Aww @052806 , creepy internet stranger hugs! I've only got DD and the dog, and I still feel like I've been in survival mode for about a month. Hope your day is better tomorrow!
Also... I had a UO and was super excited to post and now I can't remember. Baby is eating my brain cells!
I'm not a fan of sex reveal parties, but I have zero problems with cutesy sex reveal ideas. When expectant parents order sex reveal cupcakes, ask a friend to fill a box with blue or pink balloons, let their older kids spray covered cans of silly string, etc., it makes me smile! As long as involved parties are being paid (like a bakery) or are your excited-to-help friends/family, and there's no gift-grabbing, it's all fine to me. Even FB posts revealing gender make me happy. I don't think it's AW-ing or akin to putting your kids' genitals on display. (Though I don't want to see your fetus's penis - words will do.) I think it's being excited about having a son or daughter & sharing that excitement with others. Meh.
FWIW I started this like 10 hr ago, but was stuck at work all day with a ranting drug addict & couldn't get back on TB. I have no patience for lying, manipulating, screaming.... I could never be an addiction counselor. Those people have hearts of gold.
1. I think sushi is disgusting. 2. Dancing With the Stars is quite possibly the most overrated and boring show I've ever seen. 3. I hate Instagram. It's full of people trying way too hard to look interesting.
Aww @052806 , creepy internet stranger hugs! I've only got DD and the dog, and I still feel like I've been in survival mode for about a month. Hope your day is better tomorrow!
Also... I had a UO and was super excited to post and now I can't remember. Baby is eating my brain cells!
HAha thank you. They both got up super early today but at least it's Friday
1. I think sushi is disgusting.
2. Dancing With the Stars is quite possibly the most overrated and boring show I've ever seen.
3. I hate Instagram. It's full of people trying way too hard to look interesting.
Now for my own UOs-
1. I will side eye the hell out of you if your balance your infant seat on top of a shopping cart. This is up there on my list for me with ff too early of course.
2. I don't understand what is so amazing about hummus.
3. I watch 19 kids and counting. #sorrynotsorry
This is why I need this board. I had no idea this was a no-no, probably because I see it everywhere. Does the weight make it easier to tip over?
@MauiBliss ITA with your views on video games. I'm not a huge gamer but H is. He would never ignore me or our child for the sake of gaming. I was pissed when his dad made a comment like "just think what kind of skills you would have developed by now if you put your time towards a black belt instead of those games." Seriously? You're going to criticize how someone spends free time [man who watches/has watched every movie in creation]?
My UO: I don't like cake. 95% of the time I only eat cake/cupcakes for the frosting and filling.
ETA: Words
March '15 October Siggy Challenge: Halloween Costume Fail
I hate it when people say "Flame away" after they think they have said something unpopular or inflammatory. For some reason, I find it a repellant thing to say.
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
Me: 42, Hubby: 35, TTC since Jan 2010. Dx: DOR due to advanced maternal age.
Also: Hypothyroidism (100mcg Levothyroxin). Positive for MTHFR (hetero-C677T), Factor V Leiden, and Fragile X (on DH side). Taking pre-natal vitamins. First natural PG 9/27/11; mc: 1/20/12 First RE visit: 8/8/12, Saline Sonogram: 8/28/12, IVF injection class: 10/11/12, add FaBB Tab for FVL, +Vitamin D. IVF #1:
10/17/12 Baseline: FSH- 9.4, E2- 24, LH- 3.7, Prog- 0.3 The u/s
showed 6 follicles in my right & 9 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle &
150 Menopur SQ nightly. 10/21/12: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning.
ER 10/28/12: 13 Retreived. 7 Mature. 6 Fertilized. 5 Made it to PGS. ET
11/2/12: CANCELED. All 5 came back from PGS as having "severe
abnormalities." IVF #2:
1/7/13 Baseline: FSH- 8.8, 4 follicles in my right & 6 in my left.
Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 1/11/13: Add Ganirelix SQ every
morning. hCG Trigger 1/16/13
ER 1/18/13: 9 Retrieved. 5 Mature. 5 Fertilized. 2 Made it to PGS. ET 1/23/13:
CANCELED. All embryos (he even sent the ones not growing) came back from PGS as
having "multiple severe abnormalities." IVF #3: NEW RE! 3/1/13 Baseline: FSH- 9.6, E2- 61, Prog- 0.94, 3
follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle& 150
Menopur SQ in PM. 3/7/13: Add Ganirelix SQ in AM. hCG Trigger 3/9/13 SQ. ER 3/11/13: 6R, 2M, 2F. Day 3: one 8 cell, grade 0. Five day ET 3/16/13: one
early blast, grade Fair. 3/24/13 AF came a day before beta. BFN IVF #4:(Added acupuncture to this cycle.) 3/25/13 WTF & Baseline:
FSH-11.8, E2- 56, Prog- 0.84 3/26/13 Start stims. 3/30/13 u/s: 5
follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 225 Bravelle& 225
Menopur SQ in PM. 3/31/13 Add Ganirelix SQ in AM.hCG Trigger 4/3/13 SQ. ER 4/5/13: 5R, 3M, 3F naturally. Day 3: two 8 cell, grade 0, one 8 cell, grade 2
(Scale 0-best to 3-worst). Five day ET 4/10/13: two blastocysts (the 3rd
stopped growing.) Beta 4/18/13: 2.5 BFFN. RE recommends we stop trying and
focus on living childless, due to the extremely poor quality of my
eggs. ***Decided
to stop trying and live CFNBC. I couldn't adjust. So, six months later... IVF #5: Changed RE. Going to one of the big name clinics now.
OWDU: 10/29/13. Update: HORRIBLE experience. Disgusted and distraught at their complete unprofessionalism and how much money and precious time they cost us. Sickening. Have now changed RE again. New Patient appt. 1/30/14. BFP! Out of nowhere, I got KU the old fashioned way! POAS 1/26/14 - Positive! FDLM 12/30/13. Beta #1 16dpo= 373. Beta #2 18dpo= 801. EDD 10/6/14 2/4/14 1st U/S revealed a 5wk2day sac but no fetal pole. Started 200mgs of progesterone suppositories daily 2/11/14 2nd U/S revealed a perfect 6wk1day "diamond ring" embryo with a beating heart! 138bpm! Add 1mg folic acid and 40mg Lovenox 2/25/14 3rd U/S: perfect 8w1d embryo, 178bpm. 3/6 start spotting. 3/11 10w1d U/S shows no heartbeat. Scheduling D&C. The Stork has forsaken me again. IVF #5.2: New in-state RE. Supplement priming for 1.5 cycles prior to start of cycle, including DHEA 50mg (stopped 5/15), CoQ10 200mg 2x/day, L-Arginine- 1000mg 2x/day (stopped 6/5 due to cold sore!), myo-inositol- 2g 2x/day, melatonin- 3mg, and Neevo (prenatal for MTHFR). 5/16/14 Day 2 bw cycle prior: FSH- 12.22, E2- 38.37, Prog- 1.35, LH- 9.46. 6/2/14 Day 19 bw: Prog- 23 6/12/14 Baseline: E2- 122.7, Prog- 0.4. 5 follicles in left, 4 follicles in right. Start stims: 375IU Follistim & 150IU Menopur. 6/19 Increase Follistim to 425IU, Menopur still 150IU. 6/18 add Ganirelix. 6/23 Ovidrel trigger SQ. 6/25 ER: 8R, 8M, 5F naturally. Start Medrol & Doxy. 6/26 Start Endometrin. 7/2 Start Lovenox. 7/8/14 Beta= 137.4 BFP!!! (My first from IVF!) E2- 1109, Prog- >60. Stop CoQ10, myo-inositol, and melatonin. 7/9 2nd Beta= 281.4. TSH- 2.70. Increasing Synthroid to 100mcg daily. 7/24 6w3d u/s measured 6w3d, hb: 121bmp! 8/5 8w1d u/s measured 8w3d, hb: 164bpm! Graduated from RE to OB. Now I just need to find an OB! EDD 3/18/15!
I understand it may be more of a "pet peeve" like spelling and grammer. I also understand it must be frustrating to see it 485945 times a day if it irks you.
maybe I missed the memo, but I haven't seen anyone use gender or sex in a derogatory manner.
I have a close friend who is trans-gender and even he/she doesn't seem to mind when someone just doesn't understand the difference.
Now for my own UOs-
1. I will side eye the hell out of you if your balance your infant seat on top of a shopping cart. This is up there on my list for me with ff too early of course.
2. I don't understand what is so amazing about hummus.
3. I watch 19 kids and counting. #sorrynotsorry
This is why I need this board. I had no idea this was a no-no, probably because I see it everywhere. Does the weight make it easier to tip over?
@MauiBliss ITA with your views on video games. I'm not a huge gamer but H is. He would never ignore me or our child for the sake of gaming. I was pissed when his dad made a comment like "just think what kind of skills you would have developed by now if you put your time towards a black belt instead of those games." Seriously? You're going to criticize how someone spends free time [man who watches/has watched every movie in creation]?
My UO: I don't like cake. 95% of the time I only eat cake/cupcakes for the frosting and filling.
ETA: Words
Read these articles. Yes. These are just the most recent ones that I've heard of. Please, don't ever do this. I feel like I should say something to moms about this, but I don't want to feel like that crazy lady. Like, how do I approach them...should I say like "Hey, I noticed you baby is on top of the cart, you shouldn't do that?"
I can't stand anything that has chocolate and peanut butter combined. Reeses, moose track ice cream, blech! I love both things separately, but together they're just sickly sweet.
And @psychbear I also hate cake. And dougnuts, because they are so similar. And until I learned to make my own pie crust, I would just eat the filling out of pie because the crusts were gross.
Hmmm... -I don't like chocolate -I just started liking lattes like a year ago, but I think the ones from Starbucks are the worst -I hate the phrase knocked up, and the terms prego, preggers, preggie, or anything else like those
@cafecreme Thank you for posting those articles. I have heard some of you mention it, but never knew the why. I definitely won't be doing when our babies are here.
Hmmm... -I don't like chocolate -I just started liking lattes like a year ago, but I think the ones from Starbucks are the worst -I hate the phrase knocked up, and the terms prego, preggers, preggie, or anything else like those
SO and I refer to me as "Preggy", as if it were a proper noun. For example, "Preggy needs to eat" or "Preggy is exhausted". I never use it in reference to someone else, like saying someone is preggy.
Re: *UO*
Also... I had a UO and was super excited to post and now I can't remember. Baby is eating my brain cells!
FWIW I started this like 10 hr ago, but was stuck at work all day with a ranting drug addict & couldn't get back on TB. I have no patience for lying, manipulating, screaming.... I could never be an addiction counselor. Those people have hearts of gold.
2. Dancing With the Stars is quite possibly the most overrated and boring show I've ever seen.
3. I hate Instagram. It's full of people trying way too hard to look interesting.
heh, heh, heh.. .I make myself laugh.
My BLOG: www.ivfbabyquest.wordpress.com -Update - old blog.
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
Me: 42, Hubby: 35, TTC since Jan 2010. Dx: DOR due to advanced maternal age. Also: Hypothyroidism (100mcg Levothyroxin). Positive for MTHFR (hetero-C677T), Factor V Leiden, and Fragile X (on DH side). Taking pre-natal vitamins.
First natural PG 9/27/11; mc: 1/20/12
First RE visit: 8/8/12, Saline Sonogram: 8/28/12, IVF injection class: 10/11/12, add FaBB Tab for FVL, +Vitamin D.
IVF #1: 10/17/12 Baseline: FSH- 9.4, E2- 24, LH- 3.7, Prog- 0.3 The u/s showed 6 follicles in my right & 9 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 10/21/12: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning.
ER 10/28/12: 13 Retreived. 7 Mature. 6 Fertilized. 5 Made it to PGS. ET 11/2/12: CANCELED. All 5 came back from PGS as having "severe abnormalities."
IVF #2: 1/7/13 Baseline: FSH- 8.8, 4 follicles in my right & 6 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 1/11/13: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning. hCG Trigger 1/16/13
ER 1/18/13: 9 Retrieved. 5 Mature. 5 Fertilized. 2 Made it to PGS. ET 1/23/13: CANCELED. All embryos (he even sent the ones not growing) came back from PGS as having "multiple severe abnormalities."
IVF #3: NEW RE! 3/1/13 Baseline: FSH- 9.6, E2- 61, Prog- 0.94, 3 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle& 150 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/7/13: Add Ganirelix SQ in AM. hCG Trigger 3/9/13 SQ.
ER 3/11/13: 6R, 2M, 2F. Day 3: one 8 cell, grade 0. Five day ET 3/16/13: one early blast, grade Fair. 3/24/13 AF came a day before beta. BFN
IVF #4: (Added acupuncture to this cycle.) 3/25/13 WTF & Baseline: FSH-11.8, E2- 56, Prog- 0.84 3/26/13 Start stims. 3/30/13 u/s: 5 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 225 Bravelle& 225 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/31/13 Add Ganirelix SQ in AM.hCG Trigger 4/3/13 SQ.
ER 4/5/13: 5R, 3M, 3F naturally. Day 3: two 8 cell, grade 0, one 8 cell, grade 2 (Scale 0-best to 3-worst). Five day ET 4/10/13: two blastocysts (the 3rd stopped growing.) Beta 4/18/13: 2.5 BFFN. RE recommends we stop trying and focus on living childless, due to the extremely poor quality of my eggs.
***Decided to stop trying and live CFNBC. I couldn't adjust. So, six months later...
IVF #5: Changed RE. Going to one of the big name clinics now. OWDU: 10/29/13. Update: HORRIBLE experience. Disgusted and distraught at their complete unprofessionalism and how much money and precious time they cost us. Sickening. Have now changed RE again. New Patient appt. 1/30/14.
BFP! Out of nowhere, I got KU the old fashioned way! POAS 1/26/14 - Positive! FDLM 12/30/13. Beta #1 16dpo= 373. Beta #2 18dpo= 801. EDD 10/6/14
2/4/14 1st U/S revealed a 5wk2day sac but no fetal pole. Started 200mgs of progesterone suppositories daily
2/11/14 2nd U/S revealed a perfect 6wk1day "diamond ring" embryo with a beating heart! 138bpm! Add 1mg folic acid and 40mg Lovenox
2/25/14 3rd U/S: perfect 8w1d embryo, 178bpm. 3/6 start spotting. 3/11 10w1d U/S shows no heartbeat. Scheduling D&C. The Stork has forsaken me again.
IVF #5.2: New in-state RE. Supplement priming for 1.5 cycles prior to start of cycle, including DHEA 50mg (stopped 5/15), CoQ10 200mg 2x/day, L-Arginine- 1000mg 2x/day (stopped 6/5 due to cold sore!), myo-inositol- 2g 2x/day, melatonin- 3mg, and Neevo (prenatal for MTHFR).
5/16/14 Day 2 bw cycle prior: FSH- 12.22, E2- 38.37, Prog- 1.35, LH- 9.46. 6/2/14 Day 19 bw: Prog- 23
6/12/14 Baseline: E2- 122.7, Prog- 0.4. 5 follicles in left, 4 follicles in right. Start stims: 375IU Follistim & 150IU Menopur. 6/19 Increase Follistim to 425IU, Menopur still 150IU. 6/18 add Ganirelix. 6/23 Ovidrel trigger SQ. 6/25 ER: 8R, 8M, 5F naturally. Start Medrol & Doxy. 6/26 Start Endometrin. 7/2 Start Lovenox.
7/8/14 Beta= 137.4 BFP!!! (My first from IVF!) E2- 1109, Prog- >60. Stop CoQ10, myo-inositol, and melatonin. 7/9 2nd Beta= 281.4. TSH- 2.70. Increasing Synthroid to 100mcg daily. 7/24 6w3d u/s measured 6w3d, hb: 121bmp! 8/5 8w1d u/s measured 8w3d, hb: 164bpm! Graduated from RE to OB. Now I just need to find an OB!
EDD 3/18/15!
I don't quite understand the Sex vs gender anger
I understand it may be more of a "pet peeve" like spelling and grammer. I also understand it must be frustrating to see it 485945 times a day if it irks you.
maybe I missed the memo, but I haven't seen anyone use gender or sex in a derogatory manner.
I have a close friend who is trans-gender and even he/she doesn't seem to mind when someone just doesn't understand the difference.
Married the love of my life: 5-17-14
BFP:6-27-14
EDD:3-11-15
Step Mom to Z: 4-11-06
IT'S A BOY!!!!!!
And @psychbear I also hate cake. And dougnuts, because they are so similar. And until I learned to make my own pie crust, I would just eat the filling out of pie because the crusts were gross.
-I don't like chocolate
-I just started liking lattes like a year ago, but I think the ones from Starbucks are the worst
-I hate the phrase knocked up, and the terms prego, preggers, preggie, or anything else like those