Today is the one day in the entire month of October that I do not want to give birth to this baby because of the family wedding I have to attend later. Not because I really want to be at that wedding, but because I know I will never hear the end of it from the bride and groom.
Keep your FX for me! Between last night's shenanigans and today's BMs, I'm hoping my body is just having an off time.
Yesterday I officially completed enrollment for my Master's Program. I'm taking online classes starting the 27th. I'm nervous that this was a terrible idea but I really wanted to start asap and get it done with by next year.
Good news is I am getting a new laptop out of it so I don't have to depend on the availability of DHs laptop for proper Bumping!! Woot!
I go in tomarrow evening to start induction and I'm scared to death. Right now I'm just snuggled in my pillow nest/fort of solitude and trying to rest and hold the baby in until Sunday. GIL just called me lazy...again
Lady's, guyses, GUISE!!! Today is the day. I'm having a freaking baby! I've been up since 2:30 with contractions, water broke at 5:45am and I was admitted at 7am at 3cm. I was just checked and I'm at 5cm.
Oh, and the epidural is magical. Kudos to those of you who go med free. Y'all are some strong women
::two chest pumps and a peace sign for Jenn:: ~ MrsJudgeyPants
@Jennifer18131 good luck and have a safe and easy delivery!
Woke up at 3am to contractions and back pain. Didn't fall back asleep until 630am and woke up to my cat trying to break through the door at 645am. Scared him away and then DH alarm went off at 7am, I'm so tired. Looking forward to a huge nap today or just going into labor would be nice too!! I hope everyone has a good day today!
Playing the waiting game on my doctor. My blood pressure has been creeping up so they took some blood yesterday to do labs for pre-e. I was told to call L&D and have the on call OB look it over and let me know what they want to do.
FFSC? I think I am 50/50 on if I just want them to tell me to come in so they can take this baby out or if I want to give her more time to come on her own. I have been sooooo emotional these past few days...I don't feel like I am in the best mental state for decision making and will probably do what the doctor thinks is best.
@erinchristine424 I for some reason am a little fearful of the spinal. I've never had any problems with it and wasn't afraid to get an epidural when I was pregnant with #2. I don't know why I'm feeling like this.
Keep in mind that the staff at the hospital might have changed since you were last there.
In regards to cluster feeding, I had the worst day yesterday because he fed nonstop all day and the entire night before. Luckily for me it meant he slept solidly throughout the night. No ugly cries for me this morning!
My Target completion coupon came in the mail yesterday. I had my DD set at Oct 1, and Solomon is almost a week old. I don't need anything off my registry anymore... Way to be, Target.
@windwithfingers When My Kids Have Pool Explosions I Just Take The Directly To The shower. We both get in together if it's on both of us. It is so much easier to clean up that way than trying to clean it with 965396 wipes. Plus you can use soap to get extra clean where wipes don't get you as clean. My ds used to have poop explosions that would go all the way up his back and would get in his hair when I took his clothes off to change him. He would do it all the time at stores too!
Dh is working today and I really just want him to come home and clean the house. I have zero energy and the thought of the standing/bending/picking up process makes me want to cry.
Yesterday I had a totally frustrating day. People were stupid everywhere I looked. I called to make a payment for my cell phone and the lady somehow thought I wanted to cancel my service and couldn't comprehend that I just wanted to pay my bill even though she is in the department that handles payments, so she still transferred me to the cancelation department. They were confused on why I was transferred there and then they couldn't figure out how to process the current payment due so they wiped it out and charged me for my next payment due. As long as I have service and don't get some insane double bill, I'll be happy.
I'm feeling much better today because mil is here which means I can relax and have this baby monday. Yippee! And she loves my favorite Mexican food restaurant so we are going there for lunch.
@AppleGrapeMSTK the Target thing happened to me, too. Baby has SO MUCH stuff that I'm not sure what to use the coupon on. More lanolin? Diapers... Baby pants...
I was in tears cause my usually overly poopy baby had no diapers since yesterday on top of the formula guilt.
She goes to the nursery for an assessment and has a massive poop diaper and massive pee diaper to the point where they had to change everything. I'm so happy she's ok, but she's so rotten smh lol
@LightBright515 did you know a study actually showed that moms who supplemented with a little bit of formula early on were more likely to ultimately be successful at BF than those who didn't?
Did you know that I love you? >:D< I needed that!
Also, if you're "empty" are your breasts still firm?
@AppleGrapeMSTK the Target thing happened to me, too. Baby has SO MUCH stuff that I'm not sure what to use the coupon on. More lanolin? Diapers... Baby pants...
Maybe I can put Christmas gifts on my registry for the kids and DH. They won't question what's on my registry, will they? Because my newborn totally needs a set of Hot Wheels and collared work shirts, right?
@starla487 Solomon is 6 days old, and I am pumping, but only on one side. He latches very poorly on one side to the point where I have developed blisters, so I am pumping until the blisters heal, and then we'll try to fix the latch issue.
If you have supply issues, nursing more and skin to skin will help your supply. Pumping to build a stash for returning to work or whatever doesn't need to happen until like 4 weeks PP.
Those with outside babies, how many of you started using your pump right away post-birth? With my insurance, there is a good chance I won't get my pump until 2-3 weeks post birth because my docs don't write the prescriptions for them until after the baby is born. But now that I'm reading so many of you are pumping already to help your supply, I'm getting nervous and wondering if I should just take my BBB coupon and bite the bullet.
I've pumped twice: once in the hospital to relieve engorgement and once at home because my nipple hurt so bad on my right side. DS is three weeks old tomorrow. I don't plan to start pumping regularly until 6 weeks.
Me: 30 | DH: 4/12/85 - 6/16/14 | Quinn Patrick born 9/28/14
Those with outside babies, how many of you started using your pump right away post-birth? With my insurance, there is a good chance I won't get my pump until 2-3 weeks post birth because my docs don't write the prescriptions for them until after the baby is born. But now that I'm reading so many of you are pumping already to help your supply, I'm getting nervous and wondering if I should just take my BBB coupon and bite the bullet.
I've pumped twice: once in the hospital to relieve engorgement and once at home because my nipple hurt so bad on my right side. DS is three weeks old tomorrow. I don't plan to start pumping regularly until 6 weeks.
I would suggest a manual pump ($30) to hold you over in case you need to relieve engorgement or the baby won't latch. I pumped in the first week due to poor latch and I do a few pumps here ans there when I'm engorged and need to just remove a little.
As far as storing milk, I will start pumping to store around 4 weeks PP since I have to go back to work right at 6 weeks. I still don't really understand how to do this effectively while still getting her to take the breast while I'm home, but I guess we'll figure it out.
I agree on getting a manual pump for right now. It's good to have it as a backup anyway.
Why do I have a weird feeling tonight will be the night? Trying not to get my hopes up.
I have the exact opposite feeling. This baby is never going to come. I'm hiding in the bathroom finishing up an ugly cry. Dd spilled her juice and goldfish crackers everywhere. Right after I finished picking up the living room.
@kfitzguerra sending temporarily clamped cervix claims your way!
((comfort)) to all cluster feeding and missing sleep!!
Last night was our first night home and DS was a bit stressed. Slept all day and had a few wails overnight. I took the 2am & 8am feedings and DH covered the 5am; neither one of us got much sleep but it was nice to split it a bit. He was pooping every time he got the formula the hospital gave us, but I switched to a fussy and gassy formula and now the poops are much more regular and don't seem to hurt him - before he was getting sooooo tense and it looked like he was in pain every time he pooped.
I guess being able to split feedings is one of the upsides of not being able to BF?
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Questions for those who delivered vaginally - are you getting more sore as time passes? I feel like it's harder for me to sit today than it was on Thursday! Bleeding is down substantially, but eek, so sore! (I had a 2nd degree tear.)
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
So DH is sick (cough, aches, 102 fever)... He started meds today, but anyone know what would happen if I were to go into labor? Would they mask him or would he full on not be able to come?
He has the flu shot btw...
I've been walking around with disinfectant all day spraying everywhere he goes!!
My friend who just had her second baby 2 weeks ago keeps telling me to keep this one in as long as possible because it was so much easier with him on the inside (which is true of course). But I can't stop thinking about that and it's getting me down.
I have no expectations of it being at all easy - I remember having a newborn and can only imagine it's wayyy harder with a crazy toddler, but dang it, I want to be a sore, sleep-deprived, grumpy mom if it means I get to snuggle my newborn baby. STMs who have had their LOs already, it's not that bad is it?
This is what I'm freaked out about too. Toddler + newborn. I mainly just don't want to have be pregnant and in pain!
Congrats to all the new mamas, and labor dust to all who want it. I'm working on catching up on labor stories.
I finally had 10 minutes to myself to shower!! I feel like a new woman. Tomorrow's goal: shaving. Maybe. @FamousEa Now I need cookies. Send some my way, yes?
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Oh, and the epidural is magical. Kudos to those of you who go med free. Y'all are some strong women
Thank you for your encouraging words >:D<
Woke up at 3am to contractions and back pain. Didn't fall back asleep until 630am and woke up to my cat trying to break through the door at 645am. Scared him away and then DH alarm went off at 7am, I'm so tired. Looking forward to a huge nap today or just going into labor would be nice too!! I hope everyone has a good day today!
FFSC? I think I am 50/50 on if I just want them to tell me to come in so they can take this baby out or if I want to give her more time to come on her own. I have been sooooo emotional these past few days...I don't feel like I am in the best mental state for decision making and will probably do what the doctor thinks is best.
Keep in mind that the staff at the hospital might have changed since you were last there.
In regards to cluster feeding, I had the worst day yesterday because he fed nonstop all day and the entire night before. Luckily for me it meant he slept solidly throughout the night. No ugly cries for me this morning!
Yesterday I had a totally frustrating day. People were stupid everywhere I looked. I called to make a payment for my cell phone and the lady somehow thought I wanted to cancel my service and couldn't comprehend that I just wanted to pay my bill even though she is in the department that handles payments, so she still transferred me to the cancelation department. They were confused on why I was transferred there and then they couldn't figure out how to process the current payment due so they wiped it out and charged me for my next payment due. As long as I have service and don't get some insane double bill, I'll be happy.
I'm feeling much better today because mil is here which means I can relax and have this baby monday. Yippee! And she loves my favorite Mexican food restaurant so we are going there for lunch.
I was in tears cause my usually overly poopy baby had no diapers since yesterday on top of the formula guilt.
She goes to the nursery for an assessment and has a massive poop diaper and massive pee diaper to the point where they had to change everything. I'm so happy she's ok, but she's so rotten smh lol
I needed that!
Also, if you're "empty" are your breasts still firm?
I agree on getting a manual pump for right now. It's good to have it as a backup anyway.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Noted.
He has the flu shot btw...
I've been walking around with disinfectant all day spraying everywhere he goes!!
I am scared for the future of humanity if someone were to actually try the pixie stick suggestion.
I finally had 10 minutes to myself to shower!! I feel like a new woman. Tomorrow's goal: shaving. Maybe.
@FamousEa Now I need cookies. Send some my way, yes?
Way to stay positive @MRSclarke08, I would have lost my shit with all that drama!
@windwithfingers. Yikes on the poopsplosion! I haven't experienced that yet but I know it is coming.
@golfingdarwinfish. We have been using less gassy formula and lo seems to do well with it. And I am still sore 3 weeks postpartum.
Labor dust to all those ready to pop!