Also I'm judging anyone with an a14 baby who purposely gives their kid a tablet or phone to play on. I see it the same way as giving your kid McDonald's. They will probably turn out fine but why would you when there are 100 better options?
This explains my POV much more succinctly than I attempted on Page 1 or 2. Just bc kids will eventually be exposed to something doesn't mean HEY LETS DO IT NOW! I'm sure a one year old would really really like some Oreos for a snack, and I'm sure that same one year old will get to eat Oreos at some point later in life...doesn't mean I'm handing out Oreos at playgroup.
I work from home a lot of times on a computer. When in alone with DS I try tummy time with toys, his exersaucer, and swing. Most times what he wants is mommy so my son does get screen time in the form of sitting on my knee while I work. I try not to feel guilty about it.
DH does this on days that he works from home. Sometimes he has to do it as well, no harm done.
Surely you guys realize there is a difference between a child catching screen time on your lap which I am sure all our kids have done, and actually buying an app for your 4 month old to play.
"But GUYS COME BACK AND AGREEEEE WITH ME!!!" The golden girls have hugged this out. And if the golden girls have teaches us anything it's that time is too short and ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.
I work from home a lot of times on a computer. When in alone with DS I try tummy time with toys, his exersaucer, and swing. Most times what he wants is mommy so my son does get screen time in the form of sitting on my knee while I work. I try not to feel guilty about it.
DH does this on days that he works from home. Sometimes he has to do it as well, no harm done.
Surely you guys realize there is a difference between a child catching screen time on your lap which I am sure all our kids have done, and actually buying an app for your 4 month old to play.
"But GUYS COME BACK AND AGREEEEE WITH ME!!!" The golden girls have hugged this out. And if the golden girls have teaches us anything it's that time is too short and ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.
lol you don't get to end posts it's kind of not how this works.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
The DD had nothing to do with the screen time argument.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
**stuck in the box**
I think you guys have more "no screen timers" on your side, but the nazi vs n-word offensiveness argument goes to the other guys.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
That's how she operates though: total overkill. She reiterated something to me three times to make sure I'd get her point. Becuz I guess I don't read words good.
oh FFS really? Personal attacks are fun. But you forgot she only comes on here to stir the pot, she doesn't even go here, and she adds nothing to the board. Hmmm what did I forget?
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I'm pretty sure I have a lot of UOs and FFFCs that would get me flamed to high heaven. Every morning I get up with both kids and get them settled- DS1 with breakfast and DS2 in the exersaucer-and I put Nemo on so that I can pee and make coffee in peace.
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting. Now you're just being a petty Betty.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
The DD had nothing to do with the screen time argument.
No just that she didn't get your point on the nazi n-word debate, which didn't surprise you.
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
Here's my confession: I'm currently coercing two of my close acquaintances to start a mini mommy and me group. One's daughter is 4 weeks younger than Dylan and the other was born about 4 weeks ago. I think we can all become very close since women usually lose their close friends who don't have kids. I'm sure we could all use the support since we are all going through some of the same things
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
That's how she operates though: total overkill. She reiterated something to me three times to make sure I'd get her point. Becuz I guess I don't read words good.
oh FFS really? Personal attacks are fun. But you forgot she only comes on here to stir the pot, she doesn't even go here, and she adds nothing to the board. Hmmm what did I forget?
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You forgot the part where you determine who "goes here" and who adds what to the interwebz. Do you disagree with me on something or do you just REALLY dislike me? The more this goes on the more that line is really blurred. Why are you so unwilling to move passed this iPad thing, it's getting a little crazy.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
The DD had nothing to do with the screen time argument.
No just that she didn't get your point on the nazi n-word debate, which didn't surprise you.
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
Yes I saw that after the fact. Should I got delete my comment now?
Sure we obviously have plenty of people here who will remember it and bring it back up. Go ahead.
Now that we're now moving on to the 5th page, let's all have a hugfest and pat ourselves on the back for our own personal attempts on raising happy, healthy babies. We can check in in 18 years and see if any of this matters then. For now we are all content on our methods and that's about all we are going to agree on.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Clinging pretty hard to the conversation for having just DDd in the middle of it...
That's how she operates though: total overkill. She reiterated something to me three times to make sure I'd get her point. Becuz I guess I don't read words good.
oh FFS really? Personal attacks are fun. But you forgot she only comes on here to stir the pot, she doesn't even go here, and she adds nothing to the board. Hmmm what did I forget?
Edited to add more
You forgot the part where you determine who "goes here" and who adds what to the interwebz. Do you disagree with me on something or do you just REALLY dislike me? The more this goes on the more that line is really blurred. Why are you so unwilling to move passed this iPad thing, it's getting a little crazy.
D put himself to sleep just now. I should totally be doing something productive BUT since he fell asleep on his tummy I wanna stay close by to keep an eye on him. That's my excuse for not being productive anyway
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
happily married since 2009, SAHM diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
happily married since 2009, SAHM diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
Confession: I can not for the life of me figure out how to insert GIF's!!! Er!
happily married since 2009, SAHM diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
happily married since 2009, SAHM diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
Just right click the image, click "copy image URL", then hit the little tree picture icon here and paste the URL.
Thanks for your help! I'm so excited! I can finally gif!
happily married since 2009, SAHM diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
Re: FFFC!
"But GUYS COME BACK AND AGREEEEE WITH ME!!!" The golden girls have hugged this out. And if the golden girls have teaches us anything it's that time is too short and ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.
lol you don't get to end posts it's kind of not how this works.
The DD had nothing to do with the screen time argument.
oh FFS really? Personal attacks are fun. But you forgot she only comes on here to stir the pot, she doesn't even go here, and she adds nothing to the board. Hmmm what did I forget? Edited to add more
Every morning I get up with both kids and get them settled- DS1 with breakfast and DS2 in the exersaucer-and I put Nemo on so that I can pee and make coffee in peace.
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
Ah so when others came on to actually agree with me and lala we need to move on to we are all doing the best we can lets all puppies and rainbows again. Interesting.
Now you're just being a petty Betty.
yep and I already said that here
You forgot the part where you determine who "goes here" and who adds what to the interwebz. Do you disagree with me on something or do you just REALLY dislike me? The more this goes on the more that line is really blurred. Why are you so unwilling to move passed this iPad thing, it's getting a little crazy.
Sure we obviously have plenty of people here who will remember it and bring it back up. Go ahead.
pretty sure you just brought it up? Hmmmm
I DD a comment explaining the fact that I was not comparing the n word and the word nazi but in fact using it to show that even it you call yourself something it can still be offensive. The part I DD said I wasn't surprised the OP of the nazi comment didn't get it. There you have it no more mystery.
Because I'm just so dumb, y'all! 8-}
Personal attacks are so fun! (Sarcastic font)
diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles
Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter
Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son
Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
This totally doesn't mesh with your UO yesterday, what ARE YOU???
Neither one of my posts yesterday said anything about cooking! SO cooks not me.
diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles
Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter
Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son
Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles
Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter
Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son
Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
So in your world SAHM just have to clean but not cook?
diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles
Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter
Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son
Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016
So I can assume I am yours. Pot meet kettle.
Yes because I am not the only one that picked this up both yesterday and today, but @J&NL needs her prey too.
diagnosed with unexplained infertility, regular cycles
Baby #1: ttc naturally for 3 years, 6 yr old daughter
Baby #2: ttc naturally for 2 years, 2 yr old son
Baby #3: ttc naturally since August 2016