I've always rocked my son to sleep. Then the other night after I turned out his light and sat down in the chair he pointed straight to the crib and wanted to go to sleep there. Our rocking days are over (
When my older two were younger, I had an earlier bedtime for the younger one....so I did his bedtime snuggles first and then at dd's bedtime, I did dd's snuggles. We had a rule of sorts that they were not allowed to interrupt the other's snuggle time. It did mean that more of my evening was taken up with bedtime but the memories are worth it.
Re: Rocking a Toddler to Sleep
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