Husband arguing with ex-wife.

alyse0305

Anyone else sick of your husband bitching about his ex wife and them arguing constantly? Or am I the only one that has to deal with this?! Oy veh! She uses the kids to piss him off and he will do anything to spite her bc of it. People are crazy!!! And I'm the pregnant hormonal one. Watch out!!

Mommalawyer

Yup. Been there. She went full on psycho 6 months ago. I couldn't take it anymore and just couldn't engage in the arguments, the rebuttals, and the constant emotional roller coaster. I had to stop speaking to her, at all. He eventually stopped speaking to her too. She hasn't let him see his kids in 6 months. And her latest antics after 6 months of silence is nearly the equivalent of coming home to find a rabbit boiling on the stove. Granted, he didnt do things to spite her. He just wanted to see his kids and begged, and begged, and begged. It is a tough road when you are dealing with a mentally unstable ex. Sorry.......

alyse0305

Yeah, mines much more petty and always talks of involving more attorneys (which they still are battling in court over post decree issues she can't just let go and talk to him like a normal parent). It's sad, mainly bc they have two beautiful children that are so great and they can't just let the anger go. I really want to slap them both. He would have a hay day in court if she refused to let him see the kids. That sucks you have to deal with that. Change the locks?

erobbins09

Ugh don't get me started (ok.. I'm starting all on my own). My guy and his ex are headed in for yet another hearing in 2 weeks and I swear she turns full psycho whenever they're headed in.

He is the most phenomenal dad and she treats him like shit... It's hard, I hate it but with everything going on with finding out we are pregnant I honestly don't even want to hear it. Usually I'm a super good listener and give him advise and help him prep but I don't have the energy or patience for her right now.

This is a big hearing for him where he's supposed to be making some serious headway with shared parenting (she's currently residential but her erratic and psychotic behavior is thankfully leaning things in our favor as of late).

She often drives me to an extra glass of wine or a margarita... I already have plans to pump and dump in February after drinks with his sisters just for what the ex has been up to the last couple months.

Good luck to you. It sucks and you are definitely not alone here.