DH vent (probably long)

lazysusan

I need to vent so I don't have a stupid fight with DH.  It's usually the small stuff that seems to be the most frustrating.

I've been off this week.  I've been doing some dinners and most lunches, but don't feel like it's my "job" to do all the meals for the family.  Being PG I don't have much of a drive to cook (especially meat) He has that expectation, which is frustrating.  He's a SAHD, and will help with some dinners, but he feels like this week is his vacation too.  We have a ton of leftovers in the fridge.  He asked what's for dinner, and I gave him about 5-6 different options.  He said none of them were enough.  I had a sandwich, and DS had leftover mac and cheese.  I offered to cook him stoffer's pizza and the leftover wings, and he didn't want it.  He just went to the restaurant to get a pizza sub.  We eat out too much, and are trying to save money!  are you serious!?!?!  It's easier to drive out and eat something than to eat essentially the same thing at home??!!

The other day I was making PB&J for DS and I.  DH asked if he could have one.  I said sure.  I was already toasting my bread, so I just made his sandwich from what I had started.  He looked at me incrediously and said, "I hate toasted PB&J, you knew that!"  I had no idea, and if he's told me I didn't remember.  He than proceeded to bust right in as I was trying to make DS's sandwich being a martyr saying he would do it himself!  AAAARRRGGGHHH!  He doesn't see where I'm coming from at all.  Can you tell I'm hormonal?  I think he is too!

 

shopgirl78

I'm sorry he's being pissy. ?MH gets that way too