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i belong here...again... warning 3y/o in siggy

I went in for my ultrasound today and baby has no heartbeat and is smaller than it should be. Its eerily similar to my first pregnancy, even down to the date of the u/s. To top it all off my doctor hasn't called (my on sends us out for u/s). My guess is I'll have to choose between passing it naturally or a d&c. Last time I chose natural but I am considering a d&c if it means they will do testing. Mmc's only happen in 1% of pregnancies, how am I lucky enough to have 2? I wish none of us needed to be here.

Re: i belong here...again... warning 3y/o in siggy

  • Mills0401Mills0401 member
    edited August 2014
    I'm so sorry. I also wish none of us needed to be here.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. T&P
    Me - 35 DH - 41
    TTC 06.03.2013 
    BFP 06.15.2014  EDD 02.25.2015  MMC 07.07.2014 Miso 07.18.2014 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss
  • I am so sorry for your loss.


    BFP #1 12/02/11, M/C 12/08/11
    BFP #2 04/06/12, DD born 12/20/12
    BFP #3 06/09/14, M/C 06/15/14
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014

    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3: 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
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  • I am very sorry for your loss.

    *************Siggy Warning. Loss mentioned.************

    Me: 36, DH:37

    Married 4/2010, TTC since 7/2011

    Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)

    I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine

    4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)

    6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger

    IVF #1 in March 2014

    ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!

    ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN

    FET#1 5/28/14, 2 "beautiful" early blasts transferred. BFP!!

    Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.

    1st u/s (6/25/14) showed 2 sacs, 1 empty & 1 with a beautiful little bean doing what it needs to do!

    EDD 2/14/15, missed miscarriage, DX: Trisomy 21. D&C 8/1/14

    FET#2 Transferred 3 embies, 2 looking pretty good, one not so much. BFN.

    IVF#2 January 2015, tentative ER 1/23

  • I remember you from the March board.. S sorry to be seeing you on this one :( this is my 2nd m/c as well, and I also have a living child. It sucks.

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!


  • @LauraO11‌ With your MMC, did you have a D&C? With my first I waited it out. Idk if I can do it this time.
  • I'm very sorry for your loss.  I'm a multiple loss lady as well- it's heartbreaking.  I often ask myself how I can have such "terrible luck" (as the doctor's seem to think it is) that I've had 3 losses in a row, no living children, and nothing coming back as wrong in the testing.  Big ((HUGS)).
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