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thejucheidea

1. What the fuck is a nub? That's what we call our Corgi's stump tail.

2. Gender is a societal thing; sex is biological. You're wondering about the sex.

3. You gave us a profile shot. Even if I wanted to take a guess, which I don't, the profile shot comprised of mostly a head isn't going to provide any illumination at all.

crunchymamaof2

I'm just here for the bat signal.

bailey2658

MauiBliss said:

RedheadBaker said:

LOL that you deleted everything except the U/S

In her defense, I can't believe I'm saying that, it's a current, fucking seriously annoying bug with TB. You can't delete pictures. Which sucks for those of us who tried to clean some house after some crazy stalker crap went down a week or so ago. BJ has even come in and deleted an entire thread for a BSC poster on TTGP when she couldn't remove her drive-by pee stick. 

But yeah, seriously, OP. Poor form. And you were quoted. Soooo, it's all still there for all the world to see. But yeah, well done with that one. 

You're correct in that I was unable to delete the picture but I did NOT delete my posts because I was embarrassed by anything I put whatsoever but simply to try and stop any further negative comments and end the conversation. I have not responded with anything harsh up to this point, I said before that I'm completely new to these boards and a very anxious pregnant lady who was simply looking for any support or words of wisdom. In hindsight I have obviously misjudged not only the people on here but also the website itself in the fact. I thought for some silly reason it was a SUPPORT network. I didn't expect to get reprimanded for wording something incorrectly or for asking a couple of perhaps naive questions, clearly I don't know the "lingo". I have been trying to delete my account but finding it difficult to do so. I think it's a real shame that people have to be bitchy or harsh towards somebody who was clearly not looking for trouble but just advice, I have since read about a number of people who have joined this site and come across similar situations. Seems to me that people preach about using the wrong wording whilst sitting on their high horse when actually it is them who are being completely judgemental, judging me when they know nothing about me - as if I was ever making some kind of future judgement about my child sex or gender when the truth is I don't care what choices he or she makes in the future as I would support any choice they made and love them unconditionally. If you don't like the way things are worded then don't read it or reply, but there is no need to make anybody feel uncomfortable, nobody knows or understands peoples individual circumstances or the reason why they post questions or seek advice. You certainly don't know my ttc history and I certainly wont be sharing now. I'm sure by the sounds if it you will be pleased to hear that I shall not be using these boards again and I only hope that the next anxious person who asks what is deemed to you all as an unacceptable badly worded question gets treated slightly fairer. 

thejucheidea

Can I just say that as the best friend of thirteen years of a transgendered person who transitioned from female to male a few years ago, the whole 'I don't really care about gender versus sex' bullshit REALLY pisses me off? Great for you that you live in some little special fluffy world where this distinction doesn't affect your life, but it's a HUGE, HUGE thing. Blowing it off is a really shitty thing to do.