Who's having a boy?

CandEChicago

brennabenay said:

Well I'm sorry that my having children started before a download on this APP. The whole "oh I've been on this for 6months and omg these noobs are so irritating blah blah blah" is utterly ridiculous. This is a vey much clique ish group and I can only wonder how many of you are just typically jerks in real life and enjoy spreading it around here. I thought I'd step in and call you all out on it considering you're probably the same women who watch documentaries about girls tearing each other down in school and say how revolting it is and then turn around and act like this to strangers online asking a simple question. It's also extremely hypocritical to be "creeped out" about people asking a personal question on a message board where people discuss personal info. I hope you all are better people than how you act on here.

QFP

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Eora3

brennabenay said:

Well I'm sorry that my having children started before a download on this APP. The whole "oh I've been on this for 6months and omg these noobs are so irritating blah blah blah" is utterly ridiculous. This is a vey much clique ish group and I can only wonder how many of you are just typically jerks in real life and enjoy spreading it around here. I thought I'd step in and call you all out on it considering you're probably the same women who watch documentaries about girls tearing each other down in school and say how revolting it is and then turn around and act like this to strangers online asking a simple question. It's also extremely hypocritical to be "creeped out" about people asking a personal question on a message board where people discuss personal info. I hope you all are better people than how you act on here.

Will you pray for our children and husbands too?

FFS you don't have to stick around if you don't like the way this board works. Whining and calling us jerks isn't going to change a thing. It isn't hypocritical to be creeped out by a random stranger asking for personal info.

As you noticed, most of us have been on here for the last six months and know each other. That isn't "clique ish". We have gotten comfortable with each other and formed relationships. We have supported each other through losses, hospital visits, cheating husbands, and Internet trolls. You just don't have that history with us.

When you show up late in the game, you aren't going to automatically be welcomed with open arms if you don't even take the time to familiarize yourself with how things work or read a few posts.

CandEChicago

If you are that concerned about the type of people we are will you be praying for us?

mrsrroberson

I just woke up from a nap and noticed that so did this thread.

Eta: my fingers pressed "post" before my brain!

ColeyCannoli

brennabenay said:

Well I'm sorry that my having children started before a download on this APP. The whole "oh I've been on this for 6months and omg these noobs are so irritating blah blah blah" is utterly ridiculous. This is a vey much clique ish group and I can only wonder how many of you are just typically jerks in real life and enjoy spreading it around here. I thought I'd step in and call you all out on it considering you're probably the same women who watch documentaries about girls tearing each other down in school and say how revolting it is and then turn around and act like this to strangers online asking a simple question. It's also extremely hypocritical to be "creeped out" about people asking a personal question on a message board where people discuss personal info. I hope you all are better people than how you act on here.

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CandEChicago

dapple88 said:

Was that my QFP or the original QFP or both?

Both?

JRod13

Good lord. Get the fuck over yourself. It's not a personal attack. Take a week to get to know some folks and how shit works before you launch into some right fighting crap.

leoandethansmom

Call it a clique or support group, call it whatever you want. I'm going to call it d14, the place I go to talk with other women going through a similar experience as me. If you posted you were going through something horrific, it wouldn't be a whole lot of skin off my back. Yes, I'd sympathize, but I don't know you from the next random poster so I probably won't lose sleep. However, if one of the women who have spent the time and effort to get to know me and divulged a lot of personal info and struggle about themselves as well, you can bet your sweet ass I'll he thinking about them and hoping everything is ok. Shit, I'd even give my skin to some of these bishes. Why? Because I'm genuinely a good person and I happen to care about others that have made an impact on my life. Does that make me part of a clique? If it does, I'm damn proud to be in that clique then.

irish2014

alissendis said:

Speaking as someone who doesn't post on here as regularly as the "regulars" and really doesn't have any close personal connections on here, I still feel safe to post, ask and answer questions, etc. . . . Even though I'm sure there are people on this board who see my name and roll their eyes, no one has been mean, vicious, or nasty to me.

This. Me too. The whole thing but that would have been a long quote box.

I am having sea salt caramels in T minus 10 seconds. Because earlier I made the mistake of leaving the container on my coffee table.

EDIT: I'M IN A GLASS QUOTE BOX OF EMOTION

Shortstack06

brennabenay said:

Well I'm sorry that my having children started before a download on this APP. The whole "oh I've been on this for 6months and omg these noobs are so irritating blah blah blah" is utterly ridiculous. This is a vey much clique ish group and I can only wonder how many of you are just typically jerks in real life and enjoy spreading it around here. I thought I'd step in and call you all out on it considering you're probably the same women who watch documentaries about girls tearing each other down in school and say how revolting it is and then turn around and act like this to strangers online asking a simple question. It's also extremely hypocritical to be "creeped out" about people asking a personal question on a message board where people discuss personal info. I hope you all are better people than how you act on here.

In real life if a stranger walked up to me asked me "What are you having? When are you due? What hospital are you delivering at?" I would instantly think baby snatcher and walk away. Strangers walking up and rubbing your stomach just because you are pregnant is also creepy. How is being a stranger on the internet any different? If someone is new, how do you knowing they are actually pregnant and trying to relate or just get more of your personal information? You don't. So why should women that have given their scenarios and their advice repeatedly give the information to strangers because they refuse to search. If a stranger(a pregnant woman searching for advice) wants it bad enough, they can search and read previous posts where all the information is then if you can't find it make a post. So who is actually rude? You for thinking that an internet stranger asking personal information is due to them, or D14 for not wasting time typing out the same information every other day? Edit:iPad autocorrect is dumb.

amedbery

Well, we survived the Sandy Hook deniers and the infamous "Bathtub-gate." We just need to batten down the hatches until the entitled-newbie invasion subsides.

hellopartyof5

All the butt hurt newbies should start one of those private groups on TB. That way if you don't like the way we have handled our board, you can go to your own. One where it can be puppies, rainbows, and support flying out of your vaginas.

Eta: words!

CandEChicago

amedbery said:

Well, we survived the Sandy Hook deniers and the infamous "Bathtub-gate." We just need to batten down the hatches until the entitled-newbie invasion subsides.

@amedbery - So we don't reply to the newbies?  

ColeyCannoli

brennabenay you know, other trolls at least try to hide their tracks by posting elsewhere in comments or discussions on The Bump. They at least feign an interest in being part of the community that they are starting drama in. We can see your post history and it's clear you just want to start shit and keep reviving an old thread for attention. You've provided zero personal information about yourself even though you've been demanding we be okay with giving out our own. Cut it out. It's boring.

amedbery

@CandEChicago‌ - of course, for our own clique-y, septic-cunty amusement. How else will they know which of our husbands and children (born and unborn) to pray for!? Now you go wallow in your hormones and abuse your husband while I make mine a sandwich and try to convince him to change our baby's name to Brogan Quaydiinse.

smack427

I'm not sure what I enjoy reading more.. The drama from butthurt people or the boards about fisting to prep for labor.

MaineMama

You're all bishes