to squee about her post when she's not compassionate about others who are deeply hurting.
    You don't have to be happy for me. Never asked for it. I am sorry that my happiness doesn't give you some hope. Nobody's post have anything to do with anybody. They are just users Of this app all here for the same thing. People freely post what they feel like saying. I am sorry if I come off to nice or happy. I am from the Midwest and believe there is happiness in everything. Just a happy mommy of a 4 year old boy and trying to get through this 2nd one just like everybody else... :)
  • For those that think I am not compassionate, 1st nobody knows anybody. 2nd, I have two very very close friends that were pregnant along with me and one lost hers in her first tri, so yes I am compassionate to those that have lost one. 3rd, I have just as much right to post my happy news of my amazing u/s as people have the right to post their sad news. Goodnight world.
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  • ramy3 said:

    OP you are acting extremely obtuse.

    Especially when we can see her post history. :-?

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  • Poppy715 said:

    khan08 said:

    Poppy715 said:

    khan08 said:

    Thank you for posting your good news and congrats to you! I just read a few 'farewell' posts which made me so sad for those posters and also worried for my upcoming appt in 2 weeks. Hearing your good news is reassuring to us all!

    Thank you I feel the same way... Everything was so sad and gloomy. totally understanding what weeks everybody was in and the risk of miscarriages. I just had amazing news and I thought it would cheer everybody up and give them hope!!!
    Your good news does not cheer me up. A dear friend I've known for at least a year has had another m/c and probably the last chance at having a LO. Your news does not overshadow the tremendous loss the board has faced with the loss of two regs and other posters. Please have some compassion. The reality of the board is that there are losses. Us supporting them does not mean the board is being "gloomy". We are sad. Several of our own have left us. I'm really crossing my fingers that you would post condolences on their threads as well as thinking about your own good news.
    Well said, and yes I do send condolences when I see them. It is sad to loose a child and the ratio of having a successful pregnancy to a miscarriage is not good! But... Like I said I had good news and I wanted to see if anybody else had amazing news like I did!!
    You don't get it. It's not sad to loose a child. It's devastating. It changed me entirely as a person. I haven't seen you post much support anywhere. If you wanted to see if others had good news why wouldn't you look in the appointment thread? It's full of updates.
    Don't have the time to read through every thread that is posted and to search before I want to share some of my own news. Somehow this subject of excitement has gotten turned into finger pointing from a few. I get it, those that run the app or the "threads" Take time away from their family and lives to go over everything that is said. Yes you caught me of the everybody is hormonal and we need to be more positive! But I seen what I call "bullying" and some intense name calling and I am a fixer, I live to make sure people are happy. Some say butt out or in a "read before you report" thread the fu is apparently ok to say to other mothers. But I didn't believe in that and like I said, I am a fixer. Love it or hate it, it's just who I am
  • Good name calling! Thanks for the laugh! Never heard that name before :) I have seen people leave this app because they simply posted a question or a topic on here and the trolls came out and ousted them. They leave this wonderful app because they were bullied or called "twatwaffles" lol haha sorry I still think that's a funny word. Even the "moderators" seem to take part in it! But say what you want about me, I just came here to tell everybody about my wonderful ultra sound. See ya tomorrow girls
  • OP the point of this is you haven't been very active, so AW'ing your good news on others very bad day is not necessarily cool, you may have had great intentions but it just wasn't well received, because this is a community, you have to give support to get support, it's how it works.

    I haven't been active because for the most part I just like to see what's going on. When I see something that needs fixing I speak up. I had good news, so I shared it. So what I see your saying, is that because others had a not so good day that it doesn't give me the right to share my DH and myselfs good news. I know a miscarriage is a devastating, life altering issue. Until today I was nervous myself that there was a possibility that something could have turned bad. But luckily for me I had good news. I understand I should be in the April group but like I noted before I am on the April/may cut off and I chose to stay in the may group. I understand that I am a week or three weeks ahead of most, but again all I was doing was sharing good news and poppy led me to the correct news thread for happy appointments. Thanks all! Best wishes to everybody
  • khan08 said:

    OP the point of this is you haven't been very active, so AW'ing your good news on others very bad day is not necessarily cool, you may have had great intentions but it just wasn't well received, because this is a community, you have to give support to get support, it's how it works.

    I haven't been active because for the most part I just like to see what's going on. When I see something that needs fixing I speak up. I had good news, so I shared it. So what I see your saying, is that because others had a not so good day that it doesn't give me the right to share my DH and myselfs good news. I know a miscarriage is a devastating, life altering issue. Until today I was nervous myself that there was a possibility that something could have turned bad. But luckily for me I had good news. I understand I should be in the April group but like I noted before I am on the April/may cut off and I chose to stay in the may group. I understand that I am a week or three weeks ahead of most, but again all I was doing was sharing good news and poppy led me to the correct news thread for happy appointments. Thanks all! Best wishes to everybody
    You keep saying "When I see something that needs fixing I speak up."

    What exactly is broken?



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  • Lalalady54Lalalady54 member
    edited October 2014
    @Poppy715‌ ...Nothing is broken. She can't be bothered to actually support people but she wants rainbows and unicorns...so again OP I'm glad you had a good scan just try and be more sensitive to what community means and start being more active :)

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  • edited October 2014
    Dude, if you want to be a tool, carry on. Just don't expect people to sugar coat things, like how you sound like a total douche.

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  • I appreciated hearing some great, cheerful news this evening OP. Can't speak to any of the rest of the conversation but CONGRATS on a great U/S!!
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  • Congratulations! I'm sure you're relieved to know everything is ok now :)
  • @GFJ48‌ if you go to the communities tab on the app then to all forums-->the my birth month club section underneath favorites should give you a change option you can click and make may yours, so it always shows up first :) OP you could do this to if you care to switch to April since they will have more in common with you based on due date.

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    BFP #2-- 5-6-14, MMC 6-13-14, D&C 6-13-14
    BFP #3 -- 8-26-14, EDD 5-10-15 

  • You're due close enough to May that this board is totally appropriate. It's not uncommon to go 41 weeks now. Putting you in MAY.

    I'm actually due June 2nd, but I will have an induction due to some of my health problems. (39 weeks, 5/26)

    Not sure why the behavior of some is so bitchy. But as a fellow hijacker, welcome! ;)

    Any who did you get any potty shots? Or are you team green? Found out the sex at 14 wesks with my last!
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