I think I am really starting to freak out about breastfeeding. I mean, generally we are doing ok with it but I don't think she is eating as long as other babies, nor with the same frequency. I can't wake her to save my life. I'm starting to worry about my supply. It takes her like 10 minutes before she gets a proper latch every time.
Yesterday was her first pedi appointment. She was 6 lb. 1/2 oz. birthweight was 6 lb 3 oz. we go back Monday for a weight check.
I was grateful I didn't have my pump yet because it forced me to keep trying but I'm starting to wish it would get here already.
Maybe that's my confession for the day.
I don't want to go to my appointment today. I hate the scale, hate the wait, hate the "nothing has changed see you next week"
It is just not a good day. I don't want the baby to come early, I'm actually hoping for a little after my due date to be honest - but I'm sort of tired of all the appointments. And I totally feel for those of you who have multiple in a week. I would go crazy!
My ds had a tongue tie that wasn't severe either, but we had it corrected at 2 weeks old anyways. It took him a little while to learn how to nurse correctly after that, but it made a world of difference and allowed my severely damaged nipples to heal. Also, laid back nursing as someone suggested yesterday was much more tolerable for both of us. A week does seem like a long time to wait, but I hope it makes as big of a difference for you as it did for us.
A coworker brought donuts in, and I chose what I thought was a nice cream-filled one from the box. I should've looked more carefully before biting into it. It was jelly-filled. :-&
I sat down to use the potty and felt a huge pressure released, I got up and realized I had my baby in the toilet! I started to panic and run around the whole house.
Moral of the story: don't watch 'I didn't know I was pregnant' before bed.
Crazy Prego Dream #2: I turned into a super ninja after someone shot my DH in our entryway.
I think I am really starting to freak out about breastfeeding. I mean, generally we are doing ok with it but I don't think she is eating as long as other babies, nor with the same frequency. I can't wake her to save my life. I'm starting to worry about my supply. It takes her like 10 minutes before she gets a proper latch every time.
Yesterday was her first pedi appointment. She was 6 lb. 1/2 oz. birthweight was 6 lb 3 oz. we go back Monday for a weight check.
I was grateful I didn't have my pump yet because it forced me to keep trying but I'm starting to wish it would get here already.
Maybe that's my confession for the day.
I'm sorry you're having a rough time. It can take newborns a while to learn to latch quickly, but she'll be a pro before you know it.
What do you try to help wake her up for feedings? Changing her diaper, leaving her in just a diaper for the feeding, tickling her feet and neck and ears, blowing air gently into her ears and on her ribs (tickles!), and even the corner of a washcloth dipped in cool water and placed against her cheek, can all help sleepy newborns wake up.
Ideally she'll get a good feeding (~20mins or so) every 2-3 hours, and she can nurse on demand in between. Newborns are notoriously sleepy, and it can be such a challenge to keep them awake to make sure they're getting enough! Hang in there, though! The sleepiness usually doesn't last too long.
Most doctors would like babies to be back at their birthweight by 2 weeks old. Lots of skin-to-skin will encourage her to nurse more frequently and will cause hormone release in you that will increase milk production. If the two of you can hang out shirtless together under a blanket for a good part of every day, that will do so much for both of you!
The worst. I got one on my face the other day and it looked like the biggest zit ever. Why do mosquitoes love pregnant women? I've never gotten as many bites as I have this summer.
@Emerald27 Thank you. It's just a bit overwhelming at times. All other signs point to her doing just fine and I know there are a lot more difficult situations like when DD1 would latch at all or when DD2 could have my milk due to medications I was taking but I guess I'm just feeling anxious today. I want her to gain the 2.5 oz we are hoping for by her appointment Monday morning.
Thanks for all the wishes! He's fine and placenta appears fine. NST took a bit longer bc he was sleeping at first, and I got lectured by 3 nurses I need to eat more. Thanks for that.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
I am so annoyed with myself. I've been stressed about finishing up these last few big things at work, and today I have plenty of time to get a lot done and I have absolutely no drive to do it. I'd rather Bump. This LO could come at any time, why am I not more motivated??
I am with you here. I have gotten a few big things done, little more to finish up and I am procrastinating like it is my only job right now. I have to just finish this crap and be done!
I just had a chocolate chip granola bar for a snack and there was ONE chocolate chip in it. One. It wasn't even generic brand! I am irrationally upset about this.
Also, DH just sent me a picture of my favorite slippers that our dogs decided to eat this morning. They never eat shoes...why now! I was going to take those babies to the hospital
I had my health visitor come for my antenatal appointment today. I hated her. She spent 40 minutes lecturing me on breast vs bottle. Also told my DS she was going to take his pacifier this Christmas and in return he gets gifts. How is this her decision to make? She was going on about how he won't learn to speak because of it. I will wean him off but not at a time when a new baby comes and I will be gone in labour. He may need that comfort. Everything I do is wrong according to this woman.
I'm so glad this isn't a thing in the US. Though, I guess it could potentially help mothers at high risk for PPD, that is if it doesn't make them feel worse about themselves.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
@PurpleHippo19 I feel the same way: I'm in search of projects, because if I keep sitting here with nothing to do waiting for this baby to come out, I'm going to lose my mind.
@MonstoMommy I'll help with your DH if you'll help with mine. He told me last night that me still being pregnant is just as painful for him as it is for me, since he has to put up with me being cranky.
I went to bed after ranting about my mother, but I wanted everyone to know I appreciate everyone's thoughts as usual! I didn't want to bump the thread for that. I'm trying to get caught up.
And, @MissMandyD, you KNOW it's in my birth plan that my husband is the ONLY one in the room with me, and ANY other visitors at ANY time must be cleared with me. Period.
@knittymeggy, the Jailspitol is Wheeling Hospital. (WV) I've shared enough personal information on this site for anyone to stalk me. I don't care if that happens. Come on over. I mean, people can look up where I'm from on the FB page anyway.
I baked 7 dozen cookies for DH to take to work to thank his co-workers for the surprise shower they threw him. I should have kept some cookies for myself...
I baked 7 dozen cookies for DH to take to work to thank his co-workers for the surprise shower they threw him. I should have kept some cookies for myself...
Reminds me I need to bake some goodies for DH to take to work! I really have the itch to bake as well. I will need to do this Sunday maybe, and I can make another random stop in his office on Monday Good excuse to bake and not have all of the temptation around to eat ALL of the goodies
Am I the only one just chilling on my maternity leave not stressing when this baby will come? I'm due Sunday and just sort of going with the flow. Have a doc appt at noon so we'll see what he says but I'm cool for now I think I'm also the only one not having fluid issues or contractions either! Guess baby is happy inside!
I'm due Tuesday and I have no issues other than a kid who doesn't get the gist of moving down the birth canal..
Doc said she is so comfortable in my ute....at least she is safe there.
Am I the only one just chilling on my maternity leave not stressing when this baby will come? I'm due Sunday and just sort of going with the flow. Have a doc appt at noon so we'll see what he says but I'm cool for now I think I'm also the only one not having fluid issues or contractions either! Guess baby is happy inside!
Nope you are not the only one! I am excited to see this LO, but the baby will come when it comes. Not going to worry about it too much. My due date is Wed. and just happy the baby didn't come too early. I am just trying to go about daily life as normal right now
Our hospital highly suggests having your car seat installation inspected by your local police station. They go to the extent of finding the closest station to you, and providing you with all of their information to make sure you do this... Well this is great and all... Except when you have a police station that you have called 8 times to be exact and are always told somebody will call you back and you never receive a call back....
Also we live in a super low crime rate area... Speeding tickets are about all the excitement you get around here..
I have a pre-birthday date night planned tonight with DH! \:D/ Probably our last before LO comes. I'm so excited! We're going to Bonefish Grill (never been but have always wanted to) for dinner and then seeing Gone Girl, which came out in theaters today. Work is going to drag!
Ummm...so my cousins baby mama just posted this on facebook... She is due in November with her THIRD daughter (the other two are 2 and 4)...they had a third baby shower, too. Classy...
Happy birthday to those celebrating, good luck to those who need it in L&D and with other monitoring, and congrats on the good NST @golfingdarwinfish.
This morning I woke up laying on my belly (no idea how that happened) and when I went to get up, I was in excruciating pain. It's not the baby--I can feel baby moving around down low. This pain was up high right underneath my boobs, like I'd squished all the other organs that got moved up into my lungs. Awful. But on the bright side, today is (hopefully) my last day in the office. I'm hoping to work from home on Monday and Tuesday, and then next Wednesday is the start of my maternity leave! I guess the motivation of impending leave was enough to get my ass in gear and get me to close out case files, finish up lingering work, etc.
I have a pre-birthday date night planned tonight with DH! \:D/ Probably our last before LO comes. I'm so excited! We're going to Bonefish Grill (never been but have always wanted to) for dinner and then seeing Gone Girl, which came out in theaters today. Work is going to drag!
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I really need to start walk/running in the mornings. I feel like it may help my energy and stress through the day.
It is just not a good day. I don't want the baby to come early, I'm actually hoping for a little after my due date to be honest - but I'm sort of tired of all the appointments. And I totally feel for those of you who have multiple in a week. I would go crazy!
My ds had a tongue tie that wasn't severe either, but we had it corrected at 2 weeks old anyways. It took him a little while to learn how to nurse correctly after that, but it made a world of difference and allowed my severely damaged nipples to heal. Also, laid back nursing as someone suggested yesterday was much more tolerable for both of us.
A week does seem like a long time to wait, but I hope it makes as big of a difference for you as it did for us.
Now it's in the garbage.
I sat down to use the potty and felt a huge pressure released, I got up and realized I had my baby in the toilet! I started to panic and run around the whole house.
Moral of the story: don't watch 'I didn't know I was pregnant' before bed.
Crazy Prego Dream #2: I turned into a super ninja after someone shot my DH in our entryway.
Moral of the story: wtf, I have no freaking idea.
I'm sorry you're having a rough time. It can take newborns a while to learn to latch quickly, but she'll be a pro before you know it.
What do you try to help wake her up for feedings? Changing her diaper, leaving her in just a diaper for the feeding, tickling her feet and neck and ears, blowing air gently into her ears and on her ribs (tickles!), and even the corner of a washcloth dipped in cool water and placed against her cheek, can all help sleepy newborns wake up.
Ideally she'll get a good feeding (~20mins or so) every 2-3 hours, and she can nurse on demand in between. Newborns are notoriously sleepy, and it can be such a challenge to keep them awake to make sure they're getting enough! Hang in there, though! The sleepiness usually doesn't last too long.
Most doctors would like babies to be back at their birthweight by 2 weeks old. Lots of skin-to-skin will encourage her to nurse more frequently and will cause hormone release in you that will increase milk production. If the two of you can hang out shirtless together under a blanket for a good part of every day, that will do so much for both of you!
Hugs to all the girls with MIL or mom problems.
FX everything's okay @golfingdarwinfish
I ate some of a pumpkin roll for breakfast with my coffee...it was delicious.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Also, DH just sent me a picture of my favorite slippers that our dogs decided to eat this morning. They never eat shoes...why now! I was going to take those babies to the hospital
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Im going to walk on the treadmill hopefully daily until my LO shows up...
@MonstoMommy I'll help with your DH if you'll help with mine. He told me last night that me still being pregnant is just as painful for him as it is for me, since he has to put up with me being cranky.
My Ovulation Chart Simple Link: My Ovulation Chart
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Doc said she is so comfortable in my ute....at least she is safe there.
Except when you have a police station that you have called 8 times to be exact and are always told somebody will call you back and you never receive a call back....
Also we live in a super low crime rate area... Speeding tickets are about all the excitement you get around here..
@PurpleHippo19 I got stung by a bee on my belly a couple weeks ago. So annoying! ~X(
It's flu season..Ebola looks just like the f'n flu in the beginning!!!!
I'm hoping they're not serious.