I know many of us recently miscarried naturally or had a D&C (I have my D&C scheduled for Wednesday
), but for those who are a little further along...1. How long did it take for you to get your period?
2. Did you miscarry naturally or have a D&C?
3. How many cycles did you / are you planning to wait to start trying again?
4. T&P for you. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through and your loss.
Re: Period after a Miscarriage
08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN ,
10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
9/20/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d
10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
I'm sorry for your loss but please be aware that there is a very large number of woman on this board who are many months (even years) past their m/c. I know you did not mean your sentence to come off the way it did but it did rub me the wrong way.
As far as your questions:
With loss #1, I had a natural delivery at 20 weeks. My period returned at 27 days post-delivery. Loss #2 was a CP and I became pregnant again the following cycle. Loss #3 was at 9 weeks (sac measured 5). I miscarried naturally a week after I stopped my progesterone supplements. First period returned at a normal length of time for me.
Some woman have bodies that seem to bounce back to "normal" quickly. Quite a few have to wait a very, very long time for their first period post loss. It is also really common to discover that your body has a new normal.
Right now, get through the next few days. Allow yourself plenty of time to heal both physically and emotionally. Follow your doctor's orders and realize that you can even wait longer.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise