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FrecklesInside

malijo1025 said:

LadySnowblood said:

I don't know how you guys are doing it. Hauling toddlers around all the time. This shit is killing me! lol

It actually isn't too tough. My DD is very helpful. She also minds well because I am a mean mommy and believe in spanking. But seriously though. Toddlers can be great one minute are crazy aliens the next. I just keep her in her stroller and keeps lots of snacks when we go on outings. Food makes everything better.

Um. Side eye.

wendyld

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also, is he really saying that he pulled over and slept for 12 hours?? That's ludicrous

That's what I think!! There is no way and now his phone goes straight to voice mail... I have no idea what to do. I really don't trust him. I really believe that he was with "someone"

I would be logging in to our phone account and checking the usage log to see if he called or texted anyone during/just before that and our bank account to see if he spent any money. This shit does not add up.

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wendyld said:

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also, is he really saying that he pulled over and slept for 12 hours?? That's ludicrous

That's what I think!! There is no way and now his phone goes straight to voice mail... I have no idea what to do. I really don't trust him. I really believe that he was with "someone"

I would be logging in to our phone account and checking the usage log to see if he called or texted anyone during/just before that and our bank account to see if he spent any money. This shit does not add up.


I

It's a company phone. So I have no access too it. We have separate accounts. I wish I could do that. He just phoned and said that he just woke up and he is driving home. He started just talking like everything was normal. When I didn't say a fucking word he said are you ok... Are you fucking serious no I am not fucking alright! You didn't come home and you have me a lame excuse. And he was like you are the least trusting person I have ever met! I said if you had another wife would you think she wouldn't be freaking out???


Grrr...

chaysefaith

071115 said:

wendyld said:

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also, is he really saying that he pulled over and slept for 12 hours?? That's ludicrous

That's what I think!! There is no way and now his phone goes straight to voice mail... I have no idea what to do. I really don't trust him. I really believe that he was with "someone"

I would be logging in to our phone account and checking the usage log to see if he called or texted anyone during/just before that and our bank account to see if he spent any money. This shit does not add up.


I

It's a company phone. So I have no access too it. We have separate accounts. I wish I could do that. He just phoned and said that he just woke up and he is driving home. He started just talking like everything was normal. When I didn't say a fucking word he said are you ok... Are you fucking serious no I am not fucking alright! You didn't come home and you have me a lame excuse. And he was like you are the least trusting person I have ever met! I said if you had another wife would you think she wouldn't be freaking out???


Grrr...

Yeah. No. Fuck that. He shoulda stayed in that ditch.

I bet you he takes a shower as soon as he gets home. And you bet your ass I would be snooping through that phone. Call history, texts, emails, emails in the trash....everything. Fuck that nonsense.

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chaysefaith said:

071115 said:

wendyld said:

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also, is he really saying that he pulled over and slept for 12 hours?? That's ludicrous

That's what I think!! There is no way and now his phone goes straight to voice mail... I have no idea what to do. I really don't trust him. I really believe that he was with "someone"

I would be logging in to our phone account and checking the usage log to see if he called or texted anyone during/just before that and our bank account to see if he spent any money. This shit does not add up.


I

It's a company phone. So I have no access too it. We have separate accounts. I wish I could do that. He just phoned and said that he just woke up and he is driving home. He started just talking like everything was normal. When I didn't say a fucking word he said are you ok... Are you fucking serious no I am not fucking alright! You didn't come home and you have me a lame excuse. And he was like you are the least trusting person I have ever met! I said if you had another wife would you think she wouldn't be freaking out???


Grrr...

Yeah. No. Fuck that. He shoulda stayed in that ditch.

I bet you he takes a shower as soon as he gets home. And you bet your ass I would be snooping through that phone. Call history, texts, emails, emails in the trash....everything. Fuck that nonsense.

How can I look in the trash?? Yah he even said I need a shower so bad and to shave when I get home!

chaysefaith

071115 said:

chaysefaith said:

071115 said:

wendyld said:

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also, is he really saying that he pulled over and slept for 12 hours?? That's ludicrous

That's what I think!! There is no way and now his phone goes straight to voice mail... I have no idea what to do. I really don't trust him. I really believe that he was with "someone"

I would be logging in to our phone account and checking the usage log to see if he called or texted anyone during/just before that and our bank account to see if he spent any money. This shit does not add up.


I

It's a company phone. So I have no access too it. We have separate accounts. I wish I could do that. He just phoned and said that he just woke up and he is driving home. He started just talking like everything was normal. When I didn't say a fucking word he said are you ok... Are you fucking serious no I am not fucking alright! You didn't come home and you have me a lame excuse. And he was like you are the least trusting person I have ever met! I said if you had another wife would you think she wouldn't be freaking out???


Grrr...

Yeah. No. Fuck that. He shoulda stayed in that ditch.

I bet you he takes a shower as soon as he gets home. And you bet your ass I would be snooping through that phone. Call history, texts, emails, emails in the trash....everything. Fuck that nonsense.

How can I look in the trash?? Yah he even said I need a shower so bad and to shave when I get home!

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...


When you delete your emails they go to a trash bin. If you don't empty the trash box then the emails stay there, they're just not in your inbox anymore.

Also, check his sent emails. No one is ever smart enough to delete those.

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@chaysefaith‌ can I check the trash on anything else?? Like texts?
Yah I really am starting to think he is a duck, but I would be heart broken if he is a duck... I want to be able to prove it somehow though!

@wonknessmonster‌ his phone isn't locked. But I am sure if there was something on there it wouldn't be anymore! Yah who needs a 12 hr nap to drive home? I thought calling me untrusting was a way to show that he is lying but I thought that was just me!

wendyld

Manipulation 101: turn the situation around so that the person holding you accountable feels as if they have done something wrong. This will deflect from your misbehavior.

071115

He might have been drinking! All I want is the truth! Even if it's not the answer that I want, I would rather know.

Thinking of manipulation... I just realized that he does that a lot.

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wonknessmonster said:

Also...don't you have 2 kids already and it's the weekend? Doesn't he want to be at home hanging out with his kids/wife? The fact that you can't reach him plus a 12 hour "nap" is just massive disrespect to your family and especially you. What if you really needed him right now? What if one of your kids got the flu overnight and you need to go to the doctor this morning? Does he always leave you alone with all of that?
I'm sorry but I seriously would take none of this lying down.
Does he binge drink by any chance?

I missed this one earlier. Yes we have two kids. He works a lot. Minimum 12 hrs a day 6 days week! We are alone a lot and it gets lonely and depressing! Don't get me wrong he is an amazing father! He doesn't bing drink but he does drink more then I would like. This isn't the first time he has "slept" on the side if the road. I am ready to throw in the towel, but the kids and the fact of when he is home he is great is holding me back. But I really Am getting very unhappy always by my self! I think that I am a pretty amazing wife. I work full time with two kids, I take my kids to swimming lessons, hockey, soccer or t ball or swimming. Any thing they want to do. I do the cooking most of the time he cools on the weekends and I do the cleaning and I am so fed up with everything!

wendyld

071115 said:

wonknessmonster said:

Also...don't you have 2 kids already and it's the weekend? Doesn't he want to be at home hanging out with his kids/wife? The fact that you can't reach him plus a 12 hour "nap" is just massive disrespect to your family and especially you. What if you really needed him right now? What if one of your kids got the flu overnight and you need to go to the doctor this morning? Does he always leave you alone with all of that?
I'm sorry but I seriously would take none of this lying down.
Does he binge drink by any chance?

I missed this one earlier. Yes we have two kids. He works a lot. Minimum 12 hrs a day 6 days week! We are alone a lot and it gets lonely and depressing! Don't get me wrong he is an amazing father! He doesn't bing drink but he does drink more then I would like. This isn't the first time he has "slept" on the side if the road. I am ready to throw in the towel, but the kids and the fact of when he is home he is great is holding me back. But I really Am getting very unhappy always by my self! I think that I am a pretty amazing wife. I work full time with two kids, I take my kids to swimming lessons, hockey, soccer or t ball or swimming. Any thing they want to do. I do the cooking most of the time he cools on the weekends and I do the cleaning and I am so fed up with everything!

Amazing dads don't leave the mother of their kids wondering if they are dead or injured overnight with no explanation. Do you really think teaching your kids it's ok to treat someone like that is being a good father?