On track for big baby.

dreab737

35+5 days and baby is weighing in at 7lbs 2oz. And no dilation. My DH was a 10lb and I am beyond frightened. Sleeping is a thing of the past and moving is painful. Especially when she moves. I'm afraid that with 4 weeks to go I'm going to have a 12 lb baby. I'm afraid of a c section and the Dr hasn't mentioned inducing labor. I know how important a full term baby is but I want this little (big) girl out!

Emerald27

With 4 weeks to go, you're looking more at a 9-10lb baby, most likely.

And remember, it's not the weight of baby that makes for a rougher delivery, but the head circ and shoulder width.

Also:
https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

dreab737

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

dreab737

Emerald27 said:

With 4 weeks to go, you're looking more at a 9-10lb baby, most likely.

And remember, it's not the weight of baby that makes for a rougher delivery, but the head circ and shoulder width.

Also:
https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

Very very informative. Calmed me down a tad, for now. Haha

Emerald27

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Just remind yourself that a 10lb, long and lean baby with a 15" head circumference is going to be easier to deliver than a 6lb short baby with an 18" head circumference.

AND remind yourself that baby's position matters too. If he's positioned ideally, he won't be as difficult to deliver.

AND remind yourself that you were made for this! Trust your body to grow a baby that it is capable of delivering. You're awesome and can totally do it!

dreab737

Emerald27 said:

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Just remind yourself that a 10lb, long and lean baby with a 15" head circumference is going to be easier to deliver than a 6lb short baby with an 18" head circumference.

AND remind yourself that baby's position matters too. If he's positioned ideally, he won't be as difficult to deliver.

AND remind yourself that you were made for this! Trust your body to grow a baby that it is capable of delivering. You're awesome and can totally do it!

Ya know, I never really thought about it like that. I just always figured that the bigger the baby the harder the delivery. Just praying for a safe delivery and a healthy baby. Thanks for the encouragement.

dreab737

Nicb13 said:

FamousEa said:

Nicb13 said:

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Sorry I couldn't give you the type of response you were hoping to get.

I was trying to figure out what kind of answer she wanted

I'm grouchy today, I know it.

We are allowed those days. I didn't really have a question. Just needed a little advice. These last few weeks are tough.

golfingdarwinfish

The ultrasound estimates on my LO at almost 33 weeks were close to 6 pounds already, with all measurements almost 4 weeks ahead, including the head.

I'm a FTM and still rather "chill" despite this; especially since my MFM told me he wasn't at all worried about LO's size, and that he tends to take the measurement estimates rather lightly.

golfingdarwinfish

dreab737 said:

FamousEa said:

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Sorry I couldn't give you the type of response you were hoping to get.

I was trying to figure out what kind of answer she wanted

I'm grouchy today, I know it.

We are allowed those days. I didn't really have a question. Just needed a little advice. These last few weeks are tough.

See, don't worry @nicb13!!  8->

angeltennis3

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Labor is going to happen no matter what. If you stress yourself out about the size of your baby, the pain, etc it is just going to make the experience stressful.

I would focus on ways to relieve pain during labor (figuring out what positions help you feel better now) and talking to your DH about the best way for him to support you and relieve your tension.

Labor is scary regardless of the size of the baby. You will make it through, though, and at the end have a beautiful baby to love on!

Justabean3

I had a sonogram at 36w and baby was 6 pounds 5 oz

I had one at 37w and baby was 6 pounds 12oz

And I had my last one, thank goodness at yesterday at 38w and baby was 6 pounds 14oz

Yep only 2 oz heavier, all same machine same doctor. 1. Past 36 weeks they can slow down or speed up in growth 2. Measurements can be off 3. It all depends on their position and head size in the end

savicke2009

My oldest was 10lb6oz with a 15" head completely unexpected.. Never had a reason to believe he was that big or that he wpuld be that big.. he was born vaginally without any complications (I did tear from coast to coast though).. what im trying to say is that having a big baby isnt the end of the world, stressing about the unknown is completely pointless because theres nothing you can do to change it! try to enjoy the next few weeks and pretty soon you'll have a sweet little smoosh to snuggle!

Jennyc00

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions. If replying to an innocent FTM question irritates you that badly ladies please just don't respond and move on! This is in regards to an increase of nasty replies I've seen lately. Were all ready to be done and hopefully here to be supportive of each other.

golfingdarwinfish

Jennyc00 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions. If replying to an innocent FTM question irritates you that badly ladies please just don't respond and move on! This is in regards to an increase of nasty replies I've seen lately. Were all ready to be done and hopefully here to be supportive of each other.

Oh FFS.

Please don't tell people how to act or how to reply.  If you feel so strongly about this, try participating in the community a bit more and offering support and advice.  

Syllessa

Jennyc00 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions. If replying to an innocent FTM question irritates you that badly ladies please just don't respond and move on! This is in regards to an increase of nasty replies I've seen lately. Were all ready to be done and hopefully here to be supportive of each other.

Jennifer18131

Jennyc00 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions. If replying to an innocent FTM question irritates you that badly ladies please just don't respond and move on! This is in regards to an increase of nasty replies I've seen lately. Were all ready to be done and hopefully here to be supportive of each other.

Hope in one hand, shit in the other. See which one fills up first.

These are not nasty replies. It's reality.

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Emerald27

@Jennyc00 What a weird thread to post that comment on. No one was rude to the OP at all. Blunt? Sure. But not rude at all.

...it's almost like you were searching for a thread on which to air your grievance.

pnwlover12

Jennyc00 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions.

Ok, but what about November? 8->

golfingdarwinfish

pnwlover12 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions.

Ok, but what about November? 8->

Wait, does this board just implode after October?  Is it truly the last month of the board? Did anyone alert the yearbook committee? 

MrsSinner402

Jennyc00 said:

I hope the last month of this board finds everyone keeping their bitchy sides to themselves and remaining "chill" themselves when replying to questions. If replying to an innocent FTM question irritates you that badly ladies please just don't respond and move on! This is in regards to an increase of nasty replies I've seen lately. Were all ready to be done and hopefully here to be supportive of each other.

Oh, STFU.

pnwlover12

beezbeez said:

I just remembered that one thread where the WK thought it stood for "whore knight". That was awesome.

I chuckled when I read this.

golfingdarwinfish

I never understand why people think these posts will go over well. Tell a bunch of women that you've been observing that you disapprove of their behavior and wtf do you expect? A thank you?

dreab737

Wow can we say this went left and fast. I just posted looking for a little advice and encouraging words (which I received and moved on) then it just got nasty for no reason. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but no need to be hateful about it. Encourage each other women for no pregnancy is the same.

Saragoeswest

This is the weirdest.

trisharenee0316

Moral of the story: if you WK, you might save the OP, but your ass will get lit up.

Rickaroo922

Theyestimated my son to be almost 8lb around 37/38wks, he was born at 40w5d at 8lb 2oz. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Jennifer18131

Rickaroo922 said:

Theyestimated my son to be almost 8lb around 37/38wks, he was born at 40w5d at 8lb 2oz. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Stop being so nasty! Be moar supportive!!11!!!!!one

Eastie156

Emerald27 said:

dreab737 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Just remind yourself that a 10lb, long and lean baby with a 15" head circumference is going to be easier to deliver than a 6lb short baby with an 18" head circumference.

AND remind yourself that baby's position matters too. If he's positioned ideally, he won't be as difficult to deliver.

AND remind yourself that you were made for this! Trust your body to grow a baby that it is capable of delivering. You're awesome and can totally do it!

OP-From someone who birthed a 6 lb baby with a gigantic head who was sunny side up, I agree. Oh and my u/s and predictions were that he'd be at least 8 lbs. Remember those predictions can be off either way by up to two lbs.

atraveller

Emerald27 said:

Being my first child it's kind of hard to just remain "chill" The measurements did come from an ultrasound and I have read that they are not always accurate but still got me dwelling what the outcome may be.

Just remind yourself that a 10lb, long and lean baby with a 15" head circumference is going to be easier to deliver than a 6lb short baby with an 18" head circumference. AND remind yourself that baby's position matters too. If he's positioned ideally, he won't be as difficult to deliver. AND remind yourself that you were made for this! Trust your body to grow a baby that it is capable of delivering. You're awesome and can totally do it!

This is really great advice @emerald27. The mid-wife in my dr.'s office said its likely I could have an 8-9 lb baby based on last ultrasound, average growth rate, etc... I take it with a grain of salt, given the potential for inaccuracies - but the way my stomach feels, I think this is a big baby - either way reading your post here offers a lot of food for thought and reassurance, as my due date fast approaches. So I know I'm supposed to comment on OP's original post, but your subsequent post here full of such awesome positive energy is what caught my attention and I had to call it out. ">

applebottomgenes

I'm concerned my eye brow lady thinks I am having a 10lb baby. She knows her shit. I am also concerned that she looks at my crotch after she says 'oh ya she's going to be a big one.' I appreciate the concern for my vagina but it's a little uncomfortable.