Confused (***possible BFP mentioned***)

AnnieBghn25

So I am CD32 today. We have been TTC for over 3 years now and are on our second round of Femara. I took a dollar store PT yesterday afternoon and it was a BFN. I took another dollar store test this morning and it initially was negative ( every other test I ever took came up positive right away) but it turned a really faint positive after I had initially given up on it. It was no more than 8-10 min after I had taken it and it was sitting in the same spot as when I took it. (Not gonna lie, I was sitting on the toilet on Facebook and when I got up to wipe I saw a very faint BFP). I will be purchasing a name brand PT later but just wondering if this is normal or if anyone has had a false BFP with Dollar Store tests? Thanks for any advise!

AnnieBghn25

It's there right? Or am I crazy?

Jodee37

Awww yay for you

Who the fuck are you anyway?

Jodee37

I'm ragey this morning. What is WITH all these drive bys!?

What is acceptable about hardly posting a goddamn thing (or not even posting an intro) on this board and then waving a postitively pregnant BFP on a board of women who are diagnosed as infertile???

Fuck this shit already

Edited because apparently you made 1 post a million years ago. Therefor we all are elated for you. Thank you for all the support.

pettycrocker

Looks like an obvious positive to me? It's not even a faint line. What are you confused about exactly? How to read the directions included with your tests? 

Congratulations, AnnieBghn25! Your support and participation here this past month has been crucial to us. We will never forget you! 

AnnieBghn25

For your info, I did an intro and why be an asshole? Do you know how many people I have been happy for since I lost a baby 3 yes ago and I'm not asking for you to be happy for me....I don't need that....I was worried it was an evap line. And for you to be that way is just ugly....is this the way you would want treated? You have no clue how hard it has been for me or anyone else so keep your negativity to yourself. Isn't this forum for questions and support? And I followed the rules...if you didn't want to read my post you had every opportunity to pass it by. I have struggled with infertility and to have someone be so blatantly mean is absolutely rediculous. I'm sure your parents are so proud of the compassionate person you have turned out to be!

GraceyandTroy

Look, everybody here knows exactly how hard it's been for you, because it's been that hard or harder for all of us. We all KNOW how hard it is. So when we all get our BFP's and move on with our lives, we will all be thrilled for ourselves. And even though I don't really remember you, that doesn't mean I would wish continued IF on you. I genuinely hope that everybody here gets there BFP soon and can move out of this horrid season.

But if you have to give your IF history in the first sentence of your BFP announcement post, then that is a sign that you probably should not be announcing your BFP here.

I understand that you were really asking if it was in evaporation line versus a real BFP. I want to believe that you did not mean any harm at all in this post. But that looks like a pretty clear BFP. And it feels a little bit like you're rubbing it in our faces. Again, I know that's not what you mean, but in this season of our lives you should know how it feels to have somebody you don't know very well wave a BFP in their face. And that's what this post feels like. Maybe a little more participation on the board would have given you the insight to know what this post would feel like to many of us.

I wish you the best in your pregnancy. But I think your future posts would be better suited to a Pregnancy board.

Jodee37

What's ridiculous is how you spell ridiculous

And also ridiculous that you are upset no one is shouting congrats from the tops of the mountains. you had to almost re-intro in your OP so that people could get to know your situation "I've been TTC for 3 yrs now and we are on our second round of femara" because you are a ghost here. An intro a lifetime ago does not make a member of this board. It makes you a lurker. This forum is exactly for support but just like in life, you get what you give. You want support? GIVE SUPPORT. And know your audience.

I have EVERY CLUE how hard IF is because on a constant basis I am reminded of how obnoxious and rude people get to have babies. Your "am I pregnant guys!?" stunt shows your lack of compassion for others. I'm sure you are quite proud of yourself for "following the rules" with your 1 previous post. Way to go!

Momarazzi007

***lurking bitch here***

The mere fact you dare say jodee37 doesn't know what you let alone anyone is going through proves your ignorance and lack of participation and support in this site. She has been nothing but a source of Neverending support and first to throw punches when the ladies here face CONSTANT disappointment.
Take your BFP and try to be more supportive on your bmb and watch who you talk "rediculously" about.

AnnieBghn25

You are way off base. I am by no means waving anything in anyone's face and I am sorry for any hard feelings I have caused. And for my spelling error, I am sorry as well. Everyone else, I wish much luck. My intentions were not meant to be mean, I simply had a question. I will no longer continue this conversation as it will end up going anywhere besides where it should. GraceyandTroy, thank you for showing some class in your explanation and I honestly meant no harm.....I simply had a question and now I understand how it could have been taken wrong. I never feel as though others possible good news is a slap in my face as I look at it as it is what it is and it must be their time. So again I am sorry. And in saying that she (jodee37) doesn't understand other peoples struggles is 100% true whether she thinks so or not. People struggle on their own for years and when one new comer who has spent years without anyone to talk to posts a question, she shows everything else but "support or direction". Even if she gives support to one person, the way she has acted about my post was uncalled for. A simple msg that said this post is better for a different forum would of worked instead of saying who the fuck are you. I know I am new, but there was no need to respond the way she did. I have learned my lesson and I would rather go it alone than have people like her or ppl who support ppl like her have an insight into my life.

Momarazzi007

****lurking again****

I couldn't even finish- I guess it is always a good idea to ramble when you don't know what you are talking about? She gives support to everyone except ignorant ppl who only AW post... Like this.

CeCe8579

Bye Felicia and Bye Felicia.....the two of you should know who you are :-D