**BFP warning after QOTW**
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For those of you so new that you don't know the routine, this is a check-in for newer members of the TTCAL Board. Please feel free to use this space to ask those "newbie" questions that feel intimidating to ask on the main board and I will try my best to get you an answer.
**Please don't feel that you have to provide individual feedback to all of the posters ahead of you. Many do and it's great, but it's most definitely not required to be a part of this check-in. I'd just hate to think people might feel intimidated and not post because of this. All posts and responses are welcomed!**
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Finally, if you haven't done so, please post your introduction on the main board including your story.
***If you do not see your name, it’s because you didn’t check in last week, just join in this week and I’ll add you!***
Weekly Update: How are you doing? Post an update including any news, thoughts, or questions - let me know how things are going for you! If you don’t see your name, it’s only because you didn’t check in last week. Feel free to join in this week!
Individual Updates:
@negritosmami— Did you end up O’ing? How are you feeling?
@LDubHawksFan Looks like FF has you O’ing on the 9th! How are you feeling about that?
@Cheetara2—Didn’t hear from you last week, hope all is well!
@natalie115— Hopefully FF gives you some CH’s soon. How do you feel about this cycle?
@jms627— Didn’t hear from you last week. How are you?
@Pickles4Prez—How was your trip?
@readinglove— How are you this week? I’ve been chart stalking you.
@PowerOfBacon— Did you end up O’ing? Hows the chart looking; I can’t seem to find your link? How is your dog feeling?
@mkfish31— So sorry AF came. I’m glad to see your RE wants you to temp. I enjoy seeing my chart during the month and having a little insight as to what’s happening in there ![]()
@ctk181—Getting closer to the next cycle! Are you excited to get back to ttc?
@26summer— Glad to read that your hcg is dropping. I hope you're feeling better.
@saritacw— Did you get your betas drawn again? How did they look?
@smagglebit— How are you this week? Missed your check in last week.
@britjonathan—What made you stop temping close to your O date? I just chart stalked you and noticed that. What’s new with you this week?
@crimpgirl— How are you this week?
@cavewmn— What’s new this week with you? Have you made plans for the hotel trip yet?
@imakeeff0rts— Anything new with you? Are you getting nervous for your move?
@Flurison—Any signs of AF yet?
@inkloveszelda26—Anything happening with you this week? Any news on the abnormal Pap?
@nikiswimr—I am so sorry to hear about your trip to the ER. How are you now? ((hugs))
@snflowr14— How are you this week?
hoping&waiting12— What’s new with you this week?
QOTW - What is your favorite Breakfast food?


***BFP WARNING***
Congrats to @stinybean, @belle0720 and @matiekae! If you wish to congratulate them, please do so on their PgAL intro, or PM them ![]()



Re: ~~TTCAL newbie check in 10/14/14~~
I have my follow up appointment tomorrow. I had the D&C two weeks ago Thursday. I'm hoping there was enough tissue for genetic testing, but my doctor didn't seem hopeful that there would be. I'll update tomorrow.
hey ladies and hey to you @rslh10...as always, thanks for posting.
@ldubhawksfan and @powerofbaconi hope this is the cycle for both of you!!!fx
@rslh im not sure if you already spoke about this and i missed it but how was your bday? hope you had a great one.
AFM, I am not temping yet...ill give it one more cycle and then ill start with temping (Im so scared that im going to drive both myself and my hubby crazy with this temping thing but we shall see) anyways just ended what im GUESSING was my FW.. we DTD a few times...i tried my damn hardest not to think about the pregnancy im desperate for while we did..that was a fail....i wonder when ill ever be able to just truly relax and enjoy it!!smh...so now we shall see what happens..
anyways my fave breakfast food is probably chick fila breakfast!!!love it!!
~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
~BFP #1 6/2014 EDD 2/11/15
~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014
IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z
TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions
@rslh10 - Thanks for the check-in! How are you this week?
@imakeeff0rts - Glad you are moving! I hope you like your new place a lot more!
@PowerofBacon - Glad your pup is doing well. Hope your 2WW flies by!
@LDubHawksFan - Your chart looks great and it does look like you had great timing! FX for you!
@negritosmami - Temping can definitely make you crazy, but I actually really love it now because I feel like I have so much more knowledge about what is happening with my body. FX for you this cycle!
@readinglove - Hope the next few days fly by! FX for you when you decide to test!
AFM, just waiting for AF. I was worried because FF showed me having a pretty short LP last cycle, but I was hoping it was just because it was my first post-loss cycle. I'm pretty happy now because I am 11dpo and no AF today and temps still pretty high, so I think I'm going to have at least a 12 day LP. Yay! And to answer @rslh10's question, yes! I'm super excited to start TTC again but also really scared. I had a consultation with a new OB yesterday - which I already posted about in a separate thread so I won't repeat it all - but it was great and I really, really liked him and I feel great about his plan if I do get a BFP. So that is helping me feel a little less scared. The only thing I am waiting for now is the result of my rubella immunity test. If for some reason that comes back negative, I need to get vaccinated and then it is a 3 month wait before we can TTC. So FX that I still have my immunity! Hope all you ladies have a fabulous week!
ETA: QOTW - I LOVE breakfast food of all kind, but if I had to pick a fave it would be either stuffed french toast or quiche!
@readinglove right!!its very hard..and trying to have fun sometimes is hard too!i had to literally talk to myself during it and say SELF!!!RELAX!!!FOCUS!!!DONT WORRY ABOUT HOW THIS ENDS!!!FOCUS!!! loool having to talk yourself into enjoying sex...fun times
@ctk181 i understand exactly what you mean. However, i have even said before about this group, Its the gift AND the curse as it relates to it being filled with so much knowledge. Since i have joined i have learned so much that i can no longer be deliriously ignorant (ie pre this group..id swear i was already pregnant and experiencing symptoms because we had sex yesterday!!!lmao) I picture temping to be the same. At this point, i have no knowledge of whether i ovulated. So i just assume i do and i dont worry!!once i know!!!omg!!!im scared!!but yea eventually ill do it!!
~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
~BFP #1 6/2014 EDD 2/11/15
~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014
@rslh10 thanks for adding me to the check-in.
Physically I'm doing better, still spotting but glad the ultrasound showed everything else had passed. Emotionally it still sucks. After my first AF I'm going to meet w the RE to talk about the next step. I'd like to start something as soon as possible. He said we can start trying again after my first AF but I don't know what the plan will be as it's very unlikely to happen without a medical assist. He had wanted me to go straight to IUI instead of Clomid + TI but I had wanted to try this first. So, who knows?
@crimpgirl hope AF comes soon (so unusual in the TTC world to be wishing that)
@Cheetara2 @PowerOfBacon @LDubHawksFan good luck with the TWW!
Sorry for not responding to everyone else who posted, but BIG ((hugs)) to everyone who needs them.
I'm actually doing a lot better this week. I stopped spotting a couple of days ago and I'm waiting for my f/u appt next Wednesday with my OB. I haven't really started temping yet, but today is CD 10 and I'm hoping that maybe I will still catch my "O" if I start tomorrow. DH and I haven't had sex quite yet, but I'm about ready to get back on the horse!
Fx for everyone waiting to test!!!
QOTW- I'm pretty obsessed with breakfast foods. I LOVE pancakes with butter and REAL maple syrup. It can't be that fake shit.
I have no idea WTF is going on. On Sunday I woke up at 5 (usually test at 6:15) fell back asleep the. Woke up at 5:50 and got out of bed w/o temping so I discarded that temp. This morning when I went to read my temp (using the memory) my thermometer got switched to Celsius and by the time I realized what I was seeing the number disappeared and I have no idea what it was. I've been doing OPKs this week. Question with them though....after ovulation do they have no second line or can there still be a faint second line?
Started TTC Nov. 2011
1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
Same here.
ETA: Typo
Started TTC Nov. 2011
1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
I had trouble with OPKs at first too (just started using them last cycle), but I found that when you have a positive you will know. The second line should be just as dark as the control line (or at least pretty darn close). I always have a faint second line but it did start to get darker as I got closer to O and then I had a clear positive (where the second line was just as dark as the control) 2 days in a row. Then back to faint second line again. Hope that helps.
Started TTC Nov. 2011
1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
Yes -- I did another Beta draw last Friday and got the numbers back yesterday. I'm back in the zero range (yipeee!) so now my body can start doin' it's thing again.
I began taking the large handful of supplements again recommended by my doctor to prepare for pregnancy and now I just wait for AF to start back up again -- It should be in the next 2 weeks or else I'll go back to my doc and get a recommendation for how to proceed. Assuming I get back to normal cycles in the time frame expected, I should be able to try to get pregnant again around Christmas. So I guess I'm in the officially benched phase.
I may drop off this checkin while benched as I don't think I'll have anything to report. Thank you for the support the last few weeks. It really helped me get through the scary, unknown phase.
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TTC since Dec, 2012. Me: 33; DH: 34
- Ultrasound to look at "lay of the land": normal
- Blood work: normal
- OPKs and ultrasound to confirm ovulation: Yes
- SA for DH: Normal (a couple numbers on the low side of normal)
- HSG: Normal
- Doing several cycles of Letrozole, TI and progesterone
- Aug cycle of Letrozole, TI and progesterone came back with a BFP-MC at 7 weeks.
- Benched until Jan
- Starting Letrozole, TI, Progesteron and HCG Trigger in Feb cycle
I"m in the very same boat. My doc recommended IUI to start but I wanted to do Femara and TI first, and it worked....but then didn't. Sucks, hu? I"m now in the "waitin a cycles before trying again" phase.
***** All Welcome *****
***** Siggy Warning *****
TTC since Dec, 2012. Me: 33; DH: 34
- Ultrasound to look at "lay of the land": normal
- Blood work: normal
- OPKs and ultrasound to confirm ovulation: Yes
- SA for DH: Normal (a couple numbers on the low side of normal)
- HSG: Normal
- Doing several cycles of Letrozole, TI and progesterone
- Aug cycle of Letrozole, TI and progesterone came back with a BFP-MC at 7 weeks.
- Benched until Jan
- Starting Letrozole, TI, Progesteron and HCG Trigger in Feb cycle
@PowerOfBacon
@LDubHawksFan
@readinglove
@cheetara2
Good luck in the TWW
I go back for another beta tomorrow. It should be at 0 since it was so low last week. I feel back to myself physically finally and I have a headache and am crampy so I'm hoping it's AF getting ready to finally come.
@rshl10 - Thanks for the check in!
Last week was sort of a bad week for me. I've really been struggling lately with my anxiety and depression. I thought I was handling everything well, and I don't know if the miscarriage coupled with planning a wedding (that really I just want to be here and done so I can try again) exacerbated it, but I basically was a wreck all last week and just holed myself up in my room after work. I've decided I needed to get back on some medication and I'm hoping that helps. I think I sort of need to step back from the board (not just the board, social media and the internet in general) because I'm definitely obsessing about things. I'll still be lurking and checking in for sure, and commenting when I can, but I may not be quite as active for a bit. We'll see!
Hope everyone's doing well. Good luck for the ladies in the TWW!
***Siggy Warning - loss mentioned***
*S15 Siggy January Siggy Challenge - Happy Dance*
ME: 32 DH: 38
BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)
BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*
@crimpgirl I didn't get my first AF until I was 16 and I was dying for it to start at the time!
Edit: because I suck at typing on mobile.
UPDATE:
My doc's office just called and I definitely have immunity to rubella! Yay! Also, I started having cramps this morning, so I think AF is ready to make an appearance. I'm preparing the gasoline for the bench burning!
BFP #1 9/7/14 MC confirmed 9/17/14
BFP #2 11/20/14 EDD 8/4/15
Baby girl born 7/22/15
BFP #3 5/6/17 EDD 1/19/18
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/54d2f7