My 30th is coming up in November and everyone keeps asking what I want to do speacial. Idk!!! Originally when we first got married we said we'd celebrate our 5 yr anniversary and my 30th going back to maui. I'm no longer working and money is tight to say the least . I would live to go somewhere though. We were thinking Vegas . My hubby is not very romantic and he only does things that I specifically ask for. He doesn't take the time to make things speacial for me. I've accepted this a long time ago but I would like to do something nice. Not just dinner, I'm over it. I did tell him to forget about celebrating bc I don't want to hear him bitch about money . I'm sorta upset bc I think he's actually considering it. I didn't really mean it!! I hate to sound bitchy but it annoys me that he doesn't ever go out if his way to make my bday speacial, or vday or Mother's Day. Thanks!! My venting is over