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Wondering minds need to know

edited August 2014 in Trouble TTC a Sibling
I know we are new and still developing how we want this board to run, but how are we going to handle BFPs here? 

I am only coming from the AL community perspective that unless you've been around for a while and been super supportive then you can post, otherwise you simply move on so you don't hurt others. We're all coming in "relatively" new, so no one really will have "clout" on how long they've been "here". Also, I don't know how IF deal with BFPs. Not that we want to have too many rules starting out, I'm just wondering if it's been thought about. @NariaDreaming do you know if this was discussed prior to the set-up of this board?

ETA title as it seemed a little inappropriate after re-reading it.

BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

My Chart

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All are Welcome!

rslh10

Re: Wondering minds need to know

  • Sounds good to me! I certainly have not been around long enough anywhere to feel comfortable announcing knowing I could hurt someone, but just wanted to get it "out there" as it were for others, like me, thinking/worrying about it.

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

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  • I was totally kidding about the pitchforks. I meant spitwads.


    Seriously, though. What @CheesyPeas said.
    Was "pitchforks" your Freudian slip?  ;)

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

  • I agree with waiting. Trying to make a bunch of rules before we are at all established seems like a bad idea. Of course, I'm assuming there will be common courtesy and common sense will prevail. This might be a mistake.
    Common sense and common courtesy are dwindling in the modern day population they are being replaced by a pernicious disease called Special Snowflake Syndrome. 

    I agree with what @CheesyPeas said about posting BFP's  
    This is why I thought to ask. I'm really hoping we can use common sense and common courtesy rather than a bunch of "rules" here.

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

    image image image

    All are Welcome!

  • Pitchforks?
    OMG this made me literally laugh out loud.  Thanks, I needed that today.  
    I agree with @CheasyPeas, too.  

    We might have flybys (though at this point we seem to be pretty buried), and I think we can either ignore them or flame them, whatever makes you happy.  
    [Deleted User]CheesyPeas
  • edited August 2014
    I am on Team Common Sense till we get established.  

    I am in my 2WW now, and if this is our cycle, I won't post anything here.  I'll just move along. 

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    Monster #1- Hunter Fillmore! 10.1.11
     MC 3.20.14 -- 8w3d
    MC 7.11.14-- 5w4d
    Monsterette #2- EDD  5.9.15

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    RustyGirl3[Deleted User]tigerlynx31413
  • @CheesyPeas is wise.  Also you better be AWing that BFP when you get one lady.  We will all be holding your hand every step of the way! :)
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

    CheesyPeas
  • @CheesyPeas is wise.  Also you better be AWing that BFP when you get one lady.  We will all be holding your hand every step of the way! :)

    You PAL ladies have been amazingly supportive, so I will most certainly be AWing it up to all of you if we get there again. Or perhaps asking you all for hugs as I shake in the corner in the fetal position. Definitely one of those two. :) And the same goes for you, woman. I wanna know ASAP!

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

    tigerlynx31413ellebelle2384
  • I think it will take awhile for this place to establish its "feel" and it's bound to get drive-bys, especially at first. I don't think rules are necessarily going to fix that, but I don't usually feel like we can count on the common sense of the general public. Pre-coffee thoughts over!

    @CheesyPeas‌ is wise.
    CheesyPeas
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