Who's having a boy?

fionabravo

And what are you naming him?
When are you due? And let's see some bump pictures. (:

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Kirinn

I'm having a boy, due December 13th!!

Prinycesa07

I had a boy. 3 yrs ago. I named him
Owen. Can i still play?

jeanessaaa

You females are ruthless and cruel. Constantly tearing one another down with your rude comments instead of choosing not to participate in the thread..

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AnonnAni

:-SS

JunkieBrewster

This post made me feel dirty.

ebilbao

OMFG with the NEWBS! Is the seventh month where everyone piles into the BMB like a fucking clown car?

mrsrroberson

OMG omg OMG!!! Why are we soooo mean? Over it!

CandEChicago

fionabravo said:

And what are you naming him? When are you due? And let's see some bump pictures. (:

Another newbie!  Welcome and congrats. 

CandEChicago

jeanessaaa said:

You females are ruthless and cruel. Constantly tearing one another down with your rude comments instead of choosing not to participate in the thread..

Bless your heart.  Can you please pray for my LO since it will have a ruthless mommy? 

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AnonnAni

But guiseeeeee we have to shower her in rainbows and puppies remember!!! Oh and don't forget all the glitter..

CandEChicago

Kirinn said:

I'm having a boy, due December 13th!!

Another newbie!  Two within one thread.    

Congrats and welcome!

nopegoat

You first?

ebilbao

Also OP-welcome and congrats. White Knight-get lost. We've had enough of that kind of crap this week. I am White Kight-ed out.

CandEChicago

Hodor is a good strong boys name.  

PacoCat33

Here we go again...

courtd2

leoandethansmom

I'll show you mine if you show me yours? Careful, I'm a poop smearer and patchy and skins are around somewhere too. We don't take kindly to the White Knights, you can't sit with us.

OP welcome and congratulations, join us on HDBD!

ColeyCannoli

This is getting nuts... read some other posts first. There's even a blog with all this info on it: https://december2014babies.blogspot.com/

It's nothing personal, OP, but you are just the 50th newbie asking for info that's been repeated every week for months.

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Kirinn

jeanessaaa said:

You females are ruthless and cruel. Constantly tearing one another down with your rude comments instead of choosing not to participate in the thread..

She's right!!

CandEChicago

Kirinn said:

jeanessaaa said:

You females are ruthless and cruel. Constantly tearing one another down with your rude comments instead of choosing not to participate in the thread..

She's right!!

As far as I can tell you are trying to tear me down. Once again there is an ignore button or if you don't like the board no one is requiring you to stay.

Eora3

I love Fridays! Lol

smack427

It has gotten extremely clique-ish here lately. I have been around since the beginning but I'm starting to wonder if I even want to post anymore. I feel like I'm going to get the "you can't sit with us" look.

Kirinn

Eora3 said:

I love Fridays! Lol

Lol obviously this happens often. Smh

Kirinn

smack427 said:

It has gotten extremely clique-ish here lately. I have been around since the beginning but I'm starting to wonder if I even want to post anymore. I feel like I'm going to get the "you can't sit with us" look.

Weird, like we are in elementary school. I'm new but I thought it would be more supportive here as well.

CandEChicago

QFP

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

I love Fridays! Lol

Lol obviously this happens often. Smh

Kirinn said:

smack427 said:

It has gotten extremely clique-ish here lately. I have been around since the beginning but I'm starting to wonder if I even want to post anymore. I feel like I'm going to get the "you can't sit with us" look.

Weird, like we are in elementary school. I'm new but I thought it would be more supportive here as well.

smack427

CandEChicago said:

QFP

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

I love Fridays! Lol

Lol obviously this happens often. Smh

Kirinn said:

smack427 said:

It has gotten extremely clique-ish here lately. I have been around since the beginning but I'm starting to wonder if I even want to post anymore. I feel like I'm going to get the "you can't sit with us" look.

Weird, like we are in elementary school. I'm new but I thought it would be more supportive here as well.

You don't have to be rude every time someone comments. Just saying.

Eora3

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Kirinn

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

feeshah

What the Actual Fuck???

BayCamp

ebilbao said:

OMFG with the NEWBS! Is the seventh month where everyone piles into the BMB like a fucking clown car?

Am I the only one that gets a mental image of Michelle Duggar when someone says the words "clown car"??

Eora3

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

Because you are new: We are not a support board. We do not shower people with rainbows and kittens. That is not what this community does. We offer advice and opinions. You don't get to dictate what that looks like.

It is genuinely disrespectful to walk into a community online or in real life and start demanding support and camaraderie without getting to know anyone or even introducing yourself. Most of the ladies on here have been around for months. It is respectful to lurk and read some posts so you get a sense of the community.

Kirinn

Eora3 said:

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

Because you are new: We are not a support board. We do not shower people with rainbows and kittens. That is not what this community does. We offer advice and opinions. You don't get to dictate what that looks like.

It is genuinely disrespectful to walk into a community online or in real life and start demanding support and camaraderie without getting to know anyone or even introducing yourself. Most of the ladies on here have been around for months. It is respectful to lurk and read some posts so you get a sense of the community.

Who made you captain?

ColeyCannoli

Kirinn said:

@Kirinn‌ Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

This isn't a support group or a personal blog. It's an open forum created by The Bump to help sell adspace. We make it whatever we want. 

I have gotten a lot of support and help from these awesome ladies over the last few months. It takes some getting used to and it helps to read and comment on other posts and show support before demanding it for yourself. That said, if you have someone who is harassing you or making it too hard to enjoy, there's an ignore button. Spend some time on here and you'll see how nice everyone actually is. This Friday has been nuts though.

Eora3

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

Because you are new: We are not a support board. We do not shower people with rainbows and kittens. That is not what this community does. We offer advice and opinions. You don't get to dictate what that looks like.

It is genuinely disrespectful to walk into a community online or in real life and start demanding support and camaraderie without getting to know anyone or even introducing yourself. Most of the ladies on here have been around for months. It is respectful to lurk and read some posts so you get a sense of the community.

Who made you captain?

Not captain, just a member of the actual community.

Kirinn

ColeyCannoli said:

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

This isn't a support group or a personal blog. It's an open forum created by The Bump to help sell adspace. We make it whatever we want. 

I have gotten a lot of support and help from these awesome ladies over the last few months. It takes some getting used to and it helps to read and comment on other posts and show support before demanding it for yourself. That said, if you have someone who is harassing you or making it too hard to enjoy, there's an ignore button. Spend some time on here and you'll see how nice everyone actually is. This Friday has been nuts though.

I've spent enough time on here to last a life time. I never demanded support... It's what we all should be giving one another naturally. I've been apart of boards and blogs that didn't feel like this ... So I'll pass. I wish you a happy and heathy pregnancy and Good luck next Friday I guess smh. Have a good night.

leoandethansmom

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

Kirinn said:

Eora3 said:

@Kirinn‌
Pretty much every Friday, we get a stampede of hypersensitive "new" members (and trolls) who post something without bothering to lurk or familiarize themselves with the community. They then get extremely butt hurt about the responses they get, call us all names, and try to tell us how we are supposed to be a "support" board or some such crap.

Some crap lol? Well maybe you should listen.

Because you are new: We are not a support board. We do not shower people with rainbows and kittens. That is not what this community does. We offer advice and opinions. You don't get to dictate what that looks like.

It is genuinely disrespectful to walk into a community online or in real life and start demanding support and camaraderie without getting to know anyone or even introducing yourself. Most of the ladies on here have been around for months. It is respectful to lurk and read some posts so you get a sense of the community.

Who made you captain?

Again, if you had lurked and gotten to know this board you would have seen that we all stick up for each other if we need to. Most of us have been here for 6ish months and really gotten to know each other, it's really annoying when like 8 newbies show up in one day and are all butt hurt when we aren't just like omg I love that name, you are so smart for asking Internet strangers for medical advice instead of calling your ob and no you're not fat I'm sorry your doctor is worried about your excessive weight gain. Had you just lurked for a couple of days you would have figured that out on your own. Buh bye, friend.