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Vent: in laws!

AandStilltryingAandStilltrying member
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Ok I just need some place to say enough is enough! I've had my inlaws here for 9 days with 2 more to go! I'm done. The boys will be their first grandkids, so mother in law has LOTS of opinions and advice. Curtain vs blind in nursery, paint color, registering for gifts, clothing, food, diaper brands, doing laundry, hanging clothes. Yup, I'm just done! Then MY mom comes 1
Day later. If they are this nuts before the boys come, I'm afraid of life after they are here.


10 medicated IUI's (3 with injectables). 
IUI #1 (medicated) Jan. 2013-BFP!!!!- Beta's didn't double, MTX shot for possible ectopic.
8 IUI's between April 13-April 14 = BFN 
IUI #10 and final before IVF, injectables May 2014- BFP!!!!  TWINS!!!!

7 week ultrasound showed 2 wonderful heartbeats!
8 weeks to the ER with vaginal bleeding while on vacations!  Diagnosed SubChorionic Hemorrhage.  Babies are both great.
9 week ultrasound showed both babies are still great.
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Re: Vent: in laws!

  • trisholiotrisholio member
    I have only had my in laws stay with us for a few days and it drove me crazy!  But I can somewhat sympathize with you.  My sister and I had babies two months apart, so our pregnancies and now our babies are constantly compared to each other.  
    My wife's parents are not the smartest people in the world but yet they try and give us parenting advice, it makes me crazy!

    My advice is to set boundaries ahead of time, be clear about your opinions and don't let others push you around.  ,  
    T & G My wife and I married 9/10/11 in Niagara Falls, NY
    HSG 12/12/12        
    #1 ICI 12/15/12              BFN on 12/29/12
    #2 ICI  1/11/13                BFN 1/28/13                       
    #3 ICI 2/11/13                 BFN
                   
    #4 ICI August 2013,  Clomid 100mg    BFN on 8/30/13 
    #5 ICI September-Clomid 100,  mg ICI 8/15 and 8/16,  BFN on 9/3
    #6 ICI October-Clomid 150 mg for 5 days   BFN 10/27
    uterine laparoscopy on 11/14-no endo or cysts
    #7 IUI December-Clomid 150mg    BFP 12/21
    12/23 Beta 51     12/26 Beta 209!
    First ultrasound on January 8th 2014-great healthy heartbeat
    Second Ultrasound January 23 (8 weeks) we got to see and hear the heartbeat
    Third Ultrasound Feb 4th(10 weeks), then will  released to OBGYN'
    It's a GIRL!
    We welcomed Adalyn Cooper Elizabeth on 8/29/14
    She was 7lbs 11oz and 19.6 inches long

    Proud foster parents to two little girls ages 2.5 yrs old, M,  and 1 year old, K



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