I just had my second baby 2 months ago (2 girls) DD1 is 27months. I am feeling so much guilt about not having enough time for dd1, and then when I'm doing something with dd1 i feel like it's never good or fun enough and that now I'm not giving enough attention to dd2. dd2 is breastfeeding and I have been trying for 1 month to get her to drink bottles which sometimes it takes hours to get her to drink a bottle. i go back to work in 3 weeks. I know someone else is supposed to give the bottles but sometimes my husband is gone for over 12 hours. dd1 a pick eater and it's just getting worse and worse. I'm paranoid about everything being unsafe and just keep finding new things to toddler proof. I won't even get into that....DD1 and I used to go out and do fun things like mommy and me classes, walks, park, out to eat and now I feel so guilty for having the second one because I don't have time to do all these activities and poor second baby deserves more attention too. My husband doesn't care that the house is messy, not worried about the bottle situation or fact that 2 year old barely eats .He is just constantly trying to get me back into an exercise routine. Which I don't care about, I am almost back to my prepregnancy weight anyway because I barely eat. Right now he is at a dirt bike race 3 hours away. I am crying while DD1 watches blues clues and baby sleeps in my arms. We should be outside playing. I need to get up and do something fun with my daughter. I should probably see a therapist
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Re: my toddler makes me depressed
Anyone who has siblings, myself included, probably doesn't look back and say "mom didn't have time for me when my younger sibling was born or I didn't get enough one-on-one attention". I never looked at it like that.
I wouldn't even worry about working out and I can't give any advice on bottle feeding. Wish I could help.
Not sure how you feel when you get overwhelmed, but before I would get stressed when I'm overwhelmed, but now I seem to get really upset and feel sine and depressed. Totally different than before.