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JackoftheBox

So i am full of anxiety today and in such a bitter mood. I just talked to my coworker about leaving today and not coming back. She really wants me to stick it out and i want to for her only. But then i think if the shoe was reversed would she do the same?  I want to march down to HR and tell her that i quit. I should not have to feel this upset about work..... 

Please tell me what i should do. Tell me anything. Tell me to STFU... IDK i just need some direction. 

JackoftheBox

NamasteBiotches said:

What's going on at work that makes you want to leave early?

If it's that terrible that it's causing you to be stressed more days than not, just quit now (if you can afford to, of course.)

I'm what you call an "over analyzer" I have generalized anxiety, and i think i am just taking things to sensitively now. 

JackoftheBox

2013mommy said:

What has been going on? Has your boss been making it miserable since you gave your notice? Honestly, if you can afford to leave early just quit now. It is not worth extra stress and upset unless you need to absolutely do it for your family!

It's been miserable since last week when i had to call in for DS. 

Helenahhandbasket

Remind me when you last day is?

Either way-- don't think about it in terms of if your co -worker would do the same.  Think of it as part of keeping your bridges intact.

No matter how much you hate a job, or how awful it is-- just stick it out.  You don't want you leaving in an unprofessional huff to be the last memory your employeer or co-workers have of you.  The world is getting smaller and you never know when you may need a favor--professional or otherwise.

gwendarling

I would stay rather than burning that bridge down.

My last two weeks were horrible and I even cried a few times, but I'm glad I stuck it out without giving anyone a piece of my mind - in the end, I was able to leave in good terms, and that's all you want at this point

JackoftheBox

gwendarling said:

I would stay rather than burning that bridge down. My last two weeks were horrible and I even cried a few times, but I'm glad I stuck it out without giving anyone a piece of my mind - in the end, I was able to leave in good terms, and that's all you want at this point

I just spoke with my coworker again.... I got this.... I can do this... they can't run me off now!! Ok i shed a few tears and talked to you guys and a few others and i'm going to be OKAY!! Let's start a countdown!! 

8 days and counting.... 

meo34

I would stick it out. I have left jobs twice and my husband has 2 times as well but we stuck it out, took the high road and kept it professional. Although those being idiots wont acknowledge this, others will and your composure will speak for itself! Dont let then get to you.

jellybean529

Awwww. It's eight more days. You got this!

I have GAD too so I know how you feel

PB102012

I agree with everyone... Better not to burn that bridge. You can do it! It will be over before you know it.

gwendarling

JackoftheBox said:

gwendarling said:

I would stay rather than burning that bridge down.

My last two weeks were horrible and I even cried a few times, but I'm glad I stuck it out without giving anyone a piece of my mind - in the end, I was able to leave in good terms, and that's all you want at this point

I just spoke with my coworker again.... I got this.... I can do this... they can't run me off now!! Ok i shed a few tears and talked to you guys and a few others and i'm going to be OKAY!! Let's start a countdown!! 

8 days and counting.... 

get it girl!!! I know how awful it feels, but in a week and a half, you won't have to think about it anymore!

SEVEN more days now!