TTC After a Loss

==Weekend Crazy Train==

Just a heads-up, ladies, this will be a bit of a P&R today. I'm headed to my cousin's wedding in a little while and won't be back until late. Hopefully the other conductors (and other knowledgeable ladies!) can chime in today, and I'll be around tomorrow.

This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles. If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, or you just want to pee on all things, let it out here!

In order for the conductors to be better able to help you, please make sure you either have a FF chart link in your sig, or make sure you post a link. Don't chart? You should consider it, not only will it give you a lot more insight to your cycles, but conductors will be able to answer a lot of your questions just by looking at your chart! To learn more about charting, check out the charting course that FF offers:https://www.fertilityfriend.com/courses/

The CT is not the place to post a BFP. If you have a "squinter" or if you have a line that appeared after the time frame, please do not post about it here. Take a step back from the board, test again with FMU, and good luck!

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Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO:

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here:


 

TTC since July 2012 
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

RE consult: June 2014

DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

Blogging to stay sane

Re: ==Weekend Crazy Train==

  • @medic7979‌ so sorry love!!!

    @Pickles4Prez‌ big hugs!
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • Crazy level from 1-10: 4

    CD/DPO: 15/2 or 5

    Can I just ______ already?!: get date

    Signs/Symptoms: none

    Explain your Crazy here: FF keeps changing my O date.  I was wondering if you ladies would know by looking at my chart.  One time it will say CD 15 and then it will change to CD 12.  I have put in dummy temps and it changes.  Then I added me CM for today and it changed again.  Thoughts?

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

  • Crazy level from 1-10: 4

    CD/DPO: 15/2 or 5

    Can I just ______ already?!: get date

    Signs/Symptoms: none

    Explain your Crazy here: FF keeps changing my O date.  I was wondering if you ladies would know by looking at my chart.  One time it will say CD 15 and then it will change to CD 12.  I have put in dummy temps and it changes.  Then I added me CM for today and it changed again.  Thoughts?

    I'm leaning towards cd15 as O. Based on fertile cm and negative opks leading up to cd12. My guess is FF will move it after another temp or two.

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

  • ((Hugs)) to all the ladies riding the train today
    @medic7979 @greeneyes842 @JJbmstinco FX for all of you!!!

    AFM just waving hello 
    :-h
    I will the punching my ticket next week I'm sure

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    Married 8-10-13
    TTC since February 2014
    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
    10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbo

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  • Can I punch a ticket regarding AF?

    I've been spotting since Thursday the 11th. I still took my progesterone that night, and then ended up stopping the next night. I counted yesterday as CD1 because the bleeding was heavy enough to wear a tampon (so I thought) then, when I took it out there was barely anything on it. Then, last night I was having AWFUL cramps. They felt like the cramps I was having during my m/c. I've never had them during af. 

    Now, I'm bleeding brown blood? I don't have any idea whats going on with my body, and I'm getting frustrated. I am going to go tomorrow for a baseline U/S considering it would be cd3, and I need it for my medicated cycle. 

    I'm worried that I may have a cyst (my OB said there was a chance due to how many follies I had). I am just frustrated that I can't even have a normal freakin AF. I have to guess what cycle day I am. 

    What could the brown blood be from? It's supposed to be old blood, right? I don't know what I would have old blood from. Confused!  :-w I'm also starting femara instead of clomid this cycle, as long as no cysts are present. It's never easy, is it?
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • @rslh10, I'm sorry your cycle is being so confusing. You're right that brown blood is usually old blood.

    I guess the good news is that you'll be going in for an u/s tomorrow, and hopefully it'll give you some answers. Also, I'd definitely push for more post-O monitoring next cycle rather than just guessing at your O date based on a +OPK because I'm wondering if taking the progesterone prior to ovulation caused the wonky cycle.

    I'm sorry you're still dealing with this mess. FX for a clearer picture tomorrow.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • @bethkate2 what's your opinion on monitoring post-O if I have a trigger shot? My ob says it's a "guarantee" that O with happen within 40 hrs of the shot. But I agree with you that this last cycle I think not triggering made me O late. I'm going to temp again through this whole cycle and hopefully I will be able to better understand my cycle. Even if I trigger, I still want to have the chart to look at. Medicated cycles are crazy!
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • @rslh10, I think if you trigger, you'll be able to be more sure of when you ovulated, but I don't have personal experience with triggering (yet).



     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • @medic7979‌ oh love I'm so sorry!!!!
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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    • Everyone Welcom
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge • Animal Snow Interactions
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  • I have some questions for ladies who have more skills with reading charts then I do. 1. How does FF figure out coverline?
    2. Has anyone ever seen post O temps that are barely moving like mine are this time? I have NEVER had this happen before.....
    Thanks!!!
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • @Elliecat17, about cover lines: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/Coverline-calculation-method.html

    I have seen post-O temps that look like that before. As long as your temps are still above your pre-O temps, I wouldn't worry.




     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • BETH! I'm losing my mind. Can you chart stalk me please?

    So I put in some dummy temps and get CHs for CD17. If I remove the OPKs I don't get CHs at all. I'm so confused. Does CD17 look like a possibility to you? If so, to improve our timing I think we need to BD tonight. Thoughts?
  • @PinkCamino, I think CD 17 is a good possibility. If your temp is up tomorrow and Tuesday, I'm sure you'll get CHs for that day. If you did O two days ago, sex today probably won't matter, but if you're up for it, it can't hurt! :)


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • natalie115natalie115 member
    edited September 2014
    I'm pretty late on this, but wanted to hop on board :)

    Crazy level from 1-10: 10 < br>
    CD/DPO: CD 41/possibly 10 DPO

    Can I just ______ already?!: have some clue as to what's going on???

    Signs/Symptoms: super sleepy, but I don't think that's necessarily related to anything

    Explain your Crazy here: I'm so confused as to what my body is doing. By CD 24 I no signs of O and I was sure that this was going to be an annovulatory cycle and perhaps my body tried to o through my blocked tube so I stopped temping consistently and waited for AF. So now at CD 41 still no AF and the last couple times I've taken my temps they have been high (they would be above my cover line if I had been temping consistently). So did I O, just really late? I have no clue and since I didn't chart well...so mad at myself for that, but at the same time seeing the same temps over and over w/ no sign of O was depressing the crap out of me. This waiting game blows

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


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