being pregnant sucks !!!!!!!!!

ngolimento

molassa said:

You are disgusting for assuming everyone realizes they are being insensitive. Poor girl probably didn't know. Bashing her won't really change what she wrote. What I wrote wasn't supporting her choice of wording but it was reminding her "nicely" that she was blessed.

I'm assuming you are talking to me, despite your inability to grasp the concept of quoting.

Go find someone else to lock antlers with. I promise you that I am not a healthy choice.

shortyshorts21

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

kellbell1982

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

Wow, I'm sorry I can't get past your bad grammar long enough to respond to your stupidity

chaysefaith

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

Use your imagination here, I'm thinking all sorts of nasty things about you that I can't say because they're TOU violations.


But you can fuck right off.

ngolimento

I call troll. Nobody is that dumb or willing to be a total bitch.

psychbear

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

You can just fuck right off with this.

wendyld

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

Clearly you don't care if your whining makes other people feel like shit, so why should people be so much kinder to you than you are willing to be to them?

Also, telling people God doesn't want them to be pregnant, as if they deserve that kind of pain is pretty fucking low.

marissalucia

seriously, I'm just amazed at some peoples stupidity and insensitivity.
I literally did not foresee anyone defending this idiotic OP.. I'm just amazed. Can't they both be banned or something? I mean the OP offended me (as a PgAL & a pregnant in general) but I think the insensitive morons who defended the OP might have offended me more, especially when moron #2 called out loss moms, I don't know how you guys did it because I think I would've lost my shit, and I'm usually a calm person.
I mean my loss was a year ago yesterday, but all of this still stings, I can't even imagine having a recent loss. I just thank my lucky stars everyday that I wake up and puke, it's the days that I don't that worry me. And like I said in my previous post it's okay to think SYMPTOMS suck, because sometimes they do, but I would NEVER say what OP said, I know that sadly there are women who may never be so lucky to experience pregnancy, or hold their child, and there's still a good chance I may never either, as my dr said, with my high risk pregnancy I can m/c now, at 15 weeks, at 20weeks, EVEN as far as 30++ weeks. Like how could these people not have realized that some people on here have been through and continue to go through some unfair, terrible, and painful shit?! And I'm sure this offended women without losses or complications for the simple fact that they are GRATEFUL to be pregnant. I'm sorry I just can't justify any of this... No matter which way I try to look at it the OP & people defending the OP are just insanely insensitive.
((Hugs)) to EVERYONE for dealing with this crap.
Sorry for the rant.

kcbizme

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

Obviously you're still in high school.. hence the god-awful grammar and text talk. Grow up.

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shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

WTF is wrong with you? (Other than your obvious lack of education shown through your terrible grammar and lack of punctuation.) Don't you dare come in here telling women who lost their babies that it's because God doesn't want them to be parents. That is a horrific thing to say and not even close to right.

You better GTFO right now. A shitstorm of angry is headed your way and you deserve every bit of it.

melleasndrs

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

I can't even begin to fathom why you think this response is appropriate.

CHECK. YOURSELF. QUICK! This is not the place.

boland15

It amazes me that some women can be so ungrateful at being pregnant. I thank God everyday that I still have my little bug still growing inside me, despite the morning sickness and feeling like poop all the time. All I keep thinking about is how I CANNOT wait to hold my little one and see him/her for the first time. How do you not think about that? How do you not think about the countless women who wish could take your place? Stop being selfish and appreciate the miracle your body is creating.

kella0708

molassa said:

Yes, please report my post because I was clearly stirring the pot. Sweetheart, this is a free country. I will post a comment when I want. I am not going anywhere. If you don't like me, don't write to me.

The bump is not a country. It's a website. Good try though.

starsailorr26

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

The fact that you posted this just goes to show what an insensitive and uncaring person you are.You would have been better off not commenting again. Nobody blamed you for their losses but having some compassion for women who are very much a part of this community and are hurting from the very raw emotion of losing their unborn baby would have gone a long way. I have a child and I had a miscarriage my second pregnancy, as have many of the ladies here who have had losses. Having a child doesn't exclude anybody from experiencing a loss.

Please leave God out of this hot mess of bad grammar and spelling because this is a very diverse group and not everyone believes in God. I will pray that God gives you some compassion and the empathy you are so obviously lacking.

ngolimento

kella0708 said:

molassa said:

Yes, please report my post because I was clearly stirring the pot. Sweetheart, this is a free country. I will post a comment when I want. I am not going anywhere. If you don't like me, don't write to me.

The bump is not a country. It's a website. Good try though.

Not to mention a private website. If I had a dollar for every moron who thinks the constitution protects thier dumb asses in a private sector, I'd shame Oprah's bank acct.

gdamore11

I've turned into more of a lurker these days, but I just can't let your stupidity and insensitivity go OP. First of all, did you complete sKoOl? Because I feel like I'm being stabbed in the back of the head with a butter knife when I read your posts. Second of all, you already have a child?!? Why is it that some people are fortunate enough to have healthy babies, while others that are deserving parents struggle to have their own. That's what is UNFAIR. Lastly, why the fuck did you think that complaining about the viability of your seemingly healthy pregnancy to a community of hopeful mothers was appropriate? You should stick to Facebook or snapchat or whatever the fuck else your illiterate ass can handle. I'm sorry you don't like dealing with the symptoms, but maybe you should have thought of that before you decided to have unprotected sex with whoever. I hope for your children's sake that you grow the fuck up before you turn them into little versions of yourself.

suzyq0525

Love you @estamos_tomamos‌

marissalucia

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

LMFAO!!!!!!!!! Oh man... She said "grow the fuck up". AND "if god hasn't allowed you". AND "you don't know when a girl is feeling like shit".
WOW. I'm just stunned. this is a joke right? There's no way someone can be this incompetent... SHES feeling like shit?!?! I can't even string a sentence together I'm like shaking. oh man, karma is a BITCH, remember that little girl.

wendyld

The OP is banner, this thread isn't worth another minute of anyone's time. It's too bad she couldn't be a decent person and just say that she didn't mean to come across that way, she was just struggling with a rough day.

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melleasndrs

I need to eat that..... NOW!

sjep922

I just caught up...

All I have to say is that I love all of you regs! And extra love to our amazing ladies who have experienced losses in the past and recently. I won't give the OP or WK's any attention. I just wanted to tell you all I love you and so many hugs to you all!

And all the cake that you need, of course!

shootznladrz

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

I can't even read this. Grow up and learn proper grammar and punctuation. Please!

You really should get your head out of your ass though and realize how and what you say on a public forum can affect everyone else there. If you had read and lurked for a while you would understand why these women are so upset with you. I 100% agree with them in every way. You should be ashamed that you are so dense that you can't see what you did wrong.

(See I said please I was nice)

Edit: posted before I finished typing.

jacqueleen1

What a horrid group of things to say. Im so glad this woman is banned! 

bdazzld

ToasterCat said:

marissalucia said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

LMFAO!!!!!!!!! Oh man... She said "grow the fuck up". AND "if god hasn't allowed you". AND "you don't know when a girl is feeling like shit". WOW. I'm just stunned. this is a joke right? There's no way someone can be this incompetent... SHES feeling like shit?!?! I can't even string a sentence together I'm like shaking. oh man, karma is a BITCH, remember that little girl.

It's ok. She's gone now. I feel like we all need to eat cake after this thread

Yes, cake makes it better.  Always cake--never pie.

shootznladrz

Oh my phone didn't register the 5th page of posts before I posted my last comment....

hydrangeablue

I can't even with this thread. It's appalling. Where's the compassion? Women should look out for each other and be sensitive to the situations other women find themselves in. OP, you 100% deserved to be called out for your post and the fact that people have defended OP makes me really sad. I'm sad that people like you are here and creating negativity and stress in this community. Ladies who have lost their babies, I sympathize with you and hope you have limited encounters with such insensitive and hurtful people.

stellarsoundz

racegurl87 said:

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

I normally don't get involved in these kinds of posts, but you've pissed me off....

First off, try some grammar, spelling, and sentence structure. This hurt just trying to read.
Second, we're not over thinking anything... you said something completely hurtful and don't even care about other people apparently...
Third, leave your opinions about what you think "God allows" out of it... I'm a Christian and God would never want anyone to go through what some women here have had to deal with.

All of this.

And as a Christian, I find the OP's statement to be one of the very most offensive and misguided things I've ever read... along with every other darn thing she posted. Jeez.

My heart goes out to all of our PgAL ladies here... I wish I could hug you all, and I'm so sorry for the pain this thread must surely have caused you.

janda426

Anyone notice how as soon as the person @molassa‌ is WKing shows their true colors she doesn't come back? Until the next time?

You just seem like an overall bad person @molassa‌ and I'm really glad I don't know you. You're fucking miserable dude. Get a life. You wanna talk about how much we all suck but you defend the worst people that come to this board.

EmAre

What a shit show.

Can I just say, in spite of all of the horrible things that were written in this thread, the way that everyone stood up for the board as a whole and especially my fellow loss moms makes me feel even stronger that this really is a community. So nice to see everyone have everyone's back.

And, cake.

ngolimento

You know what this thread needs?  Viagra.

jpavenski

You know it's ironic, I'm reading this post today. Probably the sickest day of my pregnancy & at the same time most happy & excited I've been so far about having this baby! Heard the heartbeat again today while my three year old was running amuck in the office & I am so grateful. Reading some of your stories has made me tear up, you are incredibly strong women!

And that cake looks awesome!

alexandria22489

shortyshorts21 said:

To all the super sensitive pregos heres wanting to judge me.. because my furst trimester is very bad.. just letting u know i am a mother of 1 a 5 yr old... dont bring up the fact that some woman would wabt to be in my shoes if god hasnt allowed u to be pregnant its not my fault u should take it up with him. Everyobe has their own battles mine is my pregnancy being very bad making me go to the emergebcy room everyother day. If i decided to write a post about my bad first trimester i could.. obviosuly alot of you have too much time on your hands to overthink crap and start talking crazy like i dont know im blessed never did i say i wasnt.. cmon grow the fuck up you dont know when a girl is feeling like shit

I think it's time for you to go before you continue to piss us the fuck off. This isn't cute, this isn't amusing.

alexandria22489

Whoops, phone didn't show me there were more pages. Glad she's gone. I'm so furious that she said the things she said.

taesmith15

Wooow... This post is full of women with nothing better to do than talk a lot of mess. We live in America. Freedom of speech is definitely allowed. No post of mine had a curse word in it. Or anything saying anything specific about anybody. So I tagged some people because I thought what they said was wrong. If I'm a terrible person for that I'm not sorry. Losing a child is a terrible thing, but you guys use that as an excuse to talk to anyone who disagrees with you in a super disrespectful way. It's not cute, and no respectable woman would be writing such distasteful comments. It's the dumbest thing I've ever seen! Get lives! All of you. I'm out this peace... You guys are nothing but useless drama. Oh and don't twist my words and say I have no heart or feelings towards loss moms. Losing a baby doesn't give you the right to be demeaning or cuss out anybody just because you're not in a good place. Go to therapy, read the bible, but don't come on THEBUMP of all places to be all perfect and act like you guys have NEVER said something insensitive. God! Oh and it's not a privilege to be apart of this overly dramatic group.

kcbizme

b&bysmith15 said:

Wooow... This post is full of women with nothing better to do than talk a lot of mess. We live in America. Freedom of speech is definitely allowed. No post of mine had a curse word in it. Or anything saying anything specific about anybody. So I tagged some people because I thought what they said was wrong. If I'm a terrible person for that I'm not sorry. Losing a child is a terrible thing, but you guys use that as an excuse to talk to anyone who disagrees with you in a super disrespectful way. It's not cute, and no respectable woman would be writing such distasteful comments. It's the dumbest thing I've ever seen! Get lives! All of you. I'm out this peace... You guys are nothing but useless drama. Oh and don't twist my words and say I have no heart or feelings towards loss moms. Losing a baby doesn't give you the right to be demeaning or cuss out anybody just because you're not in a good place. Go to therapy, read the bible, but don't come on THEBUMP of all places to be all perfect and act like you guys have NEVER said something insensitive. God! Oh and it's not a privilege to be apart of this overly dramatic group.

Aww look who came back!

First of all, it's PIECE. And secondly, as stated before, this is not a government entity and while freedom of speech is a right, insults are not.

Also, in case you didn't know what the pretty red picture that is the OP's avatar now means, she was banned. Why continue the drama? It's unnecessary and the conversation was over before you decided to stick your nose back in it.

edited: words on mobile

stellarsoundz

b&bysmith15 said:

Wooow... This post is full of women with nothing better to do than talk a lot of mess. We live in America. Freedom of speech is definitely allowed. No post of mine had a curse word in it. Or anything saying anything specific about anybody. So I tagged some people because I thought what they said was wrong. If I'm a terrible person for that I'm not sorry. Losing a child is a terrible thing, but you guys use that as an excuse to talk to anyone who disagrees with you in a super disrespectful way. It's not cute, and no respectable woman would be writing such distasteful comments. It's the dumbest thing I've ever seen! Get lives! All of you. I'm out this peace... You guys are nothing but useless drama. Oh and don't twist my words and say I have no heart or feelings towards loss moms. Losing a baby doesn't give you the right to be demeaning or cuss out anybody just because you're not in a good place. Go to therapy, read the bible, but don't come on THEBUMP of all places to be all perfect and act like you guys have NEVER said something insensitive. God! Oh and it's not a privilege to be apart of this overly dramatic group.

Oh good. You're back. *rolls eyes*

ugh. Is it a full moon or something? What the actual f*ck is going on on this board today?

taesmith15

Whatever. It's a website who cares if I get banned? I didn't say anything wrong. You guys are drama queens, and are pretty much only important on this board. Idc.. I just felt like adding my two cents. Being nice didn't work, so yeah. Bye bye I'm going off to enjoy my life because I ACTUALLY have one.