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jjamundsonjjamundson member
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Hey everyone... 

I'm new on this board... how depressing. I'm young and everyone keeps reminding me of that--but my husband and I are ready to start a family. However, it's just not working. I currently live in Germany... 6,000 miles away from my family and friends, which is making it very hard for me to get the support that I need during this time. 
I've had two losses... and I'm 8 months in to trying the third time. I don't know what else to say... I feel like my life in consumed by trying to conceive.

Here's my blog that I just started if anyone is interested. I just want someone to talk to. 
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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Sorry for your losses. Hope you get the support you're looking for.
    TTCAL December Siggy Challenge: Autocorrect Fails
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    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome.  ((((HUGS))))
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
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  • uromysuromys member
    I'm sorry for your losses. This is a wonderful board full of support. Welcome

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • Cheetara2Cheetara2 member
    Sorry for your losses. Welcome!

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. This is a wonderful place, and I hope it provides you with the support that you are searching for.
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. There is no minimum age on grief. Big ((hugs)) to you
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    So sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. I'll echo what @medic7979 said...TTC can definitely feel all consuming. We can relate. ((hugs))
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge • Animal Snow Interactions
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  • alm288alm288 member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort here. Welcome.

    BTW, I've been living in Germany for >10 years. Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk. Living abroad and far from your family can be really tough. (I saw a lot of  your pics were taken in the Alps . . . we love hiking there!)

    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • eliidaeliida member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I was living overseas when I had my last two losses and this board has made all the difference. I hope you find comfort here as well.
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  • AnnaInmanAnnaInman member
    So sorry for your losses. My thoughts are with you.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry for your losses.   Welcome
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Sorry for your losses. I can't imagine going through that so far away from friends and family. This is a great group of women who understand, I hope you find the support here that will help you.

    And to mimick what someone else said, it doesn't matter how old you are, it sucks and it's hard to go through. You aren't alone here though!
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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