Newb in town

stephchris0321

ladyamanuet!

littlemissmarla

ladyamanuet said:

litera said:

STAHP PMing. I get that people are curious but I'm not going to give out her real name or info. What she did was grody and fucked up but she is not a stable person and I'm not about to hand over the keys to where she harms herself.

Jensavicci was not real, it was the AE of a girl named Ana. More commonly known as DW or Jen's "wife" 

She is a decade younger than she claimed to be, has a self admitted Catfishing addiction and claims to be 100% remorseful. She is not a wedding planner, she isn't married and has no children. The girl in the pictures "Jen" claimed to be is clued in to everything and has fixed her leak. Unfortunately we couldn't find Max's origins ("Jen's" supposed 4th child she posted pics of) but am working on it.

I spent a couple hours texting Ana and she spilled everything, or what she wants us to think is everything. She says she has done this on other social media sites and joined TheBump due to low self esteem, her inability to make friends IRL and she always wanted children. Again, her words, not mine so take that with a grain of salt. I'll skip the emo declarations of regret she made because really, it means FuckDiddly at this point.

Again, watch what you post because she stole Lissani's pics and was able to mostly get away with that because Lissanni had a video that Ana took still images from, thus making it untracable on Google Image search. Yeah. Same with Max's photos, all from video. 

But Ana, if you are reading - I forgot to add last night that I know your real name, where you live and I SS your entire friends list. Andplusalso, that other thing we talked about at the end of our convo, so if you do this again I will feel zero guilt at exposing all of this to your Real Life. Maybe try spending some more time with them and a little less online.

Am I missing anything?

***lurking from Jan15***

You just opened yourself up to a whole round of more PMs with that last vague statement (the bolded) - just so you know

I also wanted to ask, if she hadn't posted this intro, would you have called her out in a different thread?  Or would "Jen" have been able to continue?  Everyone seemed a little shocked that you did it, which is why I ask


I'm not sure why you feel the need to come in and ask questions??

Nichole8787

@litera

Girl....You're Good...her freaking social! Not gunna lie...you scare me a bit...

oh and I didn't want to know her real info like who/where she is just what portions of things were true....

zellatrix

ladyamanuet said:

I also wanted to ask, if she hadn't posted this intro, would you have called her out in a different thread?  Or would "Jen" have been able to continue?  Everyone seemed a little shocked that you did it, which is why I ask

I am pretty sure it was just the straw that broke the camel's back, yaknow? When someone has immersed themselves so much into our community, you really have to question yourself before calling them out for fear that they might be legit. But then "DW" started posting and the writing styles were nearly identical and shit just started to pile on. Especially when everyone compared notes. I, for one, was completely gullible and didn't ever think twice other than the occasional eye roll and the WTF for all the oversharing. "Jen" wasn't my type of person so I didn't give her much thought. But Litera and others were way more intuitive than I... anyway, call it a hunch that really paid off. But, I know that Litera and the rest of us would have been willing to eat humble pie and apologize if she turned out to be real. 

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hurricanekb

Damn.

From an old January14 reg.

I officially got no work done since lunch. But I have read an entire Series Finale of catfish.

good job girls!

zellatrix

stellabunny said:

@littlemissmarla - This is the latest Bump drama. J14ers have gone onto other boards and crashed their threads and asked questions. It's our turn now. Anybody can post on the BMBs.

Lurk ( and post) away. The shit that went down here was epic, I would be curious too. 

littlemissmarla

No hostility here, it seemed like @litera was as forthcoming as she could be with the information and "what was the last straw".. I think there have been 20 pages of discussing all the possibilities that lead us to this point. 

But your right this is J14's 15 minutes of TB fame so ask away. 

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hab83

Wow, crazy stuff...

I just wanted to mention that IP bans don't do much, even if she's not savvy enough to spoof her own while she's at home. Any time you go somewhere and connect to their network, like a Starbucks or an airport, you get a different IP address.

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Nichole8787

I think she's back already...

littlemissmarla

Nichole8787 said:

I think she's back already...

???

1982Babies

Nichole8787 said:

I think she's back already...

@Nichole8787, you can't post something like that and leave us hanging.

PinkCamino

I've been lurking and reading since last night and honestly, my mind is BLOWN.

Catfish are among us. I think we seem to forget how possible this with the types of relationship we form.

So incredibly sad and creepy. I can't even imagine the level of deceit the ladies who developed a "friendship" with this woman feel today.

Alygohome

F15 lurking. Well, there goes today productivity.

doeydo

My apologies to @jojobean86 and the other posters if I was a bit too defensive.  I think I misread the "tone"/what she meant.  

lks18

LolaSimonLove said:

littlemissmarla said:

Nichole8787 said:

I think she's back already...

???

I feel like she'd start over in a new bmb with a whole new story/persona.... She has to know she can't come back here.

That's what I was thinking. The women who just got their BFPs now should be on the look out for her new incarnation.

poofwok

Lurking from A14... Just out of curiosity, did she ever post a birth announcement?

Also, I'm super impressed with J14 and how you handled this mega crapfest. Just wow.

littlemissmarla

@justine2502 She posted a fabricated birth story if that's what you mean.

poofwok

littlemissmarla said:

@justine2502 She posted a fabricated birth story if that's what you mean.

I assumed so... Did she post a pic of someone else's baby aswell? :-/

Edit: forgot a word

carolyngrace

Lurking from June15 here. This post is one for TB hall of fame. A learning moment for all. And quite the read! Holy crap. 

BBColt78

litera said:

STAHP PMing. I get that people are curious but I'm not going to give out her real name or info. What she did was grody and fucked up but she is not a stable person and I'm not about to hand over the keys to where she harms herself.

Jensavicci was not real, it was the AE of a girl named Ana. More commonly known as DW or Jen's "wife" 

She is a decade younger than she claimed to be, has a self admitted Catfishing addiction and claims to be 100% remorseful. She is not a wedding planner, she isn't married and has no children. The girl in the pictures "Jen" claimed to be is clued in to everything and has fixed her leak. Unfortunately we couldn't find Max's origins ("Jen's" supposed 4th child she posted pics of) but am working on it.

I spent a couple hours texting Ana and she spilled everything, or what she wants us to think is everything. She says she has done this on other social media sites and joined TheBump due to low self esteem, her inability to make friends IRL and she always wanted children. Again, her words, not mine so take that with a grain of salt. I'll skip the emo declarations of regret she made because really, it means FuckDiddly at this point.

Again, watch what you post because she stole Lissani's pics and was able to mostly get away with that because Lissanni had a video that Ana took still images from, thus making it untracable on Google Image search. Yeah. Same with Max's photos, all from video. 

But Ana, if you are reading - I forgot to add last night that I know your real name, where you live and I SS your entire friends list. Andplusalso, that other thing we talked about at the end of our convo, so if you do this again I will feel zero guilt at exposing all of this to your Real Life. Maybe try spending some more time with them and a little less online.

Am I missing anything?

You spent hours texting her? Was that to get info? I remember you saying you weren't taking any of this lightly because of your law enforcement background.

This isn't my first rodeo. I think this post has more than one AE on it and Jen is decent distraction.

Edit: change the word "post" above to "thread"

littlemissmarla

The more I think about it, the more concerned I am about the pictures of "max." 

I'm glad we got in contact with the girl who's pics were stolen but isn't it kind of important to locate the origin of the child's pictures and inform his parents???? 

lowen83

Holy moly bat man.... I haven't bumped since the day "Ana" introduced herself in this "intro" and omfg what in the hell did I miss. Lord have mercy lol.

PregsMcSnoozalot

My personal conspiracy theory is that Litera and Jen are in cahoots, fabricating this whole scenario for shits and giggles.  

That or Litera IS Jen  

PregsMcSnoozalot

Also, I'm pretty sure it was Litera on the grassy knoll.

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katnipeverclean

PregsMcSnoozalot said:

Also, I'm pretty sure it was Litera on the grassy knoll.

Whaaaat?

INmommy871278

Wow....just wow! Spent the day with a local mom group I'm a part of and just checked this thread after the kids where in bed. I'm ashamed that I was in denial and partially defended her at the beginning of this thread. I blocked and reported "Jen" on Pinterest. One thing that was not mentioned was the Pinterest thread that was started so we could get ideas from each other, if you posted your name in that thread you might want to check your Pinterest account for "Jen" also @litera‌ if you have the contact info of the Swedish woman her pic is being used on Pinterest under jensavicci f if you could let her know.

Ylvelill

/eye roll @litera‌

And I was the one voted the biggest AW....

zellatrix

funnibunni80 said:

abundancenow said:

tourqeyes said:

So I guess apologies to whoever we voted Most Likely To Be BSC.

I just hope she's BSC vs a criminal. She fished a lot of info, babies birthdays, names, nicknames, knows where people work, ect...


I don't really know FunniBunni who won Most Likely To Be BSC, but she seemed pretty harmless to the group to me. Maybe she over shared some, was long winded, and had the dog thing, but she didn't give off the impression to be fishing for personal info.


I was nominated for Most Likely to Be BSC, and besides sharing my difference of opinion, don't feel like I've ever expressed anything to be judged crazy like Jen has proven herself to be.
My husband can call me BSC, but I'm a real person with baby, and have never lied to get info or to feel self important.


Crazy bitch elected herself to win every Bump Award.

So funny story, this post went all over TB, and then spared to Aug '14s FB group.  Couldn't believe the call out, and the amazing sleuthing on here.  Geez.  I remember how bad I felt for her during the whole cheating thing...  

Last thing I expected was to see my name mentioned...  Well, I am BSC enough to be honest, and not hold back.  BSC enough to have started all over after 8 years free of diapers.  According to my mother, BSC enough to cloth diaper.  Also, BSC enough to consider doing all this baby stuff one last time again sometime in the future. But, that's about it.  Sorry to disappoint. 

Anyways, since I'm not on TB anymore really, I'll officially step down, and pass it off to person #2 (who I realize is unknown since Jen/Ana did all the counting.)

For those of you who live in fear of my long-winded posting again, don't be.  As it was pointed out earlier, frequent posting (or posting often) doesn't go well with working (even PT) and having 4 kids.  You may all now feel sorry for my DH, who has to listen to me talk.  (Good lord!  How much could she possibly say if she didn't have to type???  I wonder if he ever gets a word in edgewise!!!1!!1!)

Since you brought up the "dog thing", DH took the dog to the vet.  Apparently, doggy anti-depressants work for anxiety.  We are 4 months and counting without an incident.  I call that a win-win.

Sorry, but this is the best GBCB you're getting from me.    Hope you and all your LO's are well. If there is anything I've learned in the last 14 years, enjoy every moment, it goes by faster than you can ever imagine.

(Hope this was long enough to live up to my rep - I did try to stretch it as much as possible so I didn't disappoint.)

Anyways,

Hi July!  

Aug '14 out.

Wait... Who are you again?

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RosePetals2014

Well, it's taken me 3 days to get to page 17, I have to say I'm so very sorry you ladies have this BSC weirdo on your hands!

Massive congrats on the super sleuthing skills, I have always been careful to never post any pics or locations on here, although I have been starting to almost ease up lately, you girls have just given me the biggest kick up my assignment to remind me why I'm so paranoid in the first place, thank you!

@BumpJackie‌, can you PLEASE get the pic removing issue fixed ASAP, and let this 1 month edit rule go, this is just a matter of safety now, these ladies really need to be able to delete any and all info and pics they feel uncomfortable with having shared.

Oh, and I'm a lurker, but this thread is spreading all round the bump, I think your skills deserve big congrats and thanks from anyone reading

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@zellatrix I like the name change

Speaking of, I'm a smidgen bummed that the user name @nocturnealley‌ is wasted on an AE. Especially since I never made the connection to the play on words of Knockturn Alley and Diagon Alley until someone mentioned it in the thread. ">

Nichole8787

I'm still pretty sure we have the same catfish sWimming around

mrscurlygurl

Ylvelill said:

/eye roll @litera‌

And I was the one voted the biggest AW....

diagonalley

LeaLupins said:

@zellatrix I like the name change

Speaking of, I'm a smidgen bummed that the user name @nocturnealley‌ is wasted on an AE. Especially since I never made the connection to the play on words of Knockturn Alley and Diagon Alley until someone mentioned it in the thread. ">

Diagonalley, reporting in. Thankfully I am a real person, so this sn will not go to waste. However, thoroughly creeped out by AE's choice in sn and baby name.

yurmom

Ylvelill said:

/eye roll @litera‌ And I was the one voted the biggest AW....

Uhh yeah you definitely earned it. And we should've made an award for Biggest Sanctimommy (before they're even a mommy) because you would've been a shoe in.