My baby has allergies like his mommy so a clear running nose giving him the cough from drainage. Ironically, the babysitter sent me Facebook message asking how he was doing then informed me she got what he has.
G spent the night having night terrors. Would scream for 20 mins after each one. Seemed to have one every hour or so. I-) He is now happily cruising around the hotel room with a breadstick. Thankfully the breakfast area opens in 15. ~O)
After 4 wake ups, DD is sleeping, but DS is up watching Jake in my bed. I have to get my butt in gear. We are leaving in 2 1/2 hours to meet friends for lunch and then go apple picking. I still have to pack the diaper bag, feed the kids breakfast, shower, and get everyone dressed.
V was up a lot last night. I kept trying to get him to back to sleep in his crib but he wouldn't. Slept in our bed at 12:30 ish and was up screaming at 2:45. Why can't this kid sleep. I don't complain about it a lot but holy crap. 14 months of this is so hard.
Good morning! I'm sad to miss the NOVA ladies meetup with a special guest.
But we spent a ton of money at Pottery Barn and I do not like my furniture! Luckily I called and they are returning our couch with a 100% refund (couches are usually special order so they don't return them). They will also take back the table and rug that are too small.
I'm glad we are getting our money back. But I'm frustrated being back at step 1 with furniture. The house is empty!
We put Luke's enteral pump in his Ivy backpack for easier mobility.
He still wants to push the IV pole. He is adamant about it.
So DH hid it. So far he can't find it.
FKA mimi4347: diaper rash magician and unofficial expert on excrement
This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome. 131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
V loves to go off by himself to have a poo. Then he crawls really fast to me and says "Hi! Poo." And points to his diaper. It's funny!
According to my mother, I was a "behind a chair pooper". Every time P climbs behind a chair, that's what she assumes he's doing. It's awkward when she shares that story. X_X
C woke up like 4 times last night, cried for about 30 seconds, then went back to sleep on his own. Weird, but still great, I thought.
This morning when he gets up he had the biggest, nastiest poopy diaper ever. Either his tummy was bothering him, or he was in a gross poopy diaper all night, and that was bothering him.
Let Feli walk to the bathtub by herself last night. Naked.
Bad idea.
Halfway there, in the kitchen, she squatted and took the most photogenic dump I have ever had the misfortune to see.
(I was in the bathroom getting things ready and only saw her squat out of the corner of my eye. "Oh, what did she find on the kitchen floor?" Haha no).
I guess I should be happy she is no longer in the milk poop stage.
DH is on his way to Cleveland to watch the Brown's.
I'm stuck in whinny kid jail and just want a break. Josephine is acting more and more like a threenager and Parker is frustrated he can't do all the things she can.
I am planning an alternate route home because I don't want to deal with a whining toddler when we drive by the street fair complete with bubble machine and bouncy house right before nap. Am I the only one who detours to avoid tantalizing parks and the ensuing tantrums? I feel kind of dumb for doing it but would rather avoid conflict than fight a battle with a three year old.
DH is bring Tess to a farm that has a petting farm and an enchanted forest. They looked so cute going out for their outing... Tess even let me put a little clip in her hair!
I am relaxing, bumping, and checking my fantasy lineups. Then I am meeting some girlfriends for brunch. Yay!
Hugs to all the ladies who need them, and I hope the DMV ladies and the extra special guest have a great meet up!!
K & M married 10.8.2011
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BFP 7.17.2012, EDD 3.21.2013, Miscarriage at 6 wks 3 days
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BFP #2 11.7.2012, beautiful Tess born 7.11.2013
@audrey1787 I was thinking this morning that I even ask if I can go to the bathroom. If we're sitting in the living room I'll say "is it okay if I pee?"
I need to just stop asking. I'm not saying it's DH's fault, because it's not like he told me I need to ask. I just feel like G is my responsibility and I'm getting something special if I get a minute alone to pee. I need to just start doing things - it's not like DH asks if he can go to the gym every day.
BF does morning duty every Sunday. It is something I told him I wanted. He didn't suggest it, but he also didn't protest.
....probably because his morning duty is minus getting Feli at wakeup, changing her, getting her dressed, preparing her breakfast.
So he only has to sit at the table and feed her, then keep her occupied for 2-3 hours. But, to be fair, he would get her, change her, dress her. He just doesn't hear her a quick as I do, so I get up before him. And when I do, I might as well do the rest of prep time.
Another one for a terrible night over here. Silas got my cold which wasn't that bad for me, but he's super snotty and congested so he couldn't sleep and just wanted to nurse, except couldn't nurse because he was too congested. So he would latch, realize he couldn't breathe, cry, rinse and repeat.
Since he barely nursed all night I now have what I think is a clogged duct (my whole boob hurts/feels bruised). Sigh. Hugs and coffee to everyone else with rough nights and sick babies. ~O)
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Also had a bad night's sleep here. LO was up early on from dog bark (which she normally sleeps through). I was just falling asleep that time so it took awhile and just as I was falling asleep again, she let out a wail. She ended up settling herself back to sleep, but I was wide awake. Not realizing how hot it was going to be yesterday, we hadn't turned air back on and our room was so stuffy and hot. Finally fell asleep around 3. DS came in asking for an escort to the potty at 450, DH got up at 5, DD climbed in bed on my feet sometime after. I also had to let dogs out multiple times. I am not as exhausted as I would expect - so I may be in trouble in an hour or so. Everyone slept an hour later than normal so I'll take that as a win. And LO slept better in the early morning hours so that's a win. Now if I could sleep when they are all sleeping.
@Audrey1787@maryannespier totally feel you guys on being the default person for all things baby. I feel like I shouldn't have to ask to take a shower or to watch him and keep him from dangling off me while I cook us a meal, yet I always have to. It gets old.
@lizabethann06 your Jack story reminded me of when we were at my uncles funeral and the priest (hypothetically) asked if anyone wanted to confess. My nephew loudly yelled back, "No, I don't!" Reallyy hard not to laugh at that one.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Uuuuggghhh rough weekend. I too am bummed about missing the meetup this morning! Yesterday I discovered a huge sewage leak/flood/explosion in our carpeted basement. Gross. No one is willing to come fix it til tomorrow so we stayed at my parents house last night. DD decided waking up every hour from 2-6:30 am was the plan so I feel terrible today.
Dear DH, If I tell you I NEED a nap because I am close to non-function and need all of the sleep I can get because you are making me go to your family's bridal shower where your mother will remind me how I didn't have one of those and we "never really got married" -- then don't chase DS up the stairs so he bursts into the bedroom screaming about how you're a "mean vampire" and wakes me up out of a deep sleep. And if you do make those asinine decisions then be prepared for my venomous rage and me to not have enough patience so that I can make it through golf clapping while your cousin opens Tupperware without tellig your mother to F off.
Well I guess I won brown and pink snow pants on eBay. They were cheap and I couldn't see any pink in the pictures and the description just said pink lining so we shall see. If not, oh well, not like he's gonna care.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@Audrey1787@maryannespier totally feel you guys on being the default person for all things baby. I feel like I shouldn't have to ask to take a shower or to watch him and keep him from dangling off me while I cook us a meal, yet I always have to. It gets old.
@lizabethann06 your Jack story reminded me of when we were at my uncles funeral and the priest (hypothetically) asked if anyone wanted to confess. My nephew loudly yelled back, "No, I don't!" Reallyy hard not to laugh at that one.
Same here. It's like torture trying to do something by myself like pee, do laundry, shower or cook dinner. He says sometimes that he rather not have dinner so that he doesn't have to deal with her. Luckily I have my daughters that help out a ton so that I can shower, do a load of laundry and cook. He thinks because he works that when he isn't working he should be relaxing or at the gym. It is really annoying.
@juliedave151 - this line breaks my heart for her and you. =(( >:D<
@Rmnam1 that's it exactly. I feel guilty asking for time, and he has no problem just taking it. It's absolutely partly on me for not asking, but sometimes it's just a duh moment. Like when I'm trying to make dinner with Giles hanging off my leg - do I really need to ask you to put down your phone and help? I guess I do, but JFC.
Part of it is also Giles's separation anxiety - if DH takes him into the other room while I'm in the kitchen he stands at the gate and screams, and what am I supposed to do? Not let him in? Maybe we've both just given up.
I've felt that way too. Saying something to DH absolutely helped. A lot of times he thinks he is helping, but his priority list is different than mine.
I'm roasting a chicken with stuffing today. It's pretend early thanksgiving. I just can't wait three weeks.
Me too!! Lol, must be something in the island air today!
Hugs to everyone having rough nights.....Allison finally had her first good night in weeks!! Unfortunately our asshole neighbours were outside partying all night.... Go in your house FFS!!!!
Dh has gone out to work at his shop today, ds is still at a sleepover and dd is currently practicing zombie makeup on me for Halloween!! Lo is just walking around trying to get into everything....I love Sundays when we don't have to leave the house!!
Re: Sunday brunch featuring SPAM
~O)
Awkward :-S
@robynloureed yummy brunch sounds so good!
@Stacey099 sorry for G's rough night
@jennipalmer boo to your sniffly baby!
Getting ready to teach music at Sunday School this morning then lunch out abd then more catching up at home. I love slow weekends!
If you guessed Kiki and Mr. Kiki, respectively, you're correct.
Why can't this kid sleep. I don't complain about it a lot but holy crap. 14 months of this is so hard.
There is an Inn just down the road from us. I am thinking of convincing my mom that we need to head there for brunch. Mmm brunch.
Fab Life of K
First smiley is wrong but I'm leaving it
But we spent a ton of money at Pottery Barn and I do not like my furniture! Luckily I called and they are returning our couch with a 100% refund (couches are usually special order so they don't return them). They will also take back the table and rug that are too small.
I'm glad we are getting our money back. But I'm frustrated being back at step 1 with furniture. The house is empty!
He still wants to push the IV pole. He is adamant about it.
So DH hid it. So far he can't find it.
DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
This morning when he gets up he had the biggest, nastiest poopy diaper ever.
Either his tummy was bothering him, or he was in a gross poopy diaper all night, and that was bothering him.
I'm stuck in whinny kid jail and just want a break. Josephine is acting more and more like a threenager and Parker is frustrated he can't do all the things she can.
I feel kind of dumb for doing it but would rather avoid conflict than fight a battle with a three year old.
We are going to Havertys today. I think we will get our table at Crate and Barrel. They have an entry level, plain table that should work.
Since he barely nursed all night I now have what I think is a clogged duct (my whole boob hurts/feels bruised). Sigh. Hugs and coffee to everyone else with rough nights and sick babies. ~O)
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Hope the day gets better for all!
@lizabethann06 your Jack story reminded me of when we were at my uncles funeral and the priest (hypothetically) asked if anyone wanted to confess. My nephew loudly yelled back, "No, I don't!" Reallyy hard not to laugh at that one.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday!
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
https://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2013/01/perfect-potato-soup/ I'm following this one this time
Monster Truck (It's a GIRL!) is due 19/02/2015!
Same here. It's like torture trying to do something by myself like pee, do laundry, shower or cook dinner. He says sometimes that he rather not have dinner so that he doesn't have to deal with her. Luckily I have my daughters that help out a ton so that I can shower, do a load of laundry and cook. He thinks because he works that when he isn't working he should be relaxing or at the gym. It is really annoying.
@juliedave151 - this line breaks my heart for her and you. =((
>:D<
Hugs to everyone having rough nights.....Allison finally had her first good night in weeks!! Unfortunately our asshole neighbours were outside partying all night.... Go in your house FFS!!!!
Dh has gone out to work at his shop today, ds is still at a sleepover and dd is currently practicing zombie makeup on me for Halloween!! Lo is just walking around trying to get into everything....I love Sundays when we don't have to leave the house!!
Karen - 36 DH - 39