I know we all get sick of the "why don't you just adopt question". I was just curious what reason you give if you give or have one.
For us it started that ivf seemed like the solution for us having biological children. Now it's more that I just feel more comfortable w ivf using donor whatever, it's what we know at this point. Honestly it's also a $$ factor, we are in a guarantee program. I know "normal" people probably won't understand many reasons we have but I'm just curious if you'd share w me.
Also for the record I'm not saying I'd never pursue adoption, more "why" we aren't pursuing it now instead of DE or ivf
Also my race is next weekend!!! I'm really nervous because the heat kills me and I've been having some hip pain, but I'm going to run the whole thing if it kills me! Eek
Me(31). DH (31)
DH SA normal count and motility, 1% morphology
Me .72 AMH, Fragile X premutation carrier
IVF #1 (6/12/13) BFN
IVF #2 (8/16/13) BFN
FET 10/4/13 Chemical
IVF #3 MC 5 weeks 5 days
IVF #4 DE 11/7 BFP, edd 7/28/15