hi everyone.
im getting together ideas for my daughters 3rd bday. (its over 2 months away) and im trying to decide whats the best way to go about doing this post divorce. ive decided on renting a room/hall as cheap as i can find and keeping it at neutral ground. ive invited my exhusband to be part of the planning process. i want him to be included and i want his family to ACTUALLY show up.
im pretty good on that whole plan but idk what to do with the current bf. hes become a big part of my daughters life and the ex knows about all of this and has accepted it. we both know the other is dating and its not a huge deal. im not sure if i should include the bf, maybe have him make a short appearance. or if i should exclude him completely.... anyone have a similar situation theyd like to share?
Re: first birthday party post divorce.....(and what to do with the current bf)
How long have you been divorced? I would say to ask him if he will be binging his girlfriend. I feel that either you both do it or neither does it or it could be really uncomfortable for everyone else there.
@Freeatlast2014 why the fuck would you text your stbxh? You have a restraing order saying you two can only talk about the kids. So im thinking joint birthday parties are a no and you are making it seem that you arent afraid of him. So what is it? Are you afraid of your stbxh or not?
I'm not crazy! Lol