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I just couldn't resist

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So this morning at 10DPO I decided to poas & test with fmu. What a surprise BFN :(( . I have a shortened LP, so I hope my new RE can get that corrected. AF is due tmow & now I have to prepare myself, so in a few days I'll be doing my CD3 blood work & ultrasound. Looking forward to what else is my IF problem besides the LP deficient. So sick of seeing others preg who are overweight, drink, smoke, don't wanna be pg, or have health issues get pg with a snap of a finger. I'm gonna throw myself a pity party tonight, Moscato sounds like a remedy
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  • CaraHCaraH member
    Bummer. Moscato and chocolate, perhaps? I hope the RE can sort things out for you.
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    Thx @CaraH‌
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  • kelley72kelley72 member

    Sorry about today...Hope you get answers and a plan from RE!

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    :(

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    Darn it....I'm sorry :(
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  • massiahlmassiahl member
    edited May 2014
    Aww... >:D<  I'm so sorry.  I'm more of a red wine person myself - a good shiraz or cabernet never hurt anyone but Moscato sounds nice.  How about going all the way and treat yourself well tonight: a hot bath/shower with your favorite bath salts, good music, and add some biscotti and fruit tarts with that Moscato?  I agree with @CaraH: Chocolate is always a must! 

    Whatever it is that you have to do to get this out of your system and get you ready for what's ahead of you, do it!  Hopefully, this is the start of some positive, concrete next steps that move you closer to your having a healthy and safe pregnancy.  Focus on that and feel better! 
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    I'm sorry about the BFN.  I second the adding something sweet with the wine.  Hopefully you can get some real answers soon.
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member
    Ugh! I'm sorry about your BFN. My AF came early this month. Such a bummer. I LOVE me some Moscato!! Best of luck next month!! ;)
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    In the past I would have complete meltdowns crying buckets of tears. But this morning I was more or less accepting of it
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    I'm sorry for the BFN.  Have a good wine party and I hope you can get answers with your testing.
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    Sorry to hear you got a BFN.  Hopefully as you continue on to your RE you will get the answers and solutions you need.

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    Sorry Hun:( treat yourself nice tonight, and hopefully the Dr can help figure things out for next month!
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    I'm sorry about the BFN!

    Are you absolutely sure you're out?  I don't know much about short LP, but it seems like many people don't get BFPs until after 10 DPO, regardless of LP length.  Maybe AF won't show up as planned?


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  • Sherby613Sherby613 member
    Sorry to hear about the bfn. Hope you get answers from your upcoming testing and new RE.
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    edited May 2014
    I usually get AF on CD25. I just recently started temping, this is my third cycle. So I'm not sure if I've always had a short LP. Perhaps that explains why I've only been of twice in my life. At my RE apt the nurse asked me a few questions b4 I meet with the doc. She asked how many pregnancies, I replied "two ( 1 m/c & my son)". Then she asked, any abortions I gave her a puzzled look and said no. I guess some ladies have been around the block a few times. @Davie813‌ it would be great if the test was defective or AF doesn't show up. In the meantime I have to maintain happy positive thoughts
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    C_Girlie said:

    At my RE apt the NYSE asked me a few questions b4 I meet with the doc. She asked how many pregnancies, I replied "two ( 1 m/c & my son)". Then she asked, any abortions I gave her a puzzled look and said no. I guess some ladies have been around the block a few times.@Davie813‌ it would be great if the test was defective or AF doesn't show up. In the meantime I have to maintain happy positive thoughts

    We've _all_ been around the block a few times--that's why we're on TTC After 35. :) We bring a variety of experiences to this board, and having terminated a pregnancy is probably not an uncommon one . (The fact that we're all SO ready for a baby now doesn't mean we always were.)

    Yay for happy positive thoughts! We're pretty much cycle buddies. I'm on 11 dpo (bfn today--boo!)
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Ok @Davie813‌ we are true cycle buddies. Maybe one of us can beat the odds this cycle. No AF yet, so there's still a glimpse of hope for me, AF is due today do me. When is ur AF due? Keeping fingers crossed for the both of us and all others in our same situation
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    @C_Girlie‌, thanks! Mine isn't due til Mon. I'm out of bots, so maybe I'll leave it alone until then. Pretty sure I'm out at this pt, though.

    I'm glad AF isn't here for you yet--sounds promising! FX she stays gone!
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    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    @Davie813‌ remain positive. DH woke me up last night around 10 he asked "why have u been so sleepy, are u pg"? My answer was no ( he's not aware that I tested & got a bfn). Lol this morning he asks me again "are u feeling ok, why have u been sleeping a lot"? My response "idk, prob the allergy meds". Anyway my temps have been going up since I O'ed, I had a slight dip this morning but still well above my cover line. The pass few days CM went from creamy to wet. My CM never does that, but I still have my usual pre AF symptoms. I'm trying not to get my hopes up too high, don't wanna be disappointed
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  • RadiantlyRadiantly member
    C_Girlie and @Davie813‌ - i am also cycle buddies and today saw a little temp dip but within the range.  doesn't mean a thing... now that my app Kindara made sharing charts i have been stalking some that look similar to mine, and some that got pregnant, and they are all so different.  i've dipped before and always BFN.  my AF is due tuesday.  FX for us all!
    PS I have no symptoms whatsoever.
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    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Eh, AF showed up this morning, right on time.  Good luck to you @C_Girlie and @Radiantly, though!
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    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member
    @Davie813 - Sorry AF showed up! I feel your pain!
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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    Davie813 said:
    Eh, AF showed up this morning, right on time.  Good luck to you @C_Girlie and @Radiantly, though!
    @Davie813: Bummer. :-(

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  • thirtyninetofortythirtyninetoforty member
    So sorry :(
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    Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    @Davie813‌ we were true cycle buddies. My AF came yesterday morning too. Good luck to you @Radiantly‌ and all others. Tmow I do my CD3 blood work & sono, hopefully I can get some answers
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  • RadiantlyRadiantly member
    I tested last night with a digital and it said BFN.  today is 13DPO, so I've never gone past 13 days.  I still feel like I'm going to get AF any minute but there is nothing on the TP. I know the stats but is a false negative a possibility? 
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    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    I was told the digitals aren't that sensitive, so perhaps hope is still alive
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member
    @Radiantly - Re-TEST!!!!!! ;)
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Agree with @TAT2MAMI‌ retest or play the waiting game
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  • RadiantlyRadiantly member
    TAT2MAMI and all, sadly I got AF yesterday. It actually helped to have the BFN in advance, because I really didn't have much hope after that. 
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Radiantly said:
    TAT2MAMI and all, sadly I got AF yesterday. It actually helped to have the BFN in advance, because I really didn't have much hope after that. 
    Sorry to hear this. :(
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    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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    C_Girlie said:
    @Davie813‌ we were true cycle buddies. My AF came yesterday morning too. Good luck to you @Radiantly‌ and all others. Tmow I do my CD3 blood work & sono, hopefully I can get some answers
    @C_Girlie,

    I'm sorry to hear about AF. I hope that you are able to get some answers soon. Sending a hug!

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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Thx @URMySunshine77‌ I hope it can be corrected Time isn't on my side, I'm knocking on 38 in 2 months. @Radiantly‌ sry bout the results, good luck to u next cycle
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  • RadiantlyRadiantly member
    thanks ladies!!  with you another month :) that's the good news!  \m/
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member

    @Radiantly - Ugh.. I'm so sorry, girl! :(

    Let's hope that June is our month!! ;)

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    Radiantly said:
    thanks ladies!!  with you another month :) that's the good news!  \m/
    That is what I remind myself too, @Radiantly. :-)

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